TTC After a Loss

Intro, TFAS, and thoughts? (*TFAS mentioned*)

I'll say it first, I have two healthy kids, but I have always imagined more so perhaps that makes me greedy ... I am still figuring out my feelings and probably that is not the right word, but I can't think of a better word right now.

That said, we have been TTC since Jan 2012.  I had a mm/c at 11 weeks (my second one) in Sept 2012. It took me 7 cycles to get pregnant that time. We took off 2 months, then got pregnant again 4 cycles later, which recently ended in a c/p.

I spoke with my OB GYN and they suggested I see a RE, since I have been TTC over a year and had 2 m/c in a row (3 overall).

I am having a hard time taking this next step.  I am not sure that I would want to go through invasive or hormonal procedures to get pregnant. I am grateful for what I have, but just have always dreamed of a bigger family.  However, if there is something wrong with me that won't allow me to sustain another pregnancy I would like to know.

I feel torn and am just wondering if anyone else is going through this and what thoughts are running through your mind.

Anyway- long post/intro. I have been lurking and minimally posting on this board since my first m/c in 2010 ... i think it is time to make an official intro - Hi everyone! 

DS 3.7.09
mm/c 5.3.10 at 10 weeks
DD 4.1.11
mm/c 9.25.12 at 11 weeks
c/p 3.20.13
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Re: Intro, TFAS, and thoughts? (*TFAS mentioned*)

  • Welcome and I'm sorry for your losses.

    I would suggest going to see an RE for a consultation and testing at least. It wasn't until I saw an RE that I found out I had fibroids, something that was relatively easy to address. It never hurts to get

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