I've been quite the lurker for a while, but I'm coming out of the closet now! My Hubbs and I are AD AF stationed in SC. We have 2 pups who are my world even though they drive me crazy from time to time.
I'm 21, as is he and we live in base housing. We've been married for over 6 months now and it feels like a wonderful eternity already. Being young we do go out to movies, but we don't party hard or anything like that. I got that type of behavior out of me when I was in highschool.
I've been on BC as soon as I came on my period. My main ones have been Depo, Implanon, and now the pill. I've been having a baby on the brain, and we have started discussing ttc as a result. Financially we do have savings and continue to save, our shifts are normal thankfully so we do have time to spend and spare. We are financially, physically, and emotionally ready to have a baby but we are worried that having a child could create stress in our marriage. When I say stress I mean the type that will cause us to grow apart.
We are concerned mainly for the future of our future child so that they will always have married, happy parents. And most of all for the future we have together as a couple because we want to improve and grow with each other.
So, I was hoping if any had experiences with being married and having a baby this young while also living the wonderful military life with your spouse. Stories, advice, etc... Are greatly welcomed and appreciated!