Pregnant after 35

MH has a new appreciation of what my body is doing

So, my OB gave us a bunch of pamphlets and one of them is a "your baby in actual size" dealie with life-size pictures of the baby in the uterus. It starts at 2 months and goes to 9 months. I showed MH what size our nugget is now at 12 weeks and his eyes opened wide and he said "holy-- it's that big already?!?" Yes, dear. That's why I'm so exhausted all the time. It's growing that fast.

So then I show him what size the baby will be when it's born. His eyes went so big that he looked like the Trix rabbit-- you know, whose eyebrows actually leave his head because his eyes are open so wide? MH just looks at me and says, "Holy @$%&*#!! That as to sit in your belly and then come out your hoo-hoo?!?" Yes, aren't you glad I'm the one having this child? See why I want this child to have my little beanie head and not your huge rectangular block?

He is in total awe, now. And very loving and attentive. And not at all nagging me that I am pretty much spending my days napping and reading on the couch when I'm not working.
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                           Me:39  MH:39 
DD born 6/1/2013 after 15 months of TTC with one loss.    
TTC #2: BFP 4/22 but stalled growth and no HB at 9w3d on 5/30        

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Re: MH has a new appreciation of what my body is doing

  • Can he talk to my husband? LOL!

    Don't get me wrong, my DH is a wonderful, thoughtful, caring man. It just hasn't dawned on him yet that I'm not the same person I was pre-preggo> Heck, it sort of hasn't dawned me me yet either- (*see old gray mare post :))
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  • I should post the document as a pdf file that you can then print out to show him. MH actually held it up against my belly. He was really amazed...
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    "You have to do your own growing no matter how tall your grandfather was." 
            -- Abraham Lincoln
     

                               Me:39  MH:39 
    DD born 6/1/2013 after 15 months of TTC with one loss.    
    TTC #2: BFP 4/22 but stalled growth and no HB at 9w3d on 5/30        

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  • That is pretty cool!  I don't think it really sank into my DH's brain that we were having babies until he saw them dancing around at my 12 week u/s.  Then he was like, woah, there are actual live growing babies in there!  Now he is quick to help me unload the groceries, do laundry, etc.

    Me:40 AMA, DH:36 0% morph, TTC#1;
    BFP#1 4/2011, MMC 6/2011 11wks Trisomy 13;
    BFP#2 11/2011, CP
    FSH: 17.9, AMH: 2.2
    IVF#1 w/ICSI: ER 4/3: 5R,4M,4F
    ET 4/6 All 4 (1-8A+, 2-8A-, 1-3A) BFP#3
    Two weeks of beta hell = Blighted Ovum
    IVF#2 Aug/Sept: ER 8/27: 4R,3M,3F
    ET 8/30 (1-8A+, 1-6A+)
    Beta#1 9/10: 350; Beta#2 9/12: 796; Beta#3 9/20: 9155
    Expecting Boy/Girl Twins! My babies were born 4/23/13 at 36w1d!

     
     

  • That is great.  I just got a bag of stuff from my OB, wonder if we have something similar.

     My DH had no clue either.  He is constantly asking "why are you tired" etc. 

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    ~~~BFP 10/9/12, EDD 6/17/13~~~
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  • My husband finally, truly, got it a few weeks ago when I showed him this.  Puts it into "man terms".  If nothing else, we got a really good laugh out of it.  :)
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  • imagedbadura01:
    My husband finally, truly, got it a few weeks ago when I showed him this.  Puts it into "man terms".  If nothing else, we got a really good laugh out of it.  :)

    Love this!  Forwarding to my DH :)

    Me:40 AMA, DH:36 0% morph, TTC#1;
    BFP#1 4/2011, MMC 6/2011 11wks Trisomy 13;
    BFP#2 11/2011, CP
    FSH: 17.9, AMH: 2.2
    IVF#1 w/ICSI: ER 4/3: 5R,4M,4F
    ET 4/6 All 4 (1-8A+, 2-8A-, 1-3A) BFP#3
    Two weeks of beta hell = Blighted Ovum
    IVF#2 Aug/Sept: ER 8/27: 4R,3M,3F
    ET 8/30 (1-8A+, 1-6A+)
    Beta#1 9/10: 350; Beta#2 9/12: 796; Beta#3 9/20: 9155
    Expecting Boy/Girl Twins! My babies were born 4/23/13 at 36w1d!

     
     

  • Dh just said to me, I can't believe that you can feel her kicking you when she is only 1 lb 3 oz.  I think that I need the lifesize pictures for him.
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  • imageCountry Girl in the City:
    Dh just said to me, I can't believe that you can feel her kicking you when she is only 1 lb 3 oz.  I think that I need the lifesize pictures for him.

    You should show him a photo of what a person's insides look like without a baby inside them. Then you can ask him, "Where do you think this baby fits among all this tightly-packed essential organ mish-mash? Yeah, I can feel the 1 lb baby kick." 

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    "You have to do your own growing no matter how tall your grandfather was." 
            -- Abraham Lincoln
     

                               Me:39  MH:39 
    DD born 6/1/2013 after 15 months of TTC with one loss.    
    TTC #2: BFP 4/22 but stalled growth and no HB at 9w3d on 5/30        

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    <br /> My Ovulation Chart</a>

  • imagedbadura01:
    My husband finally, truly, got it a few weeks ago when I showed him this.  Puts it into "man terms".  If nothing else, we got a really good laugh out of it.  :)

    I read that and I have to say-- total man that his measurements are off. (You know the old joke about why women can't measure anything because they've always been told that 4 inches is 6 inches, nyuk nyuk nyuk.) He goes from a quarter to a marble. From a measuring tape to a hockey puck... Silly man!

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    "You have to do your own growing no matter how tall your grandfather was." 
            -- Abraham Lincoln
     

                               Me:39  MH:39 
    DD born 6/1/2013 after 15 months of TTC with one loss.    
    TTC #2: BFP 4/22 but stalled growth and no HB at 9w3d on 5/30        

    <a href="http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/3a2798" style="font-size:smaller;" >
    <br /> My Ovulation Chart</a>

  • LOL, I had to share that with my husband and guess what his comment was.  Week 20 looks promising.  Men! My husband is such a perv. LOL
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  • my DH tells me everyday how much he appreciates ME having the baby instead of him!! I try to have him put his hand on my belly once in a while to feel the movement and he is totally freaked right out!! So much he says I have an alien growing inside me!! This is his first and he wasn't supposed to ever have children, I am so blessed to have such a sensitive guy, he is paranoid about everything I do and worries all the time. I'm just afraid once she's born, he won't ever put her down or let her out of his sight!!!
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