Hi everyone! I am a SAHM to one beautiful baby girl. She was our honeymoon baby. I am an only child myself.
After a miserable pregnancy with crippling depression and anxiety from the 2nd trimester on which has yet to let up I have lost all desire to have more children as originally planned. The thought literally makes me short of breath and I burst into tears. My husband seems to think I'll change my mind once I'm "better." Um, no. But that does succeed in making me feel worse. He says it's up to me but I feel like I'm failing him by not giving him more babies. It doesn't help that where we live everyone has 3 or 4.
I was SO happy to see this board because I desperately need a place where people don't talk about "when you have the next one" like it's set in stone.
Welcome! Having a rough time while pregnant can sure throw off the plan to have more, I hear ya!!
"You and me together can do anything, baby!!" DMB
Married October 16th, 2010
TTC #1 since October 2010
1st BFP 1-12-11
MC'd 1-22-11
2nd BFP 2-15-11
Our Wee One....**KENNEDY JO** born 10/3/11@ 36weeks via Csection My BFP Chart
Labor Buddy to **MRS.ATCH** Welcome Quinn 11-5-11**
Hi and welcome! I'm so sorry about everything that has gone on. I agree with M&M that your husband should really be more supportive of how you are feeling.
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DS born via unplanned C-section at 40w6d
Married October 16th, 2010
TTC #1 since October 2010
1st BFP 1-12-11
MC'd 1-22-11
2nd BFP 2-15-11
Our Wee One....**KENNEDY JO** born 10/3/11@ 36weeks via Csection
My BFP Chart
Labor Buddy to **MRS.ATCH** Welcome Quinn 11-5-11**
Hi and welcome! I'm so sorry about everything that has gone on. I agree with M&M that your husband should really be more supportive of how you are feeling.
I am also an only child!