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February 2012 Moms
FFFC
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Re: FFFC
This made me LOL.
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And your local mechanic thanks you!
My H gets up with the girls frequently and is an awesome dad, but he SUCKS when it comes to talking about feelings (and would be the first to admit that). I think that I would pass out if he knew that I was upset about something - even something not related to him - and said "do you want to talk about it?". When I do vent to him about work/family/friend issues he sits and listens but he's not an active listener and doesn't really offer advice. He's also not great about surprising me with little things or doing romantic stuff. So I might get jealous when other women mention that their H's do those things but I know that we're not all perfect and we all have things that we're great at and things we're not great at. My H might be behind the eight ball on certain things, but he makes up for them in other ways. When I read threads like the one you mentioned I try to look at it from that perspective.
Maybe if you guys would stop teasing her, she'd want to participate. After the flu shot thing, I am not surprised that she hasn't been around.
I'm just gonna say it. She got a PM yesterday from what I can only assume is an AE, and I'm also gonna assume that person belongs to the FB group.
See, this is the kind of bitchery I've been looking for.
Sorry, guys. I didn't think of it that way. I was just hoping to take things for a positive spin. My bad.
WHAT? Dramaz ahead.
One of the people I supervise has horrible B.O. HR has talked to him and it never got any better. Between him being on vacation and then me being on vacation, my nose is about to get a month long break.
I let Connor eat a potato chip yesterday because I was eating them too.
I also miss the dramz around here. I know I don't count as a reg, but its been a little slow and I haven't felt like chiming in lately.
This. I had a rough time with family when I was younger and took it out by being fairly promiscuous. For a long time I looked back on those years without regret-- that I learned a lot of lessons and about who I was and wouldnt feel like I "missed out" on anything by only being with one man.
Now that Ive found that man? I'm totally sorry. I'm envious of all of you who waited. My mom never talked to me about anything related to that- ever. I learned from friends and TV and never knew the real value sex could hold. I plan on making sure I make it an easily accessible topic to Kyle so he makes smarter decisions than me.
+1
Someone linky me the flu-shot thing. I missed it when it happened, and have yet to find it.
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+ 2
+2
I don't always agree with her, but I like how well-informed she is.
ETA: apparently Glaedr and I had the same idea at the same time.
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https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/70251798.aspx
Maybe I read it wrong, but I think if it had been directed at me, I would have been offended.
I ate a cannoli that sat out overnight for breakfast.
Yesterday, I ate a slice of week-old pie.
I've got issues. Thankfully, my stomach has rebelled on me for my poor behavior.
FACEBOOK FEB 12 BUMPIES ADMIN - POST & PM ME TO JOIN
+4 (or whatever we're up to)
Yeah, the tldr would have annoyed me much more then that post. I read that post as sarcastic and maybe poking fun a little, but nothing bad that would bother most people. I guess people who are sensitive might get upset by it, but she doesn't strike me as that type.
I'm bored so I'm going to guess other reasons why Sooner has been away:
+5 I like Sooner a lot and have been really sad that she hasn't been around.
I'm with you here. Or mabe she stopped pumping and doesn't get the same breaks anymore?
I was thinking the same thing.
Jess, how do you know she did?
So...is it true?
Dum Dum DUM.
BFP 3.8.16 EDD 11.20.16
So someone paging Sooner means it's an AE from someone in the FB group?
I didn't see that post, so I'm going to put my "brag" here.
It was horribly stormy last night, and an overgrown rosebush on the front/side of the house was scratching really annoyingly on the window. So, before bed, my DH went outisde in his Southpark pajama pants with a flashlight, and hacked off the offending part of the rosebush with a katana sword. How cool is that? The best part is, he got the katana sword for $1 from the knife show on cutlery corner a few years ago, when he bought a package deal of 100 knives for $100, and gave them out as Christmas presents to all the men in our family. (which people loved btw. Who would have thought?)
These are the things I think are cool. I'm going to read the rest of the FFFC thread now.
Yeah, honestly, I don't give a flying flip about whether it is or not. I guess I don't see the point of participating in an open forum where there is another "secret" forum where everyone gathers to privately make fun of someone, but then act different in "public." I don't know. Just seems kinda like the FB group is apparently heading back to middle school, and my 30-year old self would rather not get all wrapped up in that kind of drama.
The funny thing is that in middle school, I would have cared. Or at least probably tried to change my (posting) style to fit in. But now, I just honestly can't work up the energy to care. I post topics and reply to posts that I think are interesting. Because I think they are interesting, I generally have a lot to say about them. If you don't think they are interesting, skip them. I like bringing some science to parenting discussions--but if you don't, then just ignore my comments.
I don't get why certain people feel the need to get their kicks by making fun of a person in a locked forum...at least if you honestly can't stand me/think it is annoying when I quote statistics and studies instead of "what feels right in my mommy heart"/can't handle that I say "all y'all" and "fixing to" on a daily basis/etc., say it in this forum, where I can respond (or, more likely, not respond, but just make a note to stop paying attention to your future posts!). At least then you would be acting a tad more like an adult...
By the way, I am not GBCB-ing, because I actually do like a lot of you and love having interesting conversations about different parenting issues that aren't always as honestly discussed among real-life friends. But, I guess now that the stuff about the FB group has come out, I am less likely to want to just "hang out" here and discuss vacation ideas, cute baby pics, cute things that our husbands do, etc. It just feels less like a community than before--and my real friends don't talk about me behind my back.
(Kle taught me that if you use a smiley face, it means you can say whatever you really think, without any repercussions!)
No! That was that troll who was hating on me, remember? She was all, "you're dumb
LOL, she hasn't come around in a while, shucks. I'm glad you're sticking around. I'd add a smiley face, because it makes me happy, but now I'm not sure what the smiley at the end of the post means.
Wait what!? I facebook is blocked at work so I haven't been on all week. What have you bishes been up to?
I usually don't get involved when this stuff starts but since you responded to my post, I'll reply. I will admit I saw the page to you and thought "who is that person and they have little to no action on the bump?" To me, all it was was a thought. I did not necessarily think it was someone from the FB board though.
I'm more active on the FB board than here because it's easier from my phone. It has nothing to do with posting something there that I would not post here.
I know you wrote you don't care what anyone thinks and neither do I really, but I hope this satisfies you and this topic can die. It's not necessary. Just like the "what do you think of me posts?" who cares???
Sooooo....I know I've definitely made a few bishy comments to you on here before, but I actually do read your posts. And I think the same thing that might make your posts too long for an internet forum, in some people's opinions, is probably a very beneficial skill in the legal world. You know, logic, and...oh...reasoning .....or analysis. Just putting that on the record.
I'm just gonna say it. Please don't leave.
Ugh! Not the kind of drama I was hoping for, ladies. Why didn't the religion discussion catch on? We're not 15!
This is a UO, but since I know I will forget by next Thursday-
Yes, the board needed some spicing up this week, but these WDYT of me posts are ridiculous.