Give me a break...grow up. Don't tell me about big girl panties. Thanks to the few of you who posted replies that actually have some common sense. good luck to you all with your pregnancies. I must have missed how this board has been snarky for years... and my other two pregnancies were a while back...so perhaps it was some other nicer board I was on and i forgot about it.
There is a HUGE difference between what some of you call tough love and helping someone who is new at this through those crazy scary first months when every hope and fear is wrapped up in the "What if, what does it mean, why does it feel this way...etc.
I hope when you're in the same boat, someone has more patience with you. Heck, i hope when you have this child, you have more patience with it. Tough love--please. you're being B*^%$es and you know it.
I'm out of here. going back to the adult board. Thanks.
I'm too old and too mature to need this.
Best of luck to you. and those that are here for the right reasons--stick it out. There are good folks here, just pass over the other comments and keep your chin up.
Re: just as I thought...good luck to those who are looking for help
2 years, 2 surgeries, 2 clomid fails, 2 IUIs, 1 loss, IVF #1 - 10/25/10 = BFP!, DS is now 3.5yrs!
TTC #2 - 6/12 surgery #3, FET #1 & 1.2 = BFN, 12/2012 FET #2 = BFP! DD is 1.5 yrs!
Surprise! 12/16/14 BFP, loss #2 12/31/14
I can't wait for the "im getting a divorce" post in 5 years or so because your husbands were fed up with your disgusting chair asses from playing on the knot all day and getting fired 4-5 times for not doing any work. you guys are all winners!! ~ Laur929
Really? Seriously? You are definitely not even remotely "too mature" for anything on TB. Another thread whining? You sound like a child. Take your own advice and grow up and stop crying in your cheerios about how other people act on a public message board. Its not becoming at all.
Also, please define "right reasons"? Why do the people posting here have to conform to your standards? What makes you so high and mighty that we should all aspire to behave like you?
Good sweet sister Frances you need to a grip.
LFAF Summer 2016 Awards:
This....or if you needed to post it, you should have just put it on your original post instead of making an whole new post for everyone to comment on.
Now I have to follow 2 posts instead of just one. My clicking finger is going to hurt by the end of the day, thanks a million!
Unable to even.
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You don't understand the appeal of Benedict Cumberbatch / think he's fug / don't know who he is? WATCH SHERLOCK. Until you do, your negative opinion of him will not be taken seriously.
LFAF Summer 2016 Awards:
Obviously. Since you had to make a seperate post replying to comments on your previous post.
There is a lot of duplicate posts that could be prevented from
a) reading the previous posts (there is a search bar)
b)calling your OB
c) using Google
It's obnoxious to reply to the same questions almost daily. People are just lazy.
I hope your adult board greets you with fuzzy puppies, and cupcakes celebrating your return. Don't let the 1st Tri door hit you in the @ss on the way out.
Crap. Now I have to find another post.
for the record, I agree to an extent. There is a difference between correcting misinformation and being completely disrespectful. However, you probably could have just moved on and left it at that. Unfortunately posts like these just get ridiculed and don't change opinions.
I lost my angels 07/2010, 04/2017, 10/2017
Meimsx no more
BFP #1: 6.26.12 EDD: 2.11.13 missed m/c: 7.31.12 @ 12 weeks
BFP #2: 10.1.12 EDD: 6.11.13 Born 6.13.13
This...
SURPRISE! BFP: 12/2014 - EDD: 8/13/15
We made plans and God laughed
DS: BFP: 9/30/12 - EDD: 6/9/13
Radley Quinn was fashionably late via induction on 6/17/13
ETA: gifs on mobile is a PITA
Make a pregnancy ticker
The Bump After Dark? TheHumpityBumpity.com?
Make a pregnancy ticker
Well, dang. What did I miss while the internet was down?
Bahahahaha I'm dying laughing
I have to agree with this ... Even though I'm "mature" and all.
This isn't one of the loss boards, where I think people actually go when they need support, it's 1st Trimester. And if you can tolerate everyone on here without wanting to give a snarky response every once in a while, then you deserve a medal. (And you're a lying liar who likes to lie and loves to stir up trouble.)
We lost our first (EDD 07/23/12) after finding out at 12 weeks there was no longer a heartbeat. Our rainbow was born 05/22/13 and was worth all we went through.
“So can you understand? Why I want a daughter while I’m still young? I wanna hold her hand and show her some beauty before all this damage is done. But if it’s too much to ask, it’s too much to ask … Then send me a son.” – Arcade Fire
Well, you're the first person who's ever said this in the 10 years I've been on The Knot/Nest/Bump and I'm SURE that you're the person that will make us all see the light.
I'm glad you were here!
Currently Reading: Don Quixote by Miguel De Cervantes
Bwahahahaha!! Love it!
Do you have the same awesome shocked face as the etrade baby??
Bwahahaha - this made me snort laugh!!!
Do they have stripper poles?
sigh. Clearly I'm not as good at being snotty as some of you, so I'll bow out. And i'm sure those of you who are the best at it are already mounting your reply of "didn't you say you were going away" so don't bother. You'll not hear from me again. I was simply disturbed enough by all the snarking that I felt compelled to comment. No, I didn't think that anyone would have a change of heart and I didn't post a second thread just to draw more attention to myself. I was just disturbed by the tone of some of the replies and thought it was very unfortunate for those women who were on here looking for support and kindess--and yes you can be realistic in your reply and still be kind. All the snarking about my calling out the snarking mostly just proves my point. I only came back to check on this again in the hopes that there were more positive comments that negative. Oh well.
carry on....
You may have had your account for a few years, but there's no way you used it.
Better?
Why did you create an entirely separate post for this instead of responding in the one you already started?
Me-thinks someone is looking for attention.
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