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I'm a sadist (pg ment not mine)

ebwhitebwhit member
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My SIL is having her baby shower this Sunday. I blessedly live far away and won't be attending but DH is out of town and I've been peeking at her registry for two days to see what she's getting. I'm also being very critical of what she's chosen and telling myself that I would have chosen much classier items. obviously. 

It's not making me particularly depressed as I was told about her pg 2 weeks after losing mine and I've gotten some time to get used to the idea but the shower coming makes it not an idea anymore; it's now a reality. She is having the first grandchild- but it was supposed to be me. 

If I knew how to put photos in from an iPad I'd give you some gin and cookies for listening. 

Daisypath Anniversary tickers
ME (26) DH (32) Diagnosis- unexplained recurrent pregnancy loss
BFP #1 7/12- MC 8w.3d
BFP #2 10/12- CP 
BFP #3 1/13 - CP
BFP #4 8/13- MC 6w3d
IUI #1 50mg Clomid/Ovidrel 1/13-BFN
IUI #2 2/14 100MG Clomid/Ovidrel- BFP! grow baby grow

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  • ravenclaw1ravenclaw1 member
    step.away.from.the.registry.
    BFP #1 - Mango - 6/11/12, EDD 2/22/12 Natural MC 7/15/12
    BFP #2 - Nacho - 10/14/12, EDD 6/20/13, MMC 8 weeks, D&C 11/16/12
    All testing shows both H and I are perfectly normal. Baby Nacho had triploidy. 
    Back to normal business December 2012
    BFP #3 - Froggy - 1/15/13, EDD 9/27/13 TEAM GREEN
    It's a girl! Alice - Born 9/20/13, 8lbs 2oz

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  • ebwhitebwhit member

    imageravenclaw1:
    step.away.from.the.registry.

    that bad huh? Le sigh. I really need to move home so I have friends again. 

    Daisypath Anniversary tickers
    ME (26) DH (32) Diagnosis- unexplained recurrent pregnancy loss
    BFP #1 7/12- MC 8w.3d
    BFP #2 10/12- CP 
    BFP #3 1/13 - CP
    BFP #4 8/13- MC 6w3d
    IUI #1 50mg Clomid/Ovidrel 1/13-BFN
    IUI #2 2/14 100MG Clomid/Ovidrel- BFP! grow baby grow

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  • CrunkalCrunkal member

    I'm sorry sweetie. I know its hard. I am kind of in the same boat. My cousin and I were due within weeks of each other. Now I am forced to put on a happy face and congratulate her. I too find myself criticizing.

     Its hard, and I don't really have any advice. Just wanted to say sorry and that I can totally relate. ((HUGS))

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  • mayoneggmayonegg member
    (((hugs))) definitely get away from the registry!
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  • RedPhoenix625RedPhoenix625
    ((((((HUGS))))))
    PAIF/SAIF, PGAL/PAL welcome.
    TTC since March 2010 ~ Dx Unexplained IF September 2011
    2011: IUI + Clomid = CP#1
    2012: 3 more IUIs + Clomid = 3 more CPs. One on-our-own pg, also CP
    2013: BTB IUI + Lupron/Follistim/Prometrium/PIO = CP #6
    IF testing, RPL testing, Autoimmune testing = all normal
    So lost.
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  • ellajune2012ellajune2012 member
    imageravenclaw1:
    step.away.from.the.registry.


    This. Also, you're not a sadist; you're a masochist. Slight difference. ::insert mobile wink here::
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    BFP with #1 (twins!) 11/18/2011 - missed m/c at 8weeks3days; d&c 1/19/2012; myomectomy to remove 18cm+,10cm & 5cm fibroids 4/2012; TTC again 7/2012; BFP #2 (twins) 11/13/2012; missed m/c at 7weeks;
    BFP #3: baby girl born 3/5/2014

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  • ebwhitebwhit member

    imageellajune2012:
    imageravenclaw1:
    step.away.from.the.registry.
    This. Also, you're not a sadist; you're a masochist. Slight difference. ::insert mobile wink here::

    womp. 

    Daisypath Anniversary tickers
    ME (26) DH (32) Diagnosis- unexplained recurrent pregnancy loss
    BFP #1 7/12- MC 8w.3d
    BFP #2 10/12- CP 
    BFP #3 1/13 - CP
    BFP #4 8/13- MC 6w3d
    IUI #1 50mg Clomid/Ovidrel 1/13-BFN
    IUI #2 2/14 100MG Clomid/Ovidrel- BFP! grow baby grow

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  • linzeeh80linzeeh80 member
    (((hugs))) 


    TTC since August 2011
    BFP#1 3/16/12 EDD 11/21/12 Delivered 6/1/12 at 15 weeks 2 days
    "If there ever comes a day when we can't be together... Keep me in your heart, I'll stay there forever." ~ Winnie the Pooh

    BFP#2 4/14/13 EDD 12/24/13 Please be our rainbow after the storm!
    Beta#1 @ 15dpo 274, P4 16.9 Beta#2 @ 18dpo 940!! Doubling time of 40 hours!! u/s @ 6w2d showed a beautiful HB of 120! u/s @ 10w1d HB 174!! Grow, LO Grow!! Found out 7/22 we are TEAM BLUE!!
    Zaiden Harper was born 12/22/13 at 1:46 am. 9lbs 8oz and 22in
    ~*~AL Always Welcome~*~
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  • ebwhitebwhit member

    imagecar seat:
    I think we need to take online shopping away from ebwhit.  She doesn't have a good history.

     

    for real. Would you  like to move to dc and by my bosom friend? I hate it here; I miss the midwest. I want the life I had a year ago

    Daisypath Anniversary tickers
    ME (26) DH (32) Diagnosis- unexplained recurrent pregnancy loss
    BFP #1 7/12- MC 8w.3d
    BFP #2 10/12- CP 
    BFP #3 1/13 - CP
    BFP #4 8/13- MC 6w3d
    IUI #1 50mg Clomid/Ovidrel 1/13-BFN
    IUI #2 2/14 100MG Clomid/Ovidrel- BFP! grow baby grow

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  • nbcarlsonnbcarlson member

    I'm sorry. It is really hard seeing other people hit milestones that you should be going through. (((hugs))) 


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  • heather52904heather52904 member
    [[HUGS]]

    TTC Since 8/2011
    BFP #1 5/13/12 * EDD 1/24/13 * MC at 7 wks 4 days on 6/11/12
    BFP #2 5/13/13 * Current EDD 1/23/14

    Baby N born 2/8/14


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