My DS had an appointment with a pediatric neurologist today. It took a much different turn then I was expecting. The neuro diagnosed my DS with Pervasive development disorder and said he was definitely on the autism spectrum.
I really wasn't expecting to get this diagnosis until my DS was older if at all. We were really hoping he would be one of those kids with SPD who didn't have other issues. I know the label doesn't change that fact that my son is amazing but it is a lot to take in nonetheless as I know you all understand.
Luckily, he said that right now we are doing everything we can in terms of therapy. The doctor said eventually we will start ABA but for right now my DS doesn't have enough language foundation for it to be effective. Apparently a lot of my DS's prognosis depends on when his receptive language begins to develop.
He also said that DS2 will likely help my DS1 develop. Also we will be watching DS2's development very closely. I am to keep a very detailed baby book with him just in case though its unlikely he will also be autistic.
Anyway, thanks for letting me share! All my friends have NT kids and I feel really alone right now.
Re: Neurology Appointment Today
Thank you for asking
I am feeling very shaken up and a little heartbroken for my son. Its really hard to accept the label of autism for him and all that it means.
But right now he is asleep in my arms and I am in awe of how amazing and perfect he is. I am so lucky to get to parent such a wonderful and special child.
I'm sorry that you're feeling alone and I can definitely empathize with that.
While I can understand your feelings of sadness and worry for the future know that you're doing the best thing for your child. Intervention at such a young age can have great outcomes. Give yourself a pat on the back for doing right by your little guy.
Thank you!
Isn't your DD being evaluated this week as well? How did it go or good luck if it hasn't happened yet!
Not yet--it's in the beginning of march. Almost there!