My husband is going to be separated from the navy and I am 24 weeks pregnant. We don't exactly know when he will be separated because we are doing different paperwork and talking to the attorney (if he would call us back!) and no one seems to have any answers for us. It seems like the only way we are going to get any answers is to just sit back and wait until he is actually separated. Until then he can't file for unemployment and apparently they can't even tell us what kind of money we will get from selling his leave back or if he will get separation pay. We have no idea of how much money we are going to get or when we have to be out of our house on base. We can't afford to move without about $5k because we are in NJ and no matter where we go (stay in NJ, go back home, or move somewhere new) we can't afford rent and deposit and general moving costs. The navy will move us about 400 mi but we have to pay for it up front and then submit paperwork to be reimbursed. Thank God we know it will be an honorable discharge and our health benefits will last 180 days (which will take us through my due date). I simply don't know what to do. I am done panicking and crying and I am at the point of constant frustration because I have figured out all of my questions but no one has any answers.