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Phantomgirl
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and then the bad
Phantomgirl
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DH acted like a complete azz this weekend. I was so mad at him and we had a huge fight.
Firstly he was supposed to collect SS at 2pm on Saturday. I was going to but he said SINCE HE WAS OFF he woudl do it. He didn't collect him until 5.30pm. So I am sure BM is thinking screw them, give an inch and they take a mile. I was annoyed as I worked bloody hard to get back to a place of being friends with her again.
On sunday morning he got a call from the alarm company to say that his moms alarm was going off. She was at church so he decided to go to her house.
He didn't come back for almost 2 hours!
I was mad as hell BUT I didn't say a word as I wanted to have a nice day with SS and we had just had a lovely chat.
When DH came home I asked him what he wanted to do for the rest of the day as we had SS for the whole day. He replied that he was dropping SS home and he was going swimming. He said this in front of SS!
I asked SS if he wanted to do something with me but he said no he would just go home and play with his friends.
I ended up dropping DH to the gym and SS home. I did some grocery shopping and collected DH. I was 10 mins late and he slammed the door of the car and started to *** me out for being late.
BIG f**cking mistake! I lost it with him. I called him a selfish, self centered b**tard. I told him how dare he treat SS like that.
He said he was p!ssed at SS and I because - get this for childish - neither of us text or called him to see if he was OK when he was in his moms. For all we knew he could have been dead on the ground (attacked by someone breaking in). FFS! I told him to get over himself.
He saids that SS smart answered him that morning and that I started to laugh. He sais that I am sarcastic at times and SS gets it from me.
He said even his sister called him to see if he was OK. Yes BSC sister! I told him that the day he finds a similarity between me and her is the day I will be offended. I also told him if he wanted to go the route of comparing me to his family that I will hold him up in the light of my father and see how he compares.
When we got home I was in the kitchen and I was so mad I was actually crying. He came in and I told him to please give me space as I had had enough of him. He backed off. After a half hour or so he came to me really upset and trying to hug me. He was so sorry for treating ME that way.
I asked him how he felt about how he had treated SS. He didn't even reply.
I am still upset two days later. I am off Friday and I am going to ask BM if I can take SS for the day BUT he seriously needs to apologise to him - for the last 11 years of his life!
O and in the midst of our argument he tried t go the route of teling me his lack of bond with SS is BM's fault because she 'tricked him'. (violins anyone!) I just gave him the death look and he dropped that one.
So yea of our 48 hours parenting time we took 22 of them!
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Re: and then the bad
Oh, I would be furious. Especially to have him complain to you about being late! OMG.
I see you're in Ireland, is YH Irish? My XH is Irish, and I have noticed that culturally, Irish men generally treat kids as the woman's territory, and are allowed to get away with it. I wonder if you guys are not on the same page re: his relationship w
BFP #1 11/07/2012 EDD 07/09/2013 M/C 11/22/2012
BFP #2 02/05/2013 EDD 09/19/2013 Arrived via c-section 09/27/2013
and maybe throw a shoe