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How many of you let your Husband choose the name?

A part of me was happy to see my hubs be so involved in baby names (he downloaded a baby name thing on his computer that generates thousands upon thousands of names), since this is his and my first child and it is a boy... I decided to let him choose the first name.

He chose Connor. Out of like five he chose from the beginning.

Now we took some time looking for a middle name he chose Alexander... I chose Ares (was going to start a tradition where all my kids had Greek God middle names, silly I know lol)... my mother and aunt sided with him and loved the middle name Alexander.

So, being the extreme nice person I am.. I let my guy fully name our son, Connor Alexander Lattea.

I am just wondering about the nick names for Connor or his whole name... I do like C.A.L. 

 
 
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  • We are only TTC, not pregnant yet.  But no, I wouldn't do this. It's a joint decision in my book.  But whatever works for ya! :)
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  • My husband and I decide on names together. We both have to agree on a name or we toss it out. He did pick DD2's name and I loved it so it worked.

    Connor Alexander is a great name and I don't think Connor needs a nn. Cal would be cool, though. </

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  • I like it, which is why I didn't fight it much. I also told him I was going to have more say next time though, all the names I chose he liked them... just he suddenly came to me one day with that full name and was smitten with it.
     
     
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  • imageRunningErica:
    We are only TTC, not pregnant yet.  But no, I wouldn't do this. It's a joint decision in my book.  But

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  • I always secretly loved the name Reese. However, my husband brought the name up. Needless to say, as soon as he brought it up, I completely agreed. 
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  • Our first child is named after him. I agreed to it, but, yeah, I'd say it was his choice. My condition was I named any other children but he'd have veto power.

    I really like Connor and Cal is a cute nickname.

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  • not me.  DH has been stuck on a name each time that I'm not fully on board with and it takes forever to pick a name.  Last time he was stuck on Luke this time it's Emma.  I'm willing to compromise and consider Emilia with Emma as a possible
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    not me.  DH has been stuck on a name each time that I'm not fully on board with and it takes forever to pic
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  • We made the decision together. If one of us didn't like a name then we took it off the list.

     

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    We made the decision together. If one of us didn't like a name then we took it off the list.

     

  • DH picked DDs first name, I had veto power, but he was stuck on it, so I let him have it.  This time around, we both really like our DSs name.  If we ever have a third I get naming rights. 
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  • I definitely wouldn't do that, I think DD would have ended up with a really ridiculous name. 

    Connor is nice, though. While it doesn't *need* a nickname, I like Cal. 


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  • Bless you, I could never allow MH to decide our child's name on his own. I feel like it needs to be mutually agreeable, if not mutually loved.
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  • I couldn't do this. I feel like H and I have different naming styles and I'm not sure he'd pick a name anyway.. even if I told him it was his choice. I'd like o be in the decision making process.
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  • Are you going to regret later down the road that you didn't have more input in the name? I mean, it is your first child. I personally think that is a little ridiculous...

    I definitely would not just let my husband pick the name. I might give him

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  • In our house its a joint decision
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  • imageChristyML:

    Are you going to regret later down the road that you didn't have more input in the name? I mean, it is your first c

     
     
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  • imagelisa2008boo:

    I think it is great he wants to be involved. Some guys don't care be glad he does. 

    He has good taste

     
     
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  • I will never understand this question. Why can't you both pick out a name together? Why does one person have the right to choose the name over the other?
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    I will never understand this question. Why can't you both pick out a name together? Why does one person have the ri
     
     
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  • He chose the name. At first I wasn't on board with it, but seeing how much he liked it, it grew on me and let him keep the name for our son. A bunch of factors, such as trying to get him involved as much as I can, him being our first son, etc... also m

     
     
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    He chose the name. At first I wasn't on board with it, but seeing how much he liked it, it grew on me and let

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  • Nope, I don't need validation. Like my subject line reads, how many people let their husband choose the name of their child?

    I know a lot of women who write down a list of names they chose and hand it to their husband to choose from, but what I

     
     
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  • imageMoidonna:
    OP, I almost get the impression that you are not really okay with the name and you are hoping posters on this bored
     
     
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  • Connor Alexander sounds really nice.

    DH choose DS's first name (I didn't not like it, but wasn't in love) and middle name fit both families traditions. 

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  • We make the decision together in that we both suggest names and either add them to a list or veto and forget about them.  I happen to suggest way more than him, lol.  For DD, it was a name I suggested and he happened to really like it. 

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    We made the decision together. If one of us didn't like a name then we took it off the list.

     

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  • We had an agreement that my husband would have the final decision for the first baby and I would pick for the second. He picked lo1 firs name and lo2 middle name. I picked the opposites. We threw out all names either of us hated and went from a common lis
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  • To me, I think that there should certainly be a discussion, but I do think that one parent tends to "get their way" in most cases.  I would guess that very rarely do two people find one name that is both of their #1 favorite.

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    To me, I think that there should certainly be a discussion, but I do think that one parent tends to "get their w

     
     
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  • imagelisa2008boo:

    Sad but some of the women in here come off as control freaks who do not trust their husbands at all. 

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  • Our first son will be named after DH. He's a 3rd and he wants a 4th. I have known this since we were dating and, although it wouldn't be my first choice, I support him fulfilling this life-long dream of his and I can live with it.

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  • I didn't "let" DH choose our kids' names because that seems to imply giving him permission of some sort.  We both came to the table with names and compromised and ultimately chose names we thought would suit our girls.  We're doing the same thin
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  • imagelisa2008boo:

    Sad but some of the women in here come off as control freaks who do not trust their husbands at all. 

     
     
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  • imagesweetpea2003:

    To me, I think that there should certainly be a discussion, but I do think that one parent tends to "get their w

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