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An apology (BFP mentioned)

I want say I am sorry.  I am sorry if I hurt anyone yesterday.  I took pink's post as "do not post about the positive test until you know for sure", not as "do not post period".  I would never have posted if I thought that's what she said.

 

I am sorry some of you on here thought I Was not helpful or supportive.  I came on and posted on others post that I could relate to, or give advice too.  I also sometimes just posted a nice word when I had time.  Mostly I just read posts and looked for people with similar stories.  If i had more time on here I would have been much more supportive.  

I probably asked more questions than I should have but I was at a very low point and confused about a lot of things. I did not appreciate how people would get mad at me when I said "I will call my Dr.".  I am glad I did ask my Dr because some people on here were not correct with their comments or advice. I was told spotting is not a new cycle.  It was for me.  I was told this second round of spotting also meant AF was coming...turns out it was implantation bleeding.  

I just think people on here should not be so quick to judge.  We all went through something horrible and should support each other.  I would never belittle anyone or make anyone feel less than they are yet there were a few on here who did that to me.  

Again I am sorry if I hurt anyone, and I really do wish all of you good luck with your journey to conceive. 

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  • This is not an apology.
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    Sooo... I'm sorry people were offended and you're all judgmental. Awesome apology. Thanks.

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  • Nice OP, real nice.  Somehow I don't think your return is as much about an apology for how you treated us, and its more another AW post to point out you are totes pg.  

    FX this pg sticks for you, because I'm not too sure you'll be welco


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    BFP #3  "Luna" EDD 03/31/14- MC 07/29/13 @ 5 w0d 
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    Why are you so dumb??

    This needs to be repeated. 

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    OMFG. Does everyone hate you in real life, too? You can't really be this awful all the time.

    You're ridiculo

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    Nice OP, real nice.  Somehow I don't think your return is as much about an apology for how you treated us

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  • Rude. I did not need this crap today.


                               
                  
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    She's so not worth it, ladies. (((HUGS)))

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    You are ridiculous.   That is not an apology to these ladies, but a slap in the face.  I can't believe you pulled this crap.  Oh wait, it's you.  Of course I can!  You need to leave t


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    DH: Low-T and borderline morph
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    I have been DYING to use this for awhile. And thanks for giving me the perfect excuse.

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    All testing shows both H and I are perfectly normal. Baby Nacho had triploidy. 
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  • And btw no one here claimed to know exactly what was happening in your body every friggin time you asked. Just simply offered advice based on personal experience. If you wanted straight forward answers from the beginning you should have seeked medical att

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  • Wait!?  You mean your Dr., with medical expertise, gave you better medical advice then some random strangers with no medical expertise?? That is down right crazy!! Are you serious?

    Oh you would NEVER belittle  or judge anyone?? Odd beca

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  • OMFG. You and your implantation bleeding can go take an effing hike. Seriously.

    Do you get off on annoying and hurting others???

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    BFP #1 ended in MMC. Discovered Oct 2005 @10w5d, baby stopped growing around 6w. D&C.
    BFP#2 Nov 2005. Baby's heart stopped @ 8w3d. D&C Jan 2006. Trisomy 18
    BFP#3 Nov 2006. My "miracle baby" DD born 7/25/07
    BFP #4 11/6/12. EDD 7/16/13~my birthday! No sac found @ 5w1d, betas not increasing. Natural m/c started 11/20/12.

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    BFP #2: 11/16/12, EDD 7/25/13, MMC 12/5/12, D&C 12/6/12, Complete molar pregnancy confirmed 2/9/13, benched for 6 months until  August 2013

    IUI #1, 8/16/13 Femara + Menopur, 3 mature follicles, BFN
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    IUI #3, 10/8/13 Femara + Menopur, six mature follicles, BFN

    BFP #3, 12/9/2013, while on treatment break, EDD: 8/22/2014  Please stick and grow, LO!

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  • Why I feel the need to even respond to this ridiculous post is beyond me, but I do.

    OP, you did not apologize. What you did was attempt to apologize only to turn and basically blame the ladies here for your behavior. That is unacceptable. You c


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    ♥BFP #2 "Offspring"- 11/10/12 | EDD: 07/25/13 | incomplete m/c 12/14/12 @8w1d | D&C 12/21/12♥
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  • UGH! I seriously don't know how to put it into words how incredibly idiotic you must really be, OP. This was in no way an apology. For all I care you and your implantation bleeding can go take a flying leap. The only reason for this post was so you cou

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    BFP #2 9/17/13 -- EDD 5/25/14-- CP confirmed 9/21/13
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  • I would like to think you are just ignorant or lacking an ounce of common sense.  However, the fact that you continue posting hurtful things on this board shows that not only are you an inconsiderate person, but you have absolutely no heart.
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    BFP #2 9/17/13 -- EDD 5/25/14-- CP confirmed 9/21/13
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    2/1/14 -- EDD 10/5/14 -- NMC 2/10/14

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  • I just joined the board today and introduced myself.  I am so glad to see these comments about this post.  

    At first, I only read the post and thought, this is NOT the right place for me.... THEN I looked further and it is super refresh

  • Lame.


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  • Are you freaking kidding me with this. Who are you? Do you honestly in your mind think this an apology? I can't even find the words right now as I write this. Just the fact that you mention your pregnancy/implantation bleeding alone on this board after
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  • I'm new to this board but that's a pretty sh!t apology if you ask me. Unless your a narcissist.  In that case, well done. I hope your BFP sticks but for someone who just lost their baby, their first baby, this is NOT what I needed to see today. 

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    Hx of Pulmonary Embolisms, Right Sided Heart Failure and Nephrotic Syndrome 2001
    Dx w/ Hashimotos 1998 * Dx w/ Systemic Lupus 2005 * Dx w/ PCOS 2012
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  • Dear ChiAmy, Please stop posting on TTCAL. I'm asking, pleading with you to stop. It is really hard to read about your BFP, implantation bleeding and see your happy little FF chart. It hurts. You are hurting us all. Please cease and desist from pos

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  • Congrats on your BFP. But as someone else said it's hard hearing about others BFPs when you've been trying and trying and either haven't gotten pregnant or have multiple losses. I can't take seeing BFPs that's why I moved to this site from BBC. I don't wa
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    BFP #2 11.2.12 EDD 7.14.13 MMC 6w5d discovered 8w6d 2 failed rounds miso D&C 12.27.12
    BFP #3 8.5.13 EDD 4.18.14 MMC 7w4d discovered 9.25.13 at 10w6d -Trisomy 13- 1 round miso & emergency D&C 10.2.13
    RPL Testing. DX Asherman's November 2013. Low AMH (0.44) January 2014. 
    Operative Hysteroscopy January 2014 to remove scar tissue.
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    BFP #2 February 2009 | m/c March 2009 | 4 weeks 3 days
    Testing on mom and dad for possible reasons all came back normal.
    BFP #3 8/4/2009 | DD born 3/28/10 @ 38 weeks
    BFP #4 5/13/11 | m/c 6/15/11 | 8 weeks 6 days
    BFP #5 2/13/13 | CP 2/19/13 | 4 weeks 
    BFP #6 3/21/14 | Heard the HB on 4/16 | m/c 4/21/14 | 9 weeks
    Testing results all returned normal and baby was a GIRL.
    More testing on mom and dad for other issues all returned normal results.
    BFP #7 10/15 | DS born 6/4/16 @ 36 weeks 
    BFP #8 9/28/17 AHHH!!!  |  EDD 6/6/18

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