June 2013 Moms

Bad A/S update: Amnios suck

We spent all day from 6:00 in the morning until 6:00 in the evening at doctor's offices. We saw the first specialist, and they did another u/s. She said the same things that we already knew, there is a spot on the heart, echogenic bowels, baby 2 weeks behind, and very low fluid. We spoke with the genetic counselor, although I am not sure why, she had no good or new news. I really liked her, and am glad that I can get ahold of her quickly when needed, but she really didn't say anything new. They DID say that my fluid is so low that she didn't feel comfortable doing an amnio.

Then we went to the Med Center downtown, we live in Houston, and our appt kept getting moved back b/c the doc was in a fetal surgery. We had another quick ultrasound and I begged to get checked for water leaking (maybe I had missed it before?), and they did an exam to find that I am not leaking fluid. We spoke with that office's genetic counselor and again, that just made me more upset with no new information.

I wanted someone to give me something. Anything. Statistics. Their opinion. Really, just anything.

The doc came back, did another u/s to see if he felt comfortable doing the amnio. If not, we would do a placenta biopsy. He did the amnio, and I nearly had a panic attack or heart attack on the table. It really did hurt, and while I'm sure that my clenched tummy muscles, and hyperventilating did nothing to help the matter, it still really hurt. It took longer because there was so little fluid it was hard for him to get where he needed to be. 

The fluid came out brownish/yellowish. The very first anatomy scan tech said that the fluid did not look clear, and she was right. He said that this is mostly likely from my old blood from when I bled at 11 weeks, and that the echogenic bowels are most likely explained by this as well, the blood got swallowed and was in her belly, and was showing up.

The main concern is WHY is my fluid low, and WHY is she small. 

Unfort, the amnio tests range from 1-2 days (if my ins will pay for FISH), and then a 7-10 day wait, and also a 10-14 business day wait. That is like..... 3 weeks. I will go back to first specialist on Friday to see what things look like in there, and then back to my OB Thursday. This is a very sucky waiting game.

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Re: Bad A/S update: Amnios suck

  • Very sorry, you are in my thoughts!  Hope you get answers sooner than later.
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  • I'm so sorry you're going through this Sad

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  • I am so sorry  you are going through this.  I hope you get some answers soon and that everything is fine with your little girl.  (( hugs ))

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  • I am so sorry, that you have to go through this.  Waiting sucks!  Hoping everything turns out good
  • Sorry your going through all that... I hope your wait is quick and you get your answers. T&P that everything works out and  you have a healthy happy baby.

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  • I said a prayer for you and your baby girl!
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  • What a nightware of a day.  So sorry you are going through this and hoping that everything comes back ok.  Hopefully your insurance will cover the FISH to get some results back as early as possible. 
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  • Sorry you had to go through that and wait so long! I hope they have answers for you soon.
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  • I am so, so sorry. The waiting game absolutely stinks. I am sending you so many prayers and  huge (((hugs)))
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  • Oh my goodness, how scary!  Praying for good news when you get your results.  Sorry you had to go through all of that!



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  • I'm so sorry you're going through this. I hope they can get the results to you quickly.
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  • Sorry that y'all are going through this, will keep you in my thoughts and prayers! I am in Houston too.
  • :/ So sorry! That sounds incredibly frustrating. I hope they get some great results from the amnio so you can get some new info!





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  • I'm so sorry this is happening. You're in my thoughts and prayers. I hope that you'll get answers soon. 
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  • I'm so sorry you are having to deal with this.  I'm thinking good thoughts for you.
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  • That stinks :(  I hope you get answers soon, and positive results!
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  • so very sorry for all you are going through. praying you get better and more answers soon
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  • I'm so sorry you're going through this! I hope you get some real answers, advice and results sooner than expected. I'll keep sending good thoughts and prayers your way!
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  • I'm sorry you're having to go through all this. I'm still hoping for a miracle, and everything is OK with your little girl.
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  • That's so frustrating, I'm so sorry you still don't have much to go on. Praying for you guys! Stay strong mama.
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  • I wish I had more to say other than I am very sorry you are going though this and many thoughts and prayers for you and your family.  HUGS
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  • I am so sorry you are doing to waiting game and having to go through this T&Ps your way!

                            

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  • I'm so sorry you're having to wait. Hang in there lady.
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  • Oh :( I'm sorry, sounds like a horrible back and forth. You're absolutely in my thoughts, I hope you are able to hear something soon. Keep us updated!
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  • Ugh, I'm so sorry you are in this limbo. Sending thoughts and prayers your way that you get great results back quickly.

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  • Sending good vibes your way.
  • i'm so sorry and I hope you get answers to your questions soon.  T&Ps for you and YH and your LO. 
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  • I sorry that you are waiting. I'm sure the suspense is awful. I hope that you ultimately get some good news. Many prayers to you and the baby.
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  • So sorry to hear this! T&P for sure. And I hope that the doctors can find out quickly what is the cause of all this. At least the Houston Med Center is amazing and you'll have the best doctors taking care of you and baby. Keep us updated.....and sorry again.
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  • Sending good vibes your way!  Sometimes no news is good news.  Just stay positive, and keep us posted...
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  • Wow thats horrible! We're hoping for the best for you over here!
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  • Saying a prayer for u and your family!
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  • I'm so sorry you are having to go through this. You and your family are in my thoughts.
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  • I'm so sorry, it would be hard to wait that long.  I hope you get some answers soon.
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  • What a long and stressful day. I hope results come back quickly so you dont have to wait so long. Sending lots of T&P to you and your fam.
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  • Very sorry you're going through this. Did they have any recommendations for getting your fluid up?

    I'll be thinking of you and baby.
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  • Oh man. I'm so sorry you have to go through this :( Your family is in my prayers for some quick and good answers!!
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  • So sorry you're going through this and don't have any answers yet. Hopefully the wait for the results will go by quickly for you.
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  • So sorry that you have to play this waiting game. I hope it goes quickly and you have some answers soon. You'll be in our thoughts and prayers. Hugs.
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