Parenting after a Loss

So I go here (Again) * Long and Pictures*

So I offically go here again as of 2/19/13

Birthstory - I woke up on the 19th with the worst pain in mylife.. After puking on the dog, floor and bathroom I called the OB, who told me at 3 am to go to L&D for monitoring.  I figured I had food poising, or something.

I got to L&D, hooked up on monitors.. noithing. No contractions. Short story my pancreas and Gallbladder were so inflammed they told me that I needed it out, ASAP, and seeing I was already 38w2d it was safe to induce the twins.

Pitocian kicked on when we had a game plan at 9 am, at 10 am I was 4 cm, water was broken, at 1pm  I was a " Floppy 7" asked for a Epi to be put in (also due to having to deliver in OR)

Was fully ready at 3:45, and wheeled down to OR. Put in the stir-ups and was told next contraction to push.. So I did.. all to well Riley Eden came out in 1 push. Screaming her little head off at 3:52 pm.

U/S showed baby B still head down, so they pushed on my abdomen, and guided him down where his water exploded, or as Jay says Looked like someone took a full bucket of water and completely drenched the OB. It was on the walls, the bed, the Doc.. we were all cracking up.

So they told me to push again, of course hard to push when you hear people talking about the slip and slide my child just created, and again on 1 long push Carter Alexander was born at 4:01 pm.

They cleaned me up, and took us all back to the room, where they weighted them.  Riley 7lbs 5 ozs, and Carter 7lbs 9.6ozs. Almost 15 lbs of baby.

So the next day, I went under the knife and got my infected gallbladder out. Recovery sucks @ss. Between my lady bits trying to go back to size, my abdomen had 4 holes in it, my milk came in, so I'm just a winey person right now.

But to the good stuff.. BABIES!!

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Riley sporting a fro

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Carter not so much on the hair front..

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1 day old

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But were all home, I'm in love. I've accidenly called Carter, Zachary a few times.

They are pretty easy to handle, would be easier if I was not so inmobile, but that should change in a week or so.

 

 

 

 

 

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  • Congrats and they are gorgeous!  

    Hope your recovery speeds up! 

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  • Riley and Carter are absolutely beautiful! Huge congratulations and I hope you have a very speedy recovery.
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  • They are absolutely beautiful.  I can't express how happy I am for you.  Thoughts and prayers for a speedy recovery from your surgery.

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  • Oh, sweetie, I am so thrilled for you!!!!  Riley and Carter are precious.  Wishing you a super speedy recovery.  Congrats!!!!!
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  • Congrats on two healthy babies!  I hope you have a speedy recovery.

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  • ::lurking:: This news makes me so very happy!! I hope your recovery goes well and that you feel better soon.
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  • Huge congrats! I hope your recovery goes smoothly. They are so beautiful!

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  • Beautiful!  Wishing you a speedy recovery!
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  • Oh my goodness, Amye, they are precious. Congratulations!!

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  • Oh honey, you've always belonged here<3

    I didn't realize until now that they both came out vaginally.  Go you!  And one push each?!?!  Too funny about Carters water, lol.

    I'm glad your MIL is gone and that you've got your precious babies with you.  I love that photo of you with them and the monkey hat one as well...and I can totally see the resemblance to Z.

    Hope you heal quickly!

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  • They are soo beautiful!! So happy for you and wishing you a quick recovery!

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  • Congratulations!!!  I am so, so happy for you!  They are just gorgeous!!
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  • Congrats!  They are adorable!!  FWIW I called Raylan Peyton multiple times when he was new....I haven't done it in a while.  I know it can take your breath away when you do, big hugs.
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  • Congratulations they are beautiful!!! Wishing you a speedy recovery!
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  • Oh.my.goodness.  Your babies are gorgeous!  I can't imagine what this is like for you, and I am so so happy for you!  Enjoy every single moment mama!  I hope your recovery is speedy!  <<hugs>>
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    I hope you start feeling better soon!

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  • They are beautiful, Amye. Huge congratulations, I'm so so happy for you!
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  • Oh, congrats mama! (Coming over from June 2011!!!) I couldn't be happier for you. They're so beautiful and precious! I'm so glad all of you are doing well. Wishing you  a speedy recovery from surgery, love. <3
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  • Congratulations! They're beautiful!

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  • Congratulations you deserve so much happiness!!! Have fun with those sweet babies!!!

    Love the name Riley I have a Riley too who is 5 today!!!

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  • Congrats!! I am so happy for you. Enjoy those beautiful babies!!

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  • Congratulations on your beautiful babies!
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  • They are beautiful and absolutely perfect!! Huge congrats! I'm sorry your recovery has been so rough. I hope you start feeling better quickly so you can enjoy your perfect babies!
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  • Congrats on your gorgeous little bundles of joy.  Praying for a speedy recovery for mom.  I'm sure Zachary is looking down on you smiling.
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  • Congrats! I'm so happy for you guys. They are both beautiful.

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