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September 2012 Moms
legal question
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Re: legal question
Here we go. Now I call MUD.
Im bored with getting half info.....
Okay so you were texting an Ex or someone your husband is jealous of. Why the cryptic messages? If you want advice and you're under an AE, just give the full story.
I second Cruel, try typing at least 4 sentences.
Are you cheating on your husband?
Why would I take the time to make a new screenname just to create mud? This is not mud.
Thanks to everyone who responded with help. bye
ahhh, the ex boyfriend or someone like that?
Just remember that you do have a kid together and while it may suck and you may seem like you are not "jiving" I think your child deserves parents that at least tried to work things out, didn't just give up..... But then again, my parents got divorced when I was 4 and everyday, as I am raising DD, I see new ways that it affected me and still affects me.
I was wondering that too since even cheating isn't a big deal in divorce cases. I think she just wants to be the one that makes the decision for divorce and she doesn't want him to leave her until she makes up her mind.
OP, when I said "talk to your husband", I mean tell him that you are considering divorce as a solution. If you think you might want to work things out, you need to start from an honest conversation about the current state of your relationship and probably do some counseling together. If you don't want to work things out, get an attorney.
This seriously made me LOL.
Yes, OP is a robot.
Robot marriage probs are still probs, people.
Edit: CLARIFY!
I read everything OP said in a robot voice. Robots.have.feelings.too.
Mom to boy H - born September, 2012 and girl Z - born 2005. Wife to Gorgeous George. Slave to the man.
Great now I am reading her responses in my best robot voice
post it so non computer people can see it!!
Liam Dean | 09.11.12 | 6lbs 13oz
Awesome sig
Cooper Edward
9.25.12
Robotic.emotions.
Mom to boy H - born September, 2012 and girl Z - born 2005. Wife to Gorgeous George. Slave to the man.
Don't forget to clutch your pearls now!
No waaaaay. Totes didn't see that coming.
So you're either physically cheating on your husband, or you've been sending kinky texts to the guy you want to cheat with. You are one klassy lady.
Um... I haven't had feelings for anyone but my husband since I married him. I made vows to be faithful so you know what I do? I don't get myself into situations where an attraction can develop. I don't send dirty texts to other men. It's not like you're just forced to cheat on your husband because you're attracted to another guy. Get real.
Hey hey.
Not since I met my husband. Seriously though you clearly don't want to be with your husband so just get the divorce and quit being a cheater
Kid #1 - 09/03/12
Hysteroscopy #10 - scar tissue grew back reblocking my right tube
#11 or IVF with scarring still inside?
1 lone embryo from September 2016 retreival, dx with Trisomy 16, starting fresh
There's a difference between finding someone attractive and having feelings for them. Have I noticed any hot guys since I was married? Heck yes. But having feelings for someone takes time and emotional intimacy. I make the intentional decision to not be emotionally intimate with any man who is not my husband. I don't share my hopes and dreams and feelings with other men. I keep all of that for the man I married. So, yeah, it's possible to not have feelings for anyone but your spouse after marriage. You just choose not to go there.
what do I do now? what about looking at the menu without having a taste?
that probably sounds insensitive but I was just using it as a metaphor
I think what most of us are trying to say is that once we met and/ or fell in love with our husbands we stopped looking at other men that way.
I will speak for myself, since I met my husband I try very hard to not put myself into situations where I could even begin to have feelings for someone else. I started "liking" one of my husband's coworkers at one point. It was when we were in a real rough patch. I ended the friendship and have taken measures to guard my heart and my mind against those sorts of feelings. When I was in the midst of "liking" him, I thought about the fun and whatnot but then I realized just give it another 2 or 3 years and I would easily be in the same place as I was with my husband! So, again, I think you need to seriously think about the "feelings" you think you are having and what is the potential that this would just happen again.
Hi BV!
Come around more pleeeeease!
Cooper Edward
9.25.12
You are seriously being ridiculous!!
no....... what Im trying to say is, is it really possible for men and women to be friends?
Alright, here is what I think
You came on here hoping that the answer to your original question would be no. That way you could continue being an unfaithful wife and you figure it would be an easy thing to hide. So now you are trying to find a way to continue your crappy wife behavior. If you are not going to be 100% commited to your marriage then you need to just get out. And for you in this situation you and this man can not just be friends
Sounds like she's been ordering from the menu for awhile.
OP, get a divorce. Then you can go bang anyone you please.
Emma Rose - 9.14.05 Beckett - 5.26.07 Sawyer - 9.22.12 Lennon Mae - 9.26.14
Cooper Edward
9.25.12
I would assume that your definition of cheating is different from mine.
Emma Rose - 9.14.05 Beckett - 5.26.07 Sawyer - 9.22.12 Lennon Mae - 9.26.14
OP: Would you feel like this is NBD if it was your H that was doing the cheating?
Probably not.
Talk to your husband about your infidelity and get a divorce if you so badly want to explore other options.