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sunlavender
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~::~Waiting to O~::~
sunlavender
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Happy Hump Day!
Cycle/Month:
CD:
What are you doing this cycle:
Thoughts/Vents/Chartstalks:
GTKY: (stolen from 2WW) On a scale of 1 to 10, how would you rate your sexual performance? Not your DH's. Grade yourself.
Trying to get knocked up since June 2012 ~ Dx: PCOS
BFP 7.24.13 ~ EDD 4.2.14 ~ m/c 9.16.13 @ 11w4d
BFP 5.4.14 ~ EDD 1.12.15 ~ stick little bean!
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Re: ~::~Waiting to O~::~
Cycle/Month: 7/8
CD: 12
What are you doing this cycle: EOD until +OPK, then ED until O.
Thoughts/Vents/Chartstalks: nada
GTKY: (stolen from 2WW) On a scale of 1 to 10, how would you rate your sexual performance? Not your DH's. Grade yourself. I would say I'm a 6. I'm perfectly happy to let DH take the lead in that department.
Trying to get knocked up since June 2012 ~ Dx: PCOS
BFP 7.24.13 ~ EDD 4.2.14 ~ m/c 9.16.13 @ 11w4d
BFP 5.4.14 ~ EDD 1.12.15 ~ stick little bean!
TTGP 2013 Best Blog ~ Fruit ~ My BFP Chart
Morning! It's early for me, so I'm assuming you either stayed up all night or are having an early one yourself.
Glad to see your CHs sticking around. Maybe you won't need that second appointment.
Trying to get knocked up since June 2012 ~ Dx: PCOS
BFP 7.24.13 ~ EDD 4.2.14 ~ m/c 9.16.13 @ 11w4d
BFP 5.4.14 ~ EDD 1.12.15 ~ stick little bean!
TTGP 2013 Best Blog ~ Fruit ~ My BFP Chart
LMAO that pic has me dying - love you Sun xoxoxoxo
Cycle/Month: 11/12
CD: 5
What are you doing this cycle: bangin, OPKs, CBEFM, Progesterone
Thoughts/Vents/Chartstalks: I have a belly button. It's an inne.
GTKY: (stolen from 2WW) On a scale of 1 to 10, how would you rate your sexual performance? Not your DH's. Grade yourself. ugh, I'm like a 4 - I'm a typical alpha female in every aspect of my life except that. I left H take the lead - and that's probably the only thing he ever takes the lead on. Works well for us.
lots of
to my TBBFF Sothernpeach80 - BABY
ETHAN IS HERE! 02.04.13 
TTC #1 since Jan 2012
BFP #1 07/27/12 - EDD 04/07/13; C/P on 07/31/12
BFP #2 10/11/12 - EDD 06/24/13; Blighted Ovum; D&C 11/30/12
BFP #3 03/10/13 - EDD 11/17/13 - PLEASE BE OUR TAKE HOME BABY!
Beta #1 - 95.8 (12DPO); Beta #2 - 502 (15DPO); Beta #3 - 2003 (18DPO)
First U/S showed one beautiful baby measuring 7w1d with a HR of 148!!! Second U/S showed baby measuring 9w0d with a HR of 173!!!
My Ugly BFP Chart
“I know God won't give me anything I can't handle. I just wish he didn't trust me so much." -Mother Teresa
Cycle/Month: 5/7
CD: 54
What are you doing this cycle: Temping, PNVs
Thoughts/Vents/Chartstalks: None today.
GTKY: (stolen from 2WW) On a scale of 1 to 10, how would you rate your sexual performance? Not your DH's. Grade yourself. Probably a 5 or a 6.
CD: 6
What are you doing this cycle: everything. Temping, charting CM, water, green tea, PNV. Oh, and sex.
Thoughts/Vents/Chartstalks: nope. Excited for tomorrow to be done. It's HSG day. We'll see what my ute and tubes look like!
GTKY: stolen from 2WW On a scale of 1 to 10, how would you rate your sexual performance? Not your DH's. Grade yourself. Hmm. Sometimes I'm a good 7. Other times when I'm not totally in the mood I'm a 4. Lol.
Cycle/Month: 2
CD: 16
What are you doing this cycle: Temping and CBEFM
Thoughts/Vents/Chartstalks: Finally got a High on my monitor. This is the latest I've ever had a high (first time using it this time around though).
GTKY: (stolen from 2WW) On a scale of 1 to 10, how would you rate your sexual performance? Not your DH's. Grade yourself. I'd say I can be a 6 but I'm usually a 4.
BFP #1 12/14/2010 EDD 8/24/2011, D&C due to blighted ovum 01/27/2011
BFP #2 05/02/2011 EDD 1/10/2012, MC at 4W2D 05/04/2011
Diagnosed with homozygous C677T MTHFR - Lovenox shots while TTC
BFP #3 08/01/2011 EDD 04/07/2012, DD born 03/29/2012
Started TTC #2 12/2012 on Arixtra due to Lovenox/heparin allergy
BFP #1 03/19/2013 EDD 11/24/2013, MC at 5W 3/24/2013
June/July 2013 - Clomid 100 MG CD 5-9 + TI = BFN
July/August 2013 - Clomid 100 MG CD 5-9 + IUI = BFN
August/September 2013 - Femara 5 MG CD 3-7 + IUI = BFN
LMP 9/11 Unmedicated cycle - BFP 10/11, EDD 6/21/14 Born 6/2/14
You stole my line!
I was coming to tell sun 'Nice ass, beautiful!'
Baby Chugging born 12.28.13
induction due to HELLP
Cycle/Month: 13/12
CD: 10
What are you doing this cycle: the usual
Thoughts/Vents/Chartstalks: I haven't been sleeping well lately (family problems) - and it's completely throwing off my sleep/temps. It's super not helpful that I'm also getting a really random mix of "barely there" and "almost positive" on my OPKs. I have no clue what's going on. Just trying not to stress.
GTKY: (stolen from 2WW) On a scale of 1 to 10, how would you rate your sexual performance? Not your DH's. Grade yourself. I'd say I'm anywhere from about a 3 to a 7 - depending on what mood I'm in and how much energy I want to put into it.
CD: 4
What are you doing this cycle:Same old thing
Thoughts/Vents/Chartstalks: I am struggling today because it's only Wednesday and it should be Friday.
GTKY: stolen from 2WW On a scale of 1 to 10, how would you rate your sexual performance? Not your DH's. Grade yourself. I'm going to give myself a 7. I think I'm pretty ok in the sack.
Married in May 2012
TTC since August 2012
BFP 3.2.13 EDD 11.11.13
My Blog
Cycle/Month: 9/11
CD: 2
What are you doing this cycle: Same old thing as the last 9.
Thoughts/Vents/Chartstalks: Nope
GTKY: (stolen from 2WW) On a scale of 1 to 10, how would you rate your sexual performance? Not your DH's. Grade yourself. Eh depends on the mood, on average a 4 but I can get up to a 7 or 8 if I'm feeling motivated
Cycle/Month: 3/3
CD: 13
What are you doing this cycle: sex eod during fw, temping, opks, charting cm
Thoughts/Vents/Chartstalks: Nothing here
GTKY: (stolen from 2WW) On a scale of 1 to 10, how would you rate your sexual performance? Not your DH's. Grade yourself.
I'm going to put myself at a 4 during the week and a 7 on the weekends if I'm well rested. It is sad how much my energy level drops if I don't get enough sleep which often ends up happening during the work week.
Cycle/Month:3/4
CD: 13
What are you doing this cycle: PNV's, BBT, CM, OPK's, sex ED/ EOD
Thoughts/Vents/Chartstalks: I will be really happy when the only reason I'm peeing is to empty my bladder, and has nothing to do with aiming for a stick or cup.
GTKY: stolen from 2WW On a scale of 1 to 10, how would you rate your sexual performance? Not your DH's. Grade yourself.
I'd say 5- pretty average. I have my wild times, and I have my mild times. But I prefer it much more when H is in total control.
DD born 2/3/03
BFP 3/21/13 w/ EDD 12/02/13, C/P 3/29/13.
BFP 9/18/13 w/ EDD 5/26/14,
Beta #1 @ 14-16dpo = 375, progesterone 33.6
Beta #2 @ 20-22 dpo = 8,782!
Beta #3 @ 27-29dpo = 44,230, dx subchorionic hemorrhage/ threatened mc
Beta #4 @ 29-31dpo = 72, 080
Grow, little one, grow!
***** All AL Welcome *****
CD: 7
What are you doing this cycle: Nothing until Feb 7th
Thoughts/Vents/Chartstalks: I'm ok today.
GTKY: (stolen from 2WW) On a scale of 1 to 10, how would you rate your sexual performance? Not your DH's. Grade yourself. On average I'll give myself a 6.
Emma Kate - born 10.16.03 @ 29 weeks, weighed 1lb 13oz and 13.5" long.
TTC #3
Cycle/Month: 4/3
CD: 5
What are you doing this cycle: Temping and OPK's
Thoughts/Vents/Chartstalks: My MD appt to check on my 18 day cycles was Monday and I woke up with a stomach virus, so it's been rescheduled to 2/13. Maybe this cycle will magically be normal
GTKY: (stolen from 2WW) On a scale of 1 to 10, how would you rate your sexual performance? Not your DH's. Grade yourself. I would say 2. Poor DH. I am horrible. Anti-depressants kill it all for me. And, sex makes me feel embarrassed for some reason. It used to not, but it does now. I just feel awkward. I hope it goes away at some point because I used to really be a 10
Anna Catherine 7/23/2012, 35 weeks 5 days, 5 lbs 5 oz (PProm)
Baby Sam 10/4/2013, 36 weeks 2 days, 5 lbs 14 oz
Cycle/Month: 7/8
CD: 42
What are you doing this cycle: sex, charting temp, exercise, pregnitude, increased water
Thoughts/Vents/Chartstalks: I am not having a good spot with TTC right now. I feel like I am losing myself in this process. I am either thinking about if I O or not, then like, everyone, I have the typical 2WW findfluck, it's like I don't get a break. I know I need a hobby or something...pity party over.
GTKY: (stolen from 2WW) On a scale of 1 to 10, how would you rate your sexual performance? Not your DH's. Grade yourself. Typically I would say a 6. When I'm really feeling frisky a 8
. One of the things that I am a little down about from TTC is it feels like it has taken some of the fun out of sex. We have always been active, but now, its just expected. Man I am a downer today, sorry
Cycle/Month: 4 / 6
CD: 17
What are you doing this cycle: OPKs, trying to watch ALL signs for O so that we can hit the fertility window better and not just O
Thoughts/Vents/Chartstalks: Yesterday I got a positive OPK, so I am hoping that I can confirm O this week, it would be the earliest since starting this process.
GTKY: (stolen from 2WW) On a scale of 1 to 10, how would you rate your sexual performance? Not your DH's. Grade yourself. I would rate myself a 4, which is pathetic!
I just go through the motions. I have never had much of a sex drive, I was hoping that would change in my 30s but it hasn't.
Cycle/Month: Cycle 2 post CP/ Month 13
CD: 8
What are you doing this cycle: Charting, preseed, EOD during FW
Thoughts/Vents/Chartstalks: I'm starting to get a cold and had a mini temp spike this morning, so I can only assume I'm going to feel like death just in time for my FW. Perfect
GTKY: (stolen from 2WW) On a scale of 1 to 10, how would you rate your sexual performance? Not your DH's. Grade yourself. Honestly, an 8. I like to get freaky.
Happy Hump Day! ..great gif!
Cycle/Month: 5/13
CD: 8?
What are you doing this cycle: Everything. PNVS, metformin, green tea, sex EOD, trying to drink more water, OPKs... etc.
Thoughts/Vents/Chartstalks: Negative, ghostrider.
GTKY: (stolen from 2WW) On a scale of 1 to 10, how would you rate your sexual performance? Not your DH's. Grade yourself. Meh. I don't think I'm good and don't claim to be. Maybe a 4. DH is better than me and Im a-ok with that.
hitched 5/2009 -- Me 34, DH 39
TTC #1:
dx with POCS 7/2009
TTC on & off since 1/2012
September 2012; Surprise BFP - MC
June - December 2013; Clomid/Femara + Trigger + TI = BFN x 4
April - May 2016; Femara + TI = BFN x 2
July 2016 - December 2016; Gonal-F + Ovidren + IUI = BFN x 3
May 2018 - IVF #1; 8 snowbabies. transferred 1 embryo - CP
August 2018 - FET #1 -- Healthy Baby Boy
TTC #2:
July 2020 FET; beta 1 310, beta 2 1278
Cycle/Month: 3/2
CD: 5
What are you doing this cycle: OPKs, temping, green tea, eating well.
Thoughts/Vents/Chartstalks: Hoping O comes a little early than CD28 - but as long as I O.
GTKY: (stolen from 2WW)
On a scale of 1 to 10, how would you rate your sexual performance? Not your DH's. Grade yourself. LOL - I feel this depends on the night. I would say I would give my self a range from about 4 on a night where I really don't care to an 8 on a good night.
Sorry you're having a bad time
I felt like that last week as we hit month #7. This process has been far more emotionally draining than I expected it to be when we started out. I started a blog and haven't posted much yet, but it's been a helpful diversion.
Do something nice for yourself today!
Cycle/Month: 2/2
CD: 14
What are you doing this cycle: temping, trying for sex at least EOD until confirmed O
Thoughts/Vents/Chartstalks: I am trying to get used to temping, but I keep waking up before the alarm and my chart is confusing me.
GTKY: (stolen from 2WW) On a scale of 1 to 10, how would you rate your sexual performance? Not your DH's. Grade yourself. Currently, I would say I am at a 7-8. DH is easy to please. I have gone through periods where I was a 2 though.
Cycle/Month: 5/7
CD: 13
What are you doing this cycle: the usual. Planning to start sex EOD in a couple of days and then ED once I get a +OPK
Thoughts/Vents/Chartstalks: nothing today. Looking forward to lunch with friends at a new Asian restaurant, that's about it.
GTKY: (stolen from 2WW)
On a scale of 1 to 10, how would you rate your sexual performance? Not your DH's. Grade yourself. Oh man. I'd say a 4. I'm not very confident or adventurous and I'd love for DH to take the lead but he isn't particularly adventurous either so it's not the greatest. We need to work on that!
Cycle/Month: 3/2
CD: 7
What are you doing this cycle: OPK. green tea, PNV, DH started taking seleniun ontop of a multi, and sex hoping for EOD
Thoughts/Vents/Chartstalks: not today just waiting to start OPK on CD 11
GTKY: (stolen from 2WW)
On a scale of 1 to 10, how would you rate your sexual performance? Not your DH's. Grade yourself. I would say a 6, I do all the work most of the time. I could possibly be the easiest women on the planet to 'please' if you know what I mean.
Yo!
Cycle/Month: 7
CD: 9
What are you doing this cycle: Lots of humping
Thoughts/Vents/Chartstalks: Closing on FW yaaaay!
GTKY: (stolen from 2WW) On a scale of 1 to 10, how would you rate your sexual performance? Not your DH's. Grade yourself. Depends - For fun: 7 Drunk: 11 For TTC: 5
Hi Sun,
Cycle/Month: 3/8
CD: 45
What are you doing this cycle: same old, same old
Thoughts/Vents/Chartstalks: I was wishing I would O but now I'm just wishing for AF or for CD60 to come quickly.
GTKY: (stolen from 2WW) On a scale of 1 to 10, how would you rate by I Want This">your sexual performance? Not your DH's. Grade yourself.
Good question! I think I used to be about a 9. Lately I'd give myself a 3 since we're doing it so often we're in a rut. Half the time I don't even shave my legs anymore. Poor DH.
CD: 8
What are you doing this cycle: lots of water, temping, charting, checking CM, PNVs, sex EOD and ED during FW, not obsessing about symptoms
Thoughts/Vents/Chartstalks: Nada
GTKY: (stolen from 2WW) On a scale of 1 to 10, how would you rate your sexual performance? Not your DH's. Grade yourself. 10, I'm a spit fire!
My Ovulation Chart
CD: 13
What are you doing this cycle: TTA
Thoughts/Vents/Chartstalks: My opk was almost positive this morning. It's interesting to me that each of my phases has lengthened by one day over the past few cycles. Bodies are weird and wonderful.
GTKY: stolen from 2WW On a scale of 1 to 10, how would you rate your sexual performance? Not your DH's. Grade yourself. Oh gosh definitely a five. I pretty much go along for the ride. Occasionally I initiate but then that usually means I have to be on top and I hate being on top.
Cycle/Month: 2/2
CD: 13
What are you doing this cycle: sex opks
Thoughts/Vents/Chartstalks: gah! I had Ewcm and a semi dark close to positive opk two days ago, since then nothing and no temp rise. Gearing up to O fail?
GTKY: (stolen from 2WW) On a scale of 1 to 10, how would you rate your sexual performance? Not your DH's. Grade yourself. Ugh like 2.
Cycle/Month: cycle 1/month1
CD: 8
What are you doing this cycle: temping and plan to bd eod during fw
Thoughts/Vents/Chartstalks:
GTKY: (stolen from 2WW) On a scale of 1 to 10, how would you rate your sexual performance? Not your DH's. Grade yourself. I would have to say it depends on how much energy I have! On a good day, 8. If DH takes the lead and I'm tired, I'd give myself a 3.
Cycle/Month: 1
CD: 37
What are you doing this cycle: Sex, OPKs, temping
Thoughts/Vents/Chartstalks: I'm ready to either ovulate or get AF, but something
GTKY: (stolen from 2WW) On a scale of 1 to 10, how would you rate your sexual performance? Not your DH's. Grade yourself. Ehhhh, I don't know. Maybe a 5 or 6 because I don't make a huge effort anymore. I mean, it's super nice when we have sex but lately we have to find the time to do it quickly somewhere so it doesn't leave a whole lotta room for creativity.
Cycle/Month: 6
CD: 5
What are you doing this cycle: OPK's, PNV's, water, EOD until FW then ED
Thoughts/Vents/Chartstalks: So glad it's Wednesday!
GTKY: (stolen from 2WW) On a scale of 1 to 10, how would you rate your sexual performance? Not your DH's. Grade yourself. I would say I'm a 6. I'm perfectly happy to let DH take the lead in that department. - I completely agree with sunlavender with this statement.
DD 12.2010
CD: 11
What are you doing this cycle: Same stuff but added green tea. I can tell a little difference in CM.
Thoughts/Vents/Chartstalks: I have a fever blister... on my chin!! DH usually won't look my way when I have one, but we're going to have sex tonight. He can
just avoid any face contact.
GTKY: stolen from 2WW On a scale of 1 to 10, how would you rate your sexual performance? Not your DH's. Grade yourself. Anywhere from a 4 to a 7. Just depends on my mood.
Cycle/Month: 2/2
CD: 9
What are you doing this cycle: PNV's, Temping, OPK's, eating healthy, working out more, Sex EOD
Thoughts/Vents/Chartstalks: I had a spike in temp today, but no positive OPK yet ( I expect a positive opk in the next couple days)
GTKY: (stolen from 2WW) On a scale of 1 to 10, how would you rate your sexual performance? Not your DH's. Grade yourself. I would say I'm a 8-9 for sure! I always try and mix things up and try to initiate now and then and make sure DH is pleasured
Cycle/Month: 3/2
CD: 4
What are you doing this cycle: temping/charting, green tea, OPKs, pom juice, sex EOD
Thoughts/Vents/Chartstalks: None right now. Still waiting for my new BBT and bulk order of OPKs to come in the mail. I think AF may be gone for this month, so I'll start temping again with my old thermometer until the new one gets here.
GTKY: (stolen from 2WW) On a scale of 1 to 10, how would you rate your sexual performance? Not your DH's. Grade yourself. Ugh...probably a 4 to be honest. There are days when I can be an 8 or 9, but they are few and far between. Generally I am fine to just lay back and let him take the lead. Not to mention lately I haven't been feeling great so I've been brushing him off when he tries to suggest sex.
My Ovulation Chart
CD: CD1
What are you doing this cycle: Not sure yet.
Thoughts/Vents/Chartstalks: Just discouraged to be on cycle 12 now.
GTKY: (stolen from 2WW) On a scale of 1 to 10, how would you rate your sexual performance? Not your DH's. Grade yourself. Meh, depends on the night. Lately I've been maybe a 2 or 3. Typically much higher. But if you were to ask DH, he'd always rate me higher.
CD: 18
What are you doing this cycle: same as usual. PNVs, OPKs until I ran out, temping, sex EOD.
Thoughts/Vents/Chartstalks: I didn't get crosshairs last cycle, and I've had some temping issues this cycle. I would really like to O, soon, and I would also like my period not to arrive quite as early as last cycle. You know, preferably not at all, but I wasn't expecting a short cycle.
GTKY: stolen from 2WWnbsp; On a scale of 1 to 10, how would you rate your sexual performance? Not your DH's. Grade yourself.
Probably a 4. I know DH is happy, but all the sex for the last 9 cycles makes me think we need to spice things up.
TTC #1 since June 2012
Me (28) - DOR (AFC <10, undetectable AMH, >10 FSH), homozygous E429A MTHFR
DH (29) - MFI low count and morphology
September 2013 IUI#1 - Clomid + Trigger + IUI = BFN
October 2013 IUI#2 - Letrozole + Menopur + Trigger + IUI = BFN
Nov 2013 IVF/ICSI #1 - Protocol: BCP prep, high doses Menopur and Bravelle (12 days), ganirelex
Results: 5 retrieved / mature, 4 fertilized, 1 arrested and 3 complex abnormal after day 3 PGS = Cancelled after ER
Jan/Feb 2014 IVF/ICSI #2 - Protocol: Estrogen priming, high doses Menopur and Bravelle (11 days), microdose lupron
Results: Cancelled after 11 days of stims due to low response and E2 levels
Feb 2014 IVF/ICSI #3 - Protocol: No prep, low dose Menopur (6 days), ganirelex, Bravelle booster with trigger
Results: 1 retrieved / 0 mature = Cancelled after ER
Officially moving on to embryo adoption! We used and love Embryo Adoption Services of Cedar Park
October 2014 FET #1 - BCP/Lupron/Estrace/Prometrium, transferred 2 of 4 from match #1, BFN
December 2014 FET #2 - BCP/Lupron/Estrace/Prometrium, transferred 2 of 4 from match #1, BFN
March 2015 FET #3 - BCP/Lupron/Estrace/Prometrium, transferred 2 of 6 from match #2, BFN
May 2015 FET #4 - BCP/Lupron/Estrace/Prometrium, lost 2 to thaw, transferred 2 of 6 from match #2, BFN
October 2015 FET #5 - Natural cycle, lost 1 from match #3 and 1 from clinic backup to thaw, transferred 1 backup, BFN
February 2016 FET #6 - Natural cycle, transferred 1 from match #4, B FREAKING P!
Beta 1 = 162, Beta 2 = 316, doubling just over 48 hours
Cycle/Month:15/13
CD: 8
What are you doing this cycle: Green Tea, Sex, and OPK's
Thoughts/Vents/Chartstalks: We took last month off, so I feel more clear headed this month.
GTKY: (stolen from 2WW) On a scale of 1 to 10, how would you rate your sexual performance? Not your DH's. Grade yourself. eh... probably a 5 or 6, DH take initiative most of the time, which I am fine with.
Me: 34 Dh: 41, Married: Oct 15th 2011
Me: Deteriorating Ovarian Reserve, Hostile Uterus
Dh: Slow but Healthy Swimmers
Round 1 Clomid 100mg 7/12/2013
BFP 8/2/2013 EDD 4/14/2014
Charlotte Born on 4/23/3014
http://beanagirl01.blogspot.com/
Cycle/Month: 4/4
CD: 19
What are you doing this cycle: Charting for the first time, lots of sex!
Thoughts/Vents/Chartstalks: I am so mad at myself for not starting to chart earlier! I thought it would make the process less stressful... but it turns out I O later than I though I did, and my timing has probably been totally off for the last 3 months! :-/
GTKY: (stolen from 2WW) On a scale of 1 to 10, how would you rate your sexual performance? Not your DH's. Grade yourself.
Maybe a 7? I don't have a super high sex drive, but when I get into it I think I am pretty good at it.
Cycle/Month: 3/3
CD: 10
What are you doing this cycle: CBEFM, temping, OPKs, green tea, POM, vitamins, sex
Thoughts/Vents/Chartstalks: I wanted to have sex EOD but I have a pap today so I had to skip sex for 48hrs. I got a High on my CBEFM this AM and have EWCM. I am going to take an OPK when I get home. I am hoping to not be too uncomfortable from my pap, so that we can sex it up tonight.
GTKY: (stolen from 2WW) On a scale of 1 to 10, how would you rate your sexual performance? Not your DH's. Grade yourself. I would say I am a 7. I am adventurous when in the mood and have some skills.