I have been lucky and up until now had a kid that for the most part loves her sleep. Ever since Sunday though, she has been fighting sleep. Monday night she was put in bed at 8 and didn't actually fall asleep until 11:30. It's already impossible for me to get anything done with her and a newborn, and the fits at night really aren't helping.
For the past two days she has also refused to eat dinner. I am huge believer that you can't force a 2 year old to eat things they don't like, you offer it and if they don't eat it, that's their choice. I do try to cook meals I know she will eat, and she usually does great. But last night and tonight she refused to eat two of her favorite meals (chicken and rice with peas, and macaroni and cheese). I was able to get her to take a few bites tonight, and now she is whining because she is hungry, and I am torn. Do I bite my lip and allow her to eat what she wants, teaching her that she doesn't have to eat the meals I make and eventually if she whines enough she'll get what she wants...or do I send her to bed hungry. I know she isn't "starving", she had probably four bites of her food, but I feel terrible listening to her cry like that. I know it is most likely her way to avoid bed for that much longer...WWYD?
Re: My sleepless monster.