1. Intrigue. You hear about them, you see gifs, you are intrigued enough to pull up some youtube videos.
2. Denial. There is no way that you can have feels for these guys....right?
3. Shame. They seem young but they are so adorable....but they really aren't that young, right?.
4. Feels. You watch the same youtube video 10 times and you can't stop. You need more!
5. Acceptance. You are telling everyone of your Directioner status and it makes you proud.
Re: The 5 Stages of 1D Love
Holy Crap my kid is at stage 4 already.
I think Denial should be before shame.
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You are right. Denial is before shame.
Truth. Whenever, my H asks me if I am watching 1D videos again, I smile and turn it up even louder. I recommend videos and songs to my friends now too. I also plan on going solo to the 1D3D if I cannot turn any of my local friends into Directioners.
Interesting. I think that watching my friends overcome their own denial and shame ultimately led me straight from intrigue to feels.
I'm still tiptoeing into Acceptance, though. Outside of TB, I've come out to only a few loved ones. Reactions have been varied so I'm not ready to come out to the whole world yet.
I'm definitely in denial mode right now.
I started at feels too. What happens if we skip stages?
"I stammered, unable to form a coherent thought because I have a vagina."
We get to love them longer and tell everyone, "I told you so."
"I stammered, unable to form a coherent thought because I have a vagina."