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Pregnancy Depression

Brittburns24Brittburns24
in August 2013 Moms
I've been incredibly "not myself" since I've become pregnant. I was hoping, once I got into my 2nd trimester, that I would feel that energy and spunk, but I just can't seem to find enthusiasm about anything and I'm extremely sad all the time! Has anyone had this with their 1st pregnancy, or is it something I should worry about?
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Re: Pregnancy Depression

  • thellxthellx member
    It's normal to have mood changes because of all the hormones, but I'd mention it to your doctor.
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  • gnomelygnomely member

    Yes, I had it with my first pregnancy. I was depressed, anxious and emotional. Looking back, it was reckless that I didn't seek out help. I felt ashamed that I didn't feel over-the-moon. I also thought I should have 'toughed it out'.  That depression translated into pretty severe PPD. Really, I should have gotten counseling from the moment I knew there was a problem (around 14 weeks). 

    My advice? Get help. Even if you think you don't 'need' it, an objective observer (counselor, social worker, etc.) can help you process the changes that are happening to you, your body, your relationships and your life. Also, tell your OB/MW that you're struggling so they can keep tabs on you now and postpartum.


    DD1 (b. 8/16/2010)
    DD2 (b. 9/04/2013)
    BFP 2/25/12, m/c @ 6w 3d || BFP 8/1/12, m.m/c @ 9w5d
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  • HannahsHopeHannahsHope member
    imagemeegie-lee:

    Yes, I had it with my first pregnancy. I was depressed, anxious and emotional. Looking back, it was reckless that I didn't seek out help. I felt ashamed that I didn't feel over-the-moon. I also thought I should have 'toughed it out'.  That depression translated into pretty severe PPD. Really, I should have gotten counseling from the moment I knew there was a problem (around 14 weeks). 

    My advice? Get help. Even if you think you don't 'need' it, an objective observer (counselor, social worker, etc.) can help you process the changes that are happening to you, your body, your relationships and your life. Also, tell your OB/MW that you're struggling so they can keep tabs on you now and postpartum.

      This! Totally. Its a topic that not many women are comfortable talking about, especially to other pregnant Moms, and/or current Moms that have never experienced it, so I commend your reaching out. I was on zoloft after my last pregnancy, after a battle with post-partum depression that was indescribable. I had little/no bond with my baby (which I am petrified will happen again). Anyways, I had to stop my zoloft when I got pregnant. Ever since about 8 weeks, I just can't seem to shake the blues. I live in NY, which makes everything worse in the winter too (i.e. winter blues). I've talked to my husb about it, and I always seem to feel better afterward, but a couple weeks later the feelings of hopelessness, doom, and feeling "stuck" start to creep in. Depression during pregnancy increases your risk for post partum depresion. So definitely start talking to your doctor about this, so you can be adequately treated (if needed) after delivery. I know meds are NOT for everyone... but counseling is a great option too. And PLEASE don't let everyone just tell you, "its the baby blues" and "it will go away". I knew right away after having my son that something just wasnt right. So I waited to seek help, and I suffered because of it. Reach out to someone, especially your doctor, as soon as possible. 

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  • Roseluv10 Roseluv10 member

    I'm dealing with this now as a FTM.  I also feel very ashamed in that I should be thrilled to be having a baby.   I did mention this to my OB last week and he was quite concerned.  They prescribed zoloft and recommended counseling.   My OB mentioned that its really good to bring it up now as a PP mentioned that it puts us at a higher risk for postpartum depression.

       Talk to your OB, don't let everyone tell you "it's the hormones" or "it's the winter blues". You know yourself better than anyone else.

     

     

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  • graycemayygraycemayy
    I've also been dealing with it. And actually my boyfriend left me, which made it worse. I've had depression all my life. This is my second pregnancy. And I haven't been medicated since I found out I was pregnant with my son. Now I'm pregnant again. This is the absolute worst part of pregnancy.
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