September 2013 Moms

Just a thought

I am new to all this and a first time mom. I find this board a great and comforting resource to add to my collection.

Having said that, I find some I the responses people give to be very cold at times. I feel like we have a nice mix of moms here and that is valuable. Yes, some of us know more than others. Yes, some have been through a lot to get here. However, we are all blessed to be a part if a miracle. That has to warrant positive most of the time vibes. Some times due to working 5 jobs, I don't get in here for a week. I'm almost hesitant I post any question or statement I might have right away before scrolling through to check.

Thank you for all the great advice! Remember, we all have a lot going on and kindness goes a long way in the hormonal state we are in! I hope this doesn't offend. I mean it from a very understanding place.

Have a beautiful second trimester ladies!
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Re: Just a thought

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  • Eh, there's many different personalities in the world. Post what you want, get the answers you need and ignore the rest. Nothing on the Internet should be taken personally. Have fun and move on is what I try to do! 
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  • Oh lord, I swear we have one of these types of posts every other week or so and yet nothing has ever changed with the way anyone responds to posts. I think most of the regulars will agree, we don't blow glitter up anyones a$$ around here. If responses

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  • Kindness is always important.

    However it's also difficult because tone and inflection are nonexistent via written word.

    I appreciate the intent of the post.

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  • I agree not trying to baby anyone. I am well educated. Started reading up on things 2 years prior to trying. Just saying that everyone is different and you never know. Opinions are great and they DON'T have to agree. It's just the way. I don't really thi
  • As stated in the first paragraph I love this board. Wow that is not what I was saying at all. I even explained this. I have seen this type of post before. I just wanted to state my opinion. Sorry to be "one of those".
  • Just noticed you the other day and totally pegged you for the type would post this type of thing. 


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    I can't wait for the "im getting a divorce" post in 5 years or so because your husbands were fed up with your disgusting chair asses from playing on the knot all day and getting fired 4-5 times for not doing any work. you guys are all winners!! ~ Laur929

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    As stated in the first paragraph I love this board. Wow that is not what I was saying at all. I even explained this.<S


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    2 years, 2 surgeries, 2 clomid fails, 2 IUIs, 1 loss, IVF #1 - 10/25/10 = BFP!, DS is now 3.5yrs!
    TTC #2 - 6/12 surgery #3, FET #1 & 1.2 = BFN, 12/2012 FET #2 = BFP! DD is 1.5 yrs!
    Surprise! 12/16/14 BFP, loss #2 12/31/14

    I can't wait for the "im getting a divorce" post in 5 years or so because your husbands were fed up with your disgusting chair asses from playing on the knot all day and getting fired 4-5 times for not doing any work. you guys are all winners!! ~ Laur929

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    Just noticed you the other day and totally pegged you for the type would post this type of thing.nbsp;
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  • I love when the newbies with less than 50 posts all start these types of posts. Grow some thicker skin and move on. With that <img style="width:311px;height:311px;" align="middle" src="https://i0.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/newsfeed/000/207/234/you-must-be-n
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    As I don't know you and you don't know me please refrain from telling other adults how they should act and we should all get along.

    If someone told me this in real life it would be incredibly rude.




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  • Agreed people are just rude!!!
  • Alot of people on here are new to this and scared and have alot going on. No question is a stupid question. If you get annoyed at the same questions being asked maybe you shouldn't spend your whole day on here!!!
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    Agreed people are just rude!!!

    Well since we are all rude then feel free to GBCB!&nb

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  • Grow up!!! Your about to have a child!!!
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    Grow up!!! Your about to have a child!!!

    Are you talking to me? I don't know since y

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    Alot of people on here are new to this and scared and have alot going on. No question is a stupid question. I
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    imageXxBatvampgirlXx:
    Grow up!!! Your about to have a child!!!


    This is uncalled for.

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  • OP, if you've seen this kind of post before and you hesitate before posting things...then why did you bother with this post?

    #1) We are all adults (by age, anyway...) who have different personality types

    #2) If you don't like it here, there

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  • imageXxBatvampgirlXx:
    No question is a stupid question.

    Wrong.

  • Hahaha I don't understand what people think is going to come out of writing something like this. 
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  • Anyone who takes these post responses to the point where feelings are hurt, it may not be for you. Go call a close friend or family member...don't base your hopes and dreams off a group of hormonal ladies. With that being said, this board makes my day.

     

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  • Same post.
    Same responses.
    Same reactions.
    Same results.
    Different week.
  • imagestaceymack:
    Eh, there's many different personalities in the world. Post what you want, get the answers you need and ignore the

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    I need a bingo card.

    omg, brilliance 

  • Oh I forgot you know everything
  • I do not post much, which classifies me as a noob. However, I rarely see anyone put anything mean or offensive on here.

    What I do see are a lot of repeat questions, people asking for advice after already seeking advice from their doctors, an
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  • imageXxBatvampgirlXx:
    Grow up!!! Your about to have a child!!!

    Ahem... YOU'RE!

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  • Really? Another one of these posts? Ugh
  • Cue eye rolling.
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