Me: 38, DH: 40 | Married April 2012 | TTC since October 2012
DX: Hypothyroid, DOR, Right Tube Blocked, Uterine Fibroid (awaiting hysteroscopy) | DH: Beta Thal Minor, ED (Cialis)
OCT - DEC 2012 | TI | BFN
JAN 2013 | BFP ~ EDD 9/23/13
MAR 2013 | MMC due to Trisomy 10 ~ D&E MAR. 8
APR - JUN 2013 | TTA
JUL - NOV 2013 | TI | BFN
NOV 2013 | HSG & SHG ~ Right Tube Blocked & "Thickening" of Uterus
DEC 2013 - JAN 2014 | NTNP | BFN ~ Switched to new practice
JAN - FEB 2014 | 3-D u/s & SHG ~ Uterine Fibroid ~ Awaiting Hysteroscopy
Re: stressed!
BFP #1 - missed m/c 4.18.11 found @8w3d, d&c @13w
BFP #2 blighted ovum found 8.2011 @8w, misoprostol
BFP#3 - missed m/c 6.11.12 @ 9w3d, d&c revealed extra chromosome 15
BFP#4 8.10.12, DD born 4/26/13
Listen to ShellBear, she is wise. I would hold off on the car if at all possible. A two-door is not as convenient, true, but it will get you and the baby from Point A to Point B. Sorry things are rough for you, and I hope something great will come your way very soon.
Over-40 parents...what we lack in vigor, we make up for with cunning.
OMG, I'm totally on your bandwagon!!!
I started stressing about the option of getting pregnant 2 years ago and it got worse and worse at time progressed. Finally I decided to go for it because how could I know if I'd be one of those women that took 2 years to conceive??? But it only took me two months YAY. However, I've been out of work for years, no medical, nothing at all. Right before we found out we're pregnant we updated our car to an SUV that guzzles gas something fierce and sops up an entire paycheck each month. It really sets us behind with preparing for baby. BUT, we think the car is very important for the sake of the baby so we don't want to trade back down or give it up. Between room for a car seat and the vehicle's safety ratings we think it's a good investment.
It would be so helpful to get back to work. But in this economy who's going to hire someone walking in with a need for maternity leave? Plus, I would rather be home with my new baby.
It's really difficult to look at the bright side sometimes but at the same time I'm left asking myself what the lesser of the two evils is and weighing my pros and cons. I managed to get some medical so since money is the only factor contributing to my misery I've decided that being the one to raise my child is more important to me. It'll be hard but it can be done.
I wish you luck in all this!
Me: 38, DH: 40 | Married April 2012 | TTC since October 2012
DX: Hypothyroid, DOR, Right Tube Blocked, Uterine Fibroid (awaiting hysteroscopy) | DH: Beta Thal Minor, ED (Cialis)
OCT - DEC 2012 | TI | BFN
JAN 2013 | BFP ~ EDD 9/23/13
MAR 2013 | MMC due to Trisomy 10 ~ D&E MAR. 8
APR - JUN 2013 | TTA
JUL - NOV 2013 | TI | BFN
NOV 2013 | HSG & SHG ~ Right Tube Blocked & "Thickening" of Uterus
DEC 2013 - JAN 2014 | NTNP | BFN ~ Switched to new practice
JAN - FEB 2014 | 3-D u/s & SHG ~ Uterine Fibroid ~ Awaiting Hysteroscopy
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