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Working full time sucks

charmedgrl517charmedgrl517 member
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I know it's best for her and will give her a nice life but its so freakin hard to leave her so much. I hate it. I wish I could just work part time and make the same amount lol or work from home. I feel like I'm missing so much and no sooner I come home it's time for her bed. I seriously hope this gets easier because I cried all day.

TTC since 7/10, BFP#1~6/28/11(4wks2d)~EDD 3/4/12, missed m/c(8wks)~8/12/11, D&C~8/16/11
BFP#2~12/15/11~EDD 8/25/12, Hannah born 8/22/12~ 7lbs 10oz & 21 in. long. :)

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  • luvmyducksluvmyducks member
    Big hugs. It will get easier.
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  • Teresa1896Teresa1896 member
    Hugs. It gets easier, but it never stops sucking. :

    BFP: 7/5/10   EDD: 3/13/11  Miscarriage 8/1/10 at 8 weeks

    BFP: 10/30/10   EDD: 7/7/11   Born 7/11//11 7lb12oz, 20 in.

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  • FmrAFBratFmrAFBrat member

    imageTeresa1896:
    Hugs. It gets easier, but it never stops sucking. :

    This.

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    BFP #1 10-11-10 ectopic discovered 10-22-10, 10-23-10 methotrexate & emergency surgery, lost right tube BFP #2 12-1-10 Found to be tissue dropped from salingectomy or missed heterotopic pregnancy from BFP #1 BFP #3 1-30-11 DS arrived on due date 10-10-11 BFP #4 Surprise 9-3-12 EDD 5-9-13 DS2 arrived 5-5-13 BFP #5 5-14-14 Emergency D&C 6-16-14 9 weeks
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  • bmv1980bmv1980 member
    I'm sorry...working does suck. Like pp said, it'll get easier, but being with baby is always preferable. Hugs!!
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  • ellebelle2384ellebelle2384 member

    imageTeresa1896:
    Hugs. It gets easier, but it never stops sucking. :

    This.  It's tough in the beginning and harder on you than them.  But you're doing the best for your family.  (hugs) 

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    Dx: Me: Recurrent Pregnancy Loss; DH: Low Morphology (2%)
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    BFP#2: 5/3/11 - EDD 1/9/12 - DD Born 1/6/12
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    BFP#5: MMC discovered 8/4/14 at 9w1d - D&C 8/5/14 - Baby Boy with Trisomy 16 (maternal origin) - EDD 3/8/15
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  • JulyMomma2U2JulyMomma2U2 member

    I agree with PPs, too.. it does get a little easier.. though, I've been back for 7 weeks and I still feel really "down" some days about being away so much..

    Have you thought about discussing P/T options with your employer?

    I've considered it.. and, actually even mentioned it to my managers, and semi got an approval.. but, the pay cut just makes it so difficult.. I wouldn't want to put us in a financial situation where we were no longer "comfortable".. plus, in January we'll start with daycare costs, so already a huge chunk of our "flexible spending" $ will be going towards that.. I don't think I could swing paying the DC costs even if I dropped down to 4 days/week.. 

    It is a sucky situation.. I've been posting occasionally on the working mom's board.. you get a decent mix of those who despise working, but have to, and those that choose to work even though they don't "have to".. helps for perspective..

    Hang in there :)

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  • Izabella22Izabella22 member

    imageTeresa1896:
    Hugs. It gets easier, but it never stops sucking. :

    Agreed. 

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