I hesitated whether or not to post here, but you all seem very nice and welcoming. I've been lurking here over the past couple of weeks. We have not pursued fertility treatments but after two back-to-back losses are just starting to consider pursuing adoption. We are taking some time to just relax and gather our thoughts before making any final decisions but are trying to keep open minds about anything.
We've gotten some negative feedback from a few people about considering adoption. I think some people think we should pursue bio children more first before even considering adoption. We are still hopeful for a bio child one day but feel we could love an adopted child just the same.
If we were to adopt, it would likely be domestic infant adoption, although we are open to other possibilities.
I have scanned through the FAQs and they are really helpful, thanks! I probably won't have a ton to contribute, but I hope I can be encouraging to others when possible and learn more from everyone here.