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Ups and Downs

KaitieTKaitieT member
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I was just curious if anyone else has or had expierenced this? My husband and I are expecting our first child. I have had one m/c already. I'm having a hard time just being over-the-top excited. I'm about 6w2d and he is ready to tell everyone. I on the onther hand am worried about another m/c. I know its not in my hands at this point but the worry is still in the back of my mind. Any suggestions on how to put this aside and let my excitment show through?



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  • RedCherry1109RedCherry1109 member
    All I can say it take it day by day.I'm waiting til I go to the doctor before we start telling everybody. Our close family knows but that is it. 


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  • brittnicole2011brittnicole2011 member
    I don't think ur being unreasonable.. i haven't told my parents or anyone besides hubby and one friend... the way i see it is if we lose this baby why put my family through the hurt too if it could be avoided.. men don't understand all the things that could happen so their more ready to shout it out. Do what makes you feel comfortable!
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  • Southernsunflower2012Southernsunflower2012
    Having dealt with a previous loss I think your wants and worries are justified! Just try to keep explaining to him. I hope he gets it and then you as a couple tell people when you feel like you are both ready. T&P's 
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  • ESD_0707ESD_0707

    Speaking from experience, miscarriages can forever change your view on pregnancy.  With my first miscarriage, I cried for months.  After 5, I got to the point where I barely even grieved a loss.  It's hard to imagine, I know, but I got numb to it.  

     Now, with this current pregnancy, I am trying to think positively about it and trust in God.  I'm not out shopping for the baby or anything like I was the first time because I know nothing is guaranteed.  However, if this pregnancy sticks, I don't want to regret pushing the pregnancy out of my mind because of fear.  

     Trust in God and enjoy your pregnancy! 

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  • jlpevjlpev member
    We waited till after my first appointment before we told anyone. I was 8 weeks. Good luck and just try to relax.
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  • mikaelaandmichaelmikaelaandmichael member
    I told my family the day i got my first BFP. i wasnt planning on it exactly. I told my closest sister and she told my 2 of my brothers. YEAH.... wasnt to happy about that but i decided to tell everyone else. I am NOT telling FB until christmas. Ill be around 15+ weeks but I dont care. My family is very supporting but i dont want to tell ppl on FB about a loss. Its not there business.
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  • Ashleymarie9807Ashleymarie9807
    I went the other way, I told everyone, but its because I would need there support God-Forbid something went wrong, I just lost my mom over the summer and I would not be able to handle the heartbreak alone.
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