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Work Life Balance

GeekyGirl79GeekyGirl79
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I'm trying to juggle my work life balance, but am struggling to do so.  I've been a workaholic for a long time (habit from graduate school where 14 hour days were normal, and I always worked on the weekends!), and have tried very hard to scale things back recently since I know that my priorities will be massively changed.  Physically I am encountering problems with the stress cutting into my ability to work as long hours.  Mentally I am trying to juggle a lot.  But I still feel incredibly guilty leaving work after 8 hours - and I worry that I'm going to be viewed as a slacker as I finish things up in anticipation of pregnancy.  I'm torn because I want to prove that being a working mother does not mean that I can't kick ass and take names professionally, but I'm struggling physically, mentally and emotionally to keep everything together.  Any advice? 

 

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  • Country Girl in the CityCountry Girl in the City

    Have you tried the working moms board?  They may have some advice for you.  I understand how hard it can be.  I was in a job where 20 hour days were the case at times and I always worked at least 12 hours.  I worked my way into a new job where my work is not as critical and I only work 9 hour days with every other Friday off.  I did this just in anticipation of having a child.  If you have an Employee Assistance Program, they may be able to give you some coping skills.  If not, perhaps you could find a working mother in your field that could mentor you.

    Good luck. 

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  • Kota26Kota26 member
    I know how you feel too....I teach college anatomy and microbiology courses as well as continuing with my own graduate school research.  I found out today that they removed one of my classes to lighten my teaching load, though relieved, I feel SO guilty!  They asked me to teach more classes over the summer, and it is very tempting, but I need to be home those summer months with the baby.  Sometimes you just have to swallow your pride and remember that you need to do what is best for your little one Smile
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