mixed-religion household and holidays...

Just wondering what folks are planning to do for the holidays with LO if you have a mixed household. DH and I are a Jewish/Catholic couple and have "weathered" it well as adults with our respective families, but having a child brings up more stuff for all the grandparents, etc., obviously.

During our marriage, we have celebrated all the holidays with family but celebrate none of them in our own home. As adults who aren't religious ourselves, but have very religious family members, it has worked best for us. Now people ask us about a Christmas (tree, presents, etc) this year as LO's first Christmas. We've never had one before. I have mixed feelings about it (both positive because of the good childhood memories I have from Christmastime and negative since we aren't raising LO in either religion so it feels kind of dishonest or something).

Anyhow, DH and I talk a lot about it, and I was just wondering if anyone was in a similar situation and what you are doing this year with LO.