'unplanned' pregnancy

Re: 'unplanned' pregnancy

• sorrellam30 member

  March 2013

  A girl I used to babysit just gave birth to her accidental pregnancy...I'm sure it's mean to say but the whole situation depresses me! Ugh

   

  
  

   

  

   

   

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   Me(31). DH (31)

  DH SA normal count and motility, 1% morphology
  Me .72 AMH, Fragile X premutation carrier
  IVF #1 (6/12/13) BFN

  IVF #2 (8/16/13) BFN

  FET 10/4/13 Chemical

  IVF #3 MC 5 weeks 5 days

  IVF #4 DE 11/7 BFP, edd 7/28/15

  All Welcome

  
  

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• katmarso member

  March 2013

  Definitely not hormonal or overly sensitive.  Lol!   I have to close friends currently pregnant and they are both claiming they were on BCP when they got pregnant.  Even though I know it isn't true, it's really hard to hear them tell p

  TTC since 9/2011

  IVF #3 w/ICSI = 9/2013 = BFP!   Beta #1 9/9: 79, Beta #2 9/12: 441

  EDD: 5/20/14

  
  

  
  
  
  

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• melkel559 member

  March 2013

  My friend was just telling me about her friend who didn't know she was pregnant until she was 8 months along. I guess those "I didn't know I was pregnant" shows are true after all. I want to throat punch all of those b!tches haha

  TTC since June 2011
  DX: DH (30) severe MFI, severely low count & low motility
  Me (32): all clear
  Appt with Urologist 5/21/12: exam, ultrasound, bloodwork all normal.
  Testicular Biopsy with TESE on 6/8/12. good sperm found! (left side only) froze sperm, failed thaw test
  Orientation for IVF/ICSI on 6/13/12. Waiting for the green light following biopsy results...results show adequate sperm production both sides.
  2nd SA 6/18/12: sample is "adequate for ICSI"
  Plan: IVF/ICSI July 2012!
  ER: 7/26/12. 15 eggs retrieved, all mature.
  TESE/TESA/aspiration from epididymis, no motile sperm found
  froze all eggs, the saga of praying for good sperm continues.
  8/3/12: 2nd opinion from MFI uro on biopsy slides. Suspects "partial late maturation arrest."
  Plan: more SAs, third biopsy/TESE with frozen back-up either from DH or DS.
  SA 8/17/12: Zero sperm
  SA 8/23/12: Zero sperm
  9/26/12: SPERM FOUND! 15 eggs thawed, 12 survived and were ICSI'd, only 3 fertilized normally. Refrozen as embies and will thaw in Nov. Please survive and grow!
  All 3 survived the thaw on 11/15/12!
  FET 11/17/12: transferred 2, one 4B, one 4C. Beta 11/30:BFFN
  moving on to DS
  DIUI#1 2/18/13,50mg Clomid cd 3-7, Ovidrel trigger, Beta 3/4/13: BFN.
  DIUI#2 3/19/13, 50 mg Clomid cd 3-7, Ovidrel trigger, Beta #1 (14dpiui) 4/2/13: BFP!!!! 150. Beta #2 4/4/13: 420 Beta #3 4/8/13: 2691. Beta #4 4/15/13: 15,086
  1st u/s 4/8/13 shows one gestational sac
  2nd u/s 4/15/13 shows yolk sac, fetal pole and early heartbeat
  3rd u/s 4/25/13: measuring right on track. Heart rate 148 bpm
  A/S 7/22/13: IT'S A BOY!!
  PAIF/SAIF Always Welcome
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• twistsandturnsto2 member

  March 2013

  melkel559:

  My friend was just telling me about her friend who didn't know she was pregnant until she was 8 months along. I guess th

  Me: 37, DH: 35 :: TCC since 2/11 SA: Perfect! CD3  HSG = Blocked Right Tube
  

  April- Femara 2.5mg + Trigger + IUI = BFN   May- Femara 5mg = CX - No Response on Left = BFN
  June- Femara 7.5mg + Trigger + IUI = BFN  August- Lap & Hysteroscopy = Blocked & Partially Blocked Tubes
  September- Femara 5mg = CX - No Response on Left = BFN  October- 100mg Clomid + Trigger + TI = BFN
  IVF # 1: Stims 11/30 ER 12/12/12! (10R, 10M, 8F, 2T, 6 F) :: Beta #1- 176  c/p @ 4w4d
  FET #1 February 26th :: Lost 4 to Thaw, Transferred 2 = BFFN
  IVF # 2 Stims 5/10 ER 5/21 (15R, 13M, 13F, 2T, 7F- 6d3 & 1d5) :: Beta # 1- 15 c/p @ 4w
  

  FET #2 Cancelled, Right Tube Developed a Hydro  8/28 Hydro & Scar Tissue Removed  Cleared for FET
  FET #2.2 Scheduled for September 20th
  2 Thawed, 2 Transferred! Beta #1- 96, Beta #2 906! :: EDD June 10th
  2015- 2 failed FET. We are done
  SURPRISE! BFP 8/8/16   EDD 4/1/17
  

  
   
  

  
  
  
  

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• melkel559 member

  March 2013

  twistsandturnsto2:

  melkel5

  TTC since June 2011
  DX: DH (30) severe MFI, severely low count & low motility
  Me (32): all clear
  Appt with Urologist 5/21/12: exam, ultrasound, bloodwork all normal.
  Testicular Biopsy with TESE on 6/8/12. good sperm found! (left side only) froze sperm, failed thaw test
  Orientation for IVF/ICSI on 6/13/12. Waiting for the green light following biopsy results...results show adequate sperm production both sides.
  2nd SA 6/18/12: sample is "adequate for ICSI"
  Plan: IVF/ICSI July 2012!
  ER: 7/26/12. 15 eggs retrieved, all mature.
  TESE/TESA/aspiration from epididymis, no motile sperm found
  froze all eggs, the saga of praying for good sperm continues.
  8/3/12: 2nd opinion from MFI uro on biopsy slides. Suspects "partial late maturation arrest."
  Plan: more SAs, third biopsy/TESE with frozen back-up either from DH or DS.
  SA 8/17/12: Zero sperm
  SA 8/23/12: Zero sperm
  9/26/12: SPERM FOUND! 15 eggs thawed, 12 survived and were ICSI'd, only 3 fertilized normally. Refrozen as embies and will thaw in Nov. Please survive and grow!
  All 3 survived the thaw on 11/15/12!
  FET 11/17/12: transferred 2, one 4B, one 4C. Beta 11/30:BFFN
  moving on to DS
  DIUI#1 2/18/13,50mg Clomid cd 3-7, Ovidrel trigger, Beta 3/4/13: BFN.
  DIUI#2 3/19/13, 50 mg Clomid cd 3-7, Ovidrel trigger, Beta #1 (14dpiui) 4/2/13: BFP!!!! 150. Beta #2 4/4/13: 420 Beta #3 4/8/13: 2691. Beta #4 4/15/13: 15,086
  1st u/s 4/8/13 shows one gestational sac
  2nd u/s 4/15/13 shows yolk sac, fetal pole and early heartbeat
  3rd u/s 4/25/13: measuring right on track. Heart rate 148 bpm
  A/S 7/22/13: IT'S A BOY!!
  PAIF/SAIF Always Welcome
  [IMG]http://i49.tinypic.com/2qmon5u.jpg[/IMG] [IMG]http://i225.photobucket.com/albums/dd243/laurakat24/turkeybaster-1.jpg"[/IMG]
  

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• asr988

  March 2013

  I hear you. It seems like all the girls I work with are pregnant. They all say "it must be something in the water, lol" well I must be drinking the wrong water then.

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• BeckyP005 member

  March 2013

  My one hairdresser told me the other day she was PG. Young and just met boyfriend about 9 months ago. I said was it planned? She said no...laughing. I said did you ever hear about birth control?

  ME:46 MH:44 DE IVF 2014
  Met with RE 4/11. 2 IUI's BFN. DE best option. Switched clinics to do "shared" program. Had to retake all tests and a mamm that put me behind and then on a DE waiting list for 12 months. Picked a donor!! (10/13/13) Got matched. Estimated transfer in December. After 2.5 years of patiently waiting I will finally cycle....can hardly believe it. DE cycle got cancelled. One of her tests came back positive.  Waiting for another donor. Donor picked!! (1/18/14)

  DE IVF #1 (4/26) BFN  DE FET #1 (6/4) BFP! Beta 1=339 Beta 2=852 Beta 3=9957 EDD 2/22/15!!

  
  

   

   

        
          

  
  

  
  

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• thebeefamily member

  March 2013

  No you're not being hormonal or overly sensitive. Most people crinkle up their nose whenever a woman or couple proclaims their pregnancy was unplanned or unwanted. I had an old BFF cry a river of tears during her second pregnancy because she didn't want h

  TTC my #1 with PCOS since June 2010.

  Countless Clomid&Femara Cycles.
  

  Feb. 2014-April 2015=AF arrived on time. 

  EDD: January 14, 2016. Finally.

  Expecting One Healthy Baby Girl!!!

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• katka512 member

  March 2013

  You aren't overly sensitive! My nephew was wanted but unplanned. My SIL stopped taking BCP because they made her feel sick and got pregnant immediately! Now she likes to ask me all the time when my nephew will have a cousin! Next time I want to just tell

  TTC since December 2011
  Me: 29 ovulatory disorder
  DH: 30 MFI - low everything
  
  IUI #1: 11/5/12 BFN
  December IUI cancelled due to cyst
  IUI #2: 1/8/13 BFN
  
  IVF in April 2013 transferred one beautiful blast on 4/13
  Beta #1 4/22: BFP!! 33 Beta #2 54 Beta #3 70 Beta #4 83 Beta #5 105. Possible ectopic, MTX and M/C 5w4d
  
  FET 6/21 - Beta #1: 79 BFP!! Beta #2: 253 U/S 7/12: saw the sac! U/S #2 7/19 great heartbeat of 127!! U/S #3 heartbeat of 154! U/S #4 graduated to OB
  
  EDD 3/9/14
  
  
   
  
  

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• futurehuber member

  March 2013

  Ugh, those are the worst.  I react the same way.  Sorry for the bad news. Hope your (planned) time is soon!
  

  TTC #1 since Sept 2011
  Me: 33, DH: 35, DX: PCOS & MFI (low everything)
  IUI #1-3 - Low Post-Wash Counts - All BFNs
  IVF #1 w/ ICSI: Long Lupron Protocol - Freeze-All Cycle due to Severe OHSS
  ER 4/27, 33 Eggs Retrieved, 13 Frosties
  FET #1 6/5, Transferred One Perfect 4AA Blast, HPT BFP @ 6dp5dt
  Beta #1 - 209, Beta #2 - 508, Beta #3 - 1,059
  EDD 2/20/14
  
  

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• mkepanther member

  March 2013

  asr988:

  I hear you. It seems like all the girls I work with are pregnant. They all say "it must be something in the water, lol" wel

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• mfarmer0811 member

  March 2013

  I'm really sorry!! I know exactly how you feel!!! IF totally sucks!! It take the joy out of so many things!!!!!!!
  I literally just had a friend from HS message me on Facebook randomly, telling me about some silly dream, and then proceeds to me, Oh by

  Me 28 DH 30 Married 08-11-07 TTC since 07/11 HSG 01-21-13 Left FTB Seeing RE 1-28-13 RE 1-28-13 Both tubes blocked LAP surgery 2-15-13 Both tubes removed Started IVF #1 June 2013 Meds: BCP, Lupron, Gonal-F, Ovidrel, Medrol, Doxycycline
  

  Beta #1-BFP!!! HCG-55 Beta #2--111 Beta #3--2,825 Beta #4 22,031 1st U/S 7-29-13 Saw and heard our little sweet pea's heartbeat!! 109 bpm 
  
  

  
  

  
  

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• shewolf576 member

  March 2013

  Its like there are people who just don't need kids or any more kids and they seem to be preggo every time I turn around.  I love i when they say, well I didn't want another baby but you know it jus happens.  I want to hit them with something.&nb

  Married since 2004 Primary POF Foster parent but have no had an adoption trying embryo adoption Just want a forever baby RE jacksonville FL FIRM

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• Carolina Blue Skies member

  March 2013

  I saw my eye doctor recently who just had her 3rd (a boy after having 2 girls).  I said, "So, were you trying one more time in hopes of having a boy?" and she responds, "Actually, we weren't trying at all & I was on birth control.  It was a

  My TTC Journey:
  Dx: Hypothalamic amenorrhea / mild PCOS (Pretty much a hormone/ovulatory disorder)
  Progesterone to induce period w/ the goal of Clomid - never got period (September 2011). Referred to RE.
  Femera - never responded to the meds (December 2011)
  Clomid with TI - BFN (February 2012)
  Injectables (Menopur) - hyperstimulated/canceled (March 2012)
  Injectables #2 (Menopur) with TI- BFN (May 2012)
  IVF - OHSS (transfer canceled), but 11 frozen! (June 1012)
  FET - 1 transferred on 8/09/12. Beta#1 (11dp5dt): 350.3; Beta#2: 365; Beta#3: 157. Biochemical pregnancy.
  FET # 2 - 1 transferred on 11/01/12. Beta#1 (11dp5dt): 337; Beta#2: 769. BFP!!! 1st ultrasound 11/28/12 showed heartbeat, but measuring 5 days behind. 2nd ultrasound 12/05/12 - miscarriage.
  FET # 3 - 1 transferred on 1/24/13. Beta#1 (11dp5dt): BFN.
  FET # 4 - 2 transferred on 3/21/13.  Bet #1 (11dp5dt): 660; Beta#2: 1,300.  Miscarried at home @ 6 weeks.

  FET # 5 - 2 transferred on 7/12/13.  Beta #1 (10dp6dt): BFN.
  Attempted an IUI in late August 2013, but didn't respond well.
  IVF #2 with PGS - Stims started 10/28 with retrieval on 11/11.  Of 14 mature eggs, 10 fertilized, 4 made it to Day 5 & 1 made it to Day 6. We did PGS on the Day 5 embryos, and 3 of 4 were normal. Had ET on 11/17. Beta #1 (8dp6dt): 203. Beta #2 (10dp6dt): 618. We since had two ultrasounds & on 12/19, our RE released us to the OB.  On 1/02/14, we had our first ultrasound with the OB where we heard the heartbeat.  We are so thankful for the blessing & crossing every finger & toe for a healthy & successful pregnancy.
  

  
  

  

   

  

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• trisholio member

  March 2013

  It is difficult to hear.  I have a niece that is 22 and she has three kids with three different dads.  I just want to ask her if she has ever heard of birth control.

  It is frustrating! 

  T & G My wife and I married 9/10/11 in Niagara Falls, NY

  HSG 12/12/12        

  #1 ICI 12/15/12              BFN on 12/29/12

  #2 ICI  1/11/13                BFN 1/28/13                       

  #3 ICI 2/11/13                 BFN

                 

  #4 ICI August 2013,  Clomid 100mg    BFN on 8/30/13 

  #5 ICI September-Clomid 100,  mg ICI 8/15 and 8/16,  BFN on 9/3
  

  #6 ICI October-Clomid 150 mg for 5 days   BFN 10/27
  

  uterine laparoscopy on 11/14-no endo or cysts
  

  #7 IUI December-Clomid 150mg    BFP 12/21

  12/23 Beta 51     12/26 Beta 209!

  First ultrasound on January 8th 2014-great healthy heartbeat

  Second Ultrasound January 23 (8 weeks) we got to see and hear the heartbeat

  Third Ultrasound Feb 4th(10 weeks), then will  released to OBGYN'

  It's a GIRL!

  We welcomed Adalyn Cooper Elizabeth on 8/29/14

  She was 7lbs 11oz and 19.6 inches long

  
  

  Proud foster parents to two little girls ages 2.5 yrs old, M,  and 1 year old, K

  
  

  
  

  
  

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• ooopsididitagain

  July 2013

  I understand its hard to hear about an unplanned pregnancy when u want a child so badly, but unplanned pregnancies are a reality. I'm living it right now and it's very, very hard.

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