i have my agency meeting tomorrow and i don't know whether i should bring my mom or not. she wants me to keep the baby, i'm hoping maybe the counselor might be able to talk to her about how you know adoption can be good, and that she should still be able to see the baby. maybe from a neutral party she'll accept the info?
Up to you, you know your mom best. Our agency told us that adoptions fail most frequently when the birth grandmother isn't on board... So, it might be important for her to hear something from an adoption professional, it might also not help.
I agree that you should go with your gut. I hope that if you bring your mom it can help ease her mind about any worries she may have about adoption.
GL.
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TTC July 2012. Missed m/c & d&c 9/12 11w. Natural m/c 1/13 6w. Chemical pgs 3/13 & 8/13 around 4w. Currently TTA while saving
for adoption.
“When one door of happiness closes, another opens;
but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one
which has been opened for us.” -Helen Keller
Re: should i bring my mom?
I agree that you should go with your gut. I hope that if you bring your mom it can help ease her mind about any worries she may have about adoption.
GL.
Started TTC July 2012. Missed m/c & d&c 9/12 11w. Natural m/c 1/13 6w. Chemical pgs 3/13 & 8/13 around 4w. Currently TTA while saving for adoption.
“When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us.” -Helen Keller