BFing and wanting to be TTC
DH and I would like to have another baby soonish. DD still nurses a lot though, and AF hasn?t returned. She loves solids (we do BLW), but I don?t want to rush the weaning process. She has a very strong nurse to sleep association, and I feel like we both still very much benefit from and enjoy our nursing time together. If I were to have another baby, I think I?d be interested in tandem nursing. With that said, how likely is a pregnancy really when AF hasn?t returned? And how would you detect pregnancy? Do normal pregnancy tests work even if you haven?t had a period post-partum? Any recommended reading on this topic? Sorry for my ignorance!
Re: BFing and wanting to be TTC
Pregnancy can happen before your first period if you happen to catch the very first ovulation. Regular pg tests work, and if you're having unprotected sex you should probably POAS every couple of weeks just in case. Buy a stack of wondfo's off amazon to keep it cheap.
I got pregnant while breastfeeding, but not until DS was 18 months. We're still nursing.
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I got pregnant when DD was about 11 months old while BFing, we also did BLW. We went away for a long weekend where she didn't want to nurse, just check out what was going on all the time and eating snacks, came home had sex once and poof baby number 2 on the way.
I never had a period between the two which threw the people at the doctors office for a loop...doc laughed at that.
Normal tests work just fine. I figured it out because I had a bit of spotting but a period never came.
I've also nursed all through this pregnancy and don't see DD stopping any time soon...the last month she's been nursing more than she has for a long time.
Pipsqueak born 6/9/14
I am in a similar situation as Rosebud. My dd is 17 months, still nursing (though only about 4 times between 8p and 5a, and nothing during the day), and no AF. I think the majority of women do see AF return while nursing (the average I have read is about 14 months if you're still nursing, APing, etc.), but for some, it doesn't. You can consider changing up your nursing routine to see if it makes a difference without weaning completely. Good luck!
BFP#2 2/19/13 EDD 11/1/13!
This was like me exactly. And I was pregnant again the following month. Whoops!
Thank you all for your kind and helpful replies. Guess I'll try my best to be patient and see how things go.... Some days that's a lot harder than others (got to stop eyeing newborn clothes and thinking about my advancing age)!
Congrats to those with new little ones on the way, and best wishes to those TTC!