How do you ladies plan on celebrating? Big party with lots of people? Or cake and close family? I wanted to have a themed party on a Sunday afternoon with our friends and family. Kind of something in between. My husband thinks I'm being nuts. Actually, he thinks I'm going to go overboard more than I really plan to. But in his opinion, it should just be something very small and not to waste money on a big party that LO won't even remember. I told him it's a party for LO, but it's also celebrating everyone getting through that first year of everything baby. It can be a rough time! And the first birthday is a big deal! I think he's a party pooper. I've been on Pinterest, pinning all kinds of cute ideas, but obviously I don't plan on doing everything I see. (I am a serious Pinaholic, so I can see why he might think that.) Anyway, what do you all plan on doing?
Re: Speaking of first birthdays...
He's already picked a massive cake he wants for her. He never had a birthday party, so he wants to go all out. We don't have many friends here yet. My mom is planning on making the 8 hour commute. I ony wish my niece and nephew could come, but it's over father's day weekend. It's looking like it will be small in attendance but big in every other way.
We will celebrate DD and SD's b-days together. Despite the big age difference, we will have it together b/c SD lives in a different state and doesn't have different friends at this point.
We will have 15 people over for cake. Nothing fancy.
My husband thinks my whole family is nuts because we have always celebrated every birthday up until the age of 21.... I'm talking, all my cousins and everything! We always get together for everyone's birthday, it's how I grew up and I loved it! It made me closer with my cousins, seeing them that often! So he thinks I'm nuts for wanting to continue that with DS!
Oh well! We'll be having a big party at my parents with all of my cousins and their kids coming. They have invited us to all of their kids bday parties so far, so we'll do the same!
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(can't make it a quote) "But in his opinion, it should just be something very small and not to waste money on a big party that LO won't even remember. "
I have to agree with your H! We are just going to invite some family. We'll have some balloons, presents, & cake. The theme is.....birthday party
I'm planning a monsters party, DH wants him to have Mike from Monster's Inc smash cake, I'm making monster invites & hats & got a ton of other ideas...
Invites: DH's whole family lives close by but most of my in laws have only seen my son i could probably count on one hand (MAYBE two with certain relatives) so I'm not paying for food & cake & decorations for EVERY family member of his when they can't make an effort to be in my son's life the other 364 days of the year, (they never even seen him in the hospital when i gave birth) & its not like they invite us to their kid's birthday parties either. So i ain't worried about it