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i want to be pregnant

readytobeamommyreadytobeamommy member
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Why is this so hard ...all these teens get pregnant without even trying and all I do is have sex ..I'm competly sober all I do is smoke cigs ..and I'm starting to get upset thinking maybe something is wrong with me or my husband...I'm upset 
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  • annieravensfan528annieravensfan528 member
    How long have you been trying?
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  • FemShepFemShep member
    How long have you been trying?  Are you tracking your cycles?  Have you made lifestyle choices (like eating healthy, exercising, taking vitamins, quitting smoking) that improve your fertility and the health of your baby?
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  • DebateThisDebateThis member
    Angry Stop smoking if you're TTC.
    Six years of infertility and loss, four IUIs, one IVF and one very awesome little boy born via med-free birth 10.24.13.
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  • victoria+jamesvictoria+james member
    All these teens were also likely having unprotected sex for quite a while before they accidentally got KU. It just seems easy because they weren't waiting for it to happen.

    And yes, some do get pregnant that 1 time they didn't use protection... But I'm betting that's pretty rare.

    Quit smoking if you are TTC... No excuses.
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  • afrochick09afrochick09 member
    After TTC, I'm now not so sure about the saying "one night stand" (although I'm sure there are the cases where it is true). There's just so much that has to line up right for it to happen. Please, please PLEASE stop smoking. It'll be easier now then when you have m/s ontop of it. My SIL took a year before they got pregnant, so for some it just takes time. Patience. Think of it as time for you to ween yourself off the cigs. ;)
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  • dejanee126dejanee126

    I agree she should stop smoking... Im tired of seeing women smoke while pregnant

    If your TTC quit smoking for you and any potential pregnancy 

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  • KatieandMark06KatieandMark06 member

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    lol, but seriously if this is a real poster (which I doubt) stop smoking, 

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  • undianormalundianormal member
    I feel the same way. My husband and I have been trying for 10 months with one loss, and it seems like everytime I log onto FB someone else just found out they were pregnant out of the blue. Such a bummer.
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  • tealowltealowl member
    I don't think we need to shame teen pregnancy. I was a teen mom and I did just fine with my life, plus my kid is super awesome :

    "Your truth is different from my truth, and we're both right."

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