re-Hello! Overthinking Lurker here

bsinno · April 2013

I frequented this board while waiting for my little August lady to arrive, but since then - you can usually find me judging peoples baby names on the bnb.

Anyway, I've been lurking around again lately, checking out the many august '11 moms who are pregnant again or TTC. I have serious baby on the brain right now, but my heart and head are really over thinking things

Heart: the time is NOW. this lil lady needs a sibling not too far apart in age. start TTC, have fun with it - no pressure! see what happens and crank it into high gear if nada has happened in the Fall

Head: Wait! what if you get pregnant on your first try! you dont want a winter baby, do you? How are you gonna handle 2 kids, P is still a baby!

needless to say, im driving myself insane. it was so much easier getting accidentally KU the first time! So...HELLO everyone! Aren't summer babies the BESTEST!?

*ps - i know there is a "babies on the brain" board but...not everyones so nice over there

melissa0726 · April 2013

Hi there!

DH and I were in the same boat not sure if we should go for it or wait. Well, we jumped right in - and it happened in the first month. I didn't even have time to consider paying attention to my cycles, sooooooooo, make sure

JaysonandKristin · April 2013

Once it happens, you just go with it.

My first was an accident. I was a HOT MESS!! But, he's the most awesome accident that's ever happened to us. Seriously. Now, we're nearly 3 deep.

You and DH will be

bsinno · April 2013

JaysonandKristin:
Once it happens, you just go with it.
My first was an accident. I was a HOT MESS!! B

countrywed · April 2013

I actually like winter babies. In my mind it is easier to keep them warm in lots of layers than worry about on a hot day on how much layers they need, if they are dehydrated, which sun screen to use.

And I thought about it and no mat

Monsieur_et_Madame_Ha · April 2013

Welcome back!

I just feel like there will always be good reasons to TTC or TTA. You just have to figure out which outweigh which (soooooo much easier said than done, right?).

Personally, I'd say go for it now. I mean, you could wait for the

ladybugpjb · April 2013

If you're in a good place financially, etc, and you want your kids close together, then go for it!

I've talked to a few people who waited longer (either by choice or bc they had miscarriages), and then the older child was potty trained and eating

kjgilhoo · April 2013

We got pregnant on the 2nd cycle this time as opposed to the 10th with DD. We were in the same boat as you. I wanted a summer baby again, but had no idea how long it would take.

We jumped right in and got our wish. I think if you're