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April 2013 Moms
ldawngirl
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Bad news
ldawngirl
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We got the results from the cvs test today and it wasn't good. Baby is not okay. 
I won't get into the details, but we have opted to terminate. We met with an OB early this evening (not my regular OB - a specialist) and hopefully he can squeeze me in tomorrow morning (depending on the hospital availability), but he said definitely by the end of the week. I'm kind of numb, but considering we knew this was a good possibility, it's not surprising. DH and I said all along that we'd try once and see how it goes and leave it at that. I don't want to go through this time and time again, so I think we'll be child-free. We both are okay with that, but at least this way we knew that we tried.
My friends and sister have been amazing. My mother on the other hand is driving me nuts. She keeps asking if I'm sure and saying "what if you just wait and see what the 20 week u/s shows", etc. etc. We know the results, they're definite (just not the degree of severity, which is what the u/s could MAYBE show us) and if we wait until the 20 week u/s, I'd have to be induced, but I'm early enough now that I can do a D&C.
Anyhoo, I hope all goes well for everyone here and your pregnancy, labor and baby are happy and healthy ones!
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Re: Bad news
Wow, I'm really sorry you and your family have to go through this.
I hope everything goes ok with your procedures. Wishing you well.
I wish you well with all my heart.
BFP 6/28/12 EDD 03/07/13 MC 4w5d 07/03/12
BFP 07/30/12 EDD 04/09/13
(((((((((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))))))))
I am so, so sorry for you! Thoughts and prayers for your family. Wishing you well!!!!
Someone's getting a little brother!
I'm so very sorry.
I'm so terribly sorry. I will be thinking of you and your family. I hope the surgery goes as smoothy as possible and you recover quickly.
Hugs and healing to you.
wow, i am so sorry. you don't have to be child free; there are some many babies born info foster care that need loving homes and parents to raise them, like you guys!
I will check in post-D&C to let you know that it all went well.
You fill me!!! Z! My BFP Chart
BFP #1: 5/10/12; 5/22/12: pregnancy deemed not viable (probably CP)
BFP #2: 8/2/12; Due date: 4/14/13, DD born 4/5/2013
BFP #3: 11/2/14, Due date: 7/7/15
"A man walking backwards does not see what lies ahead, only what he is leaving behind."
BFP #1-7/22/12 EDD: 4/8/13 It's a Boy!! Born 3/30/13
BFP #2 2/3/14 EDD: 10/15/14 - My Chart
I'm so sorry to hear your news. Lots of thoughts and prayers from here.
We'll miss you. Best of luck with healing, and let us know if there is anything we can do for you.
Married: 6/27/2008
DS: 3/14/2010 Planned, PG first try
M/C 6/2012
DD: 4/22/2013 Planned, UnDx Infertility, PG on our own
BFP: 10/28/2016 Unplanned, HUGE SURPRISE!
M/C 12/12/2016
BFP: 10/27/2017 Unplanned, HUGE SURPRISE
EDD: 7/2/2018
BFP #1 4/10/12, lost at 8 weeks.
BFP #2 EDD 4/18/13. Its a Boy!
Good luck with your recovery and healing. We will miss you on this board.
Hugs!
BFP #1: 08/17/2012 DD1 born 05/01/2013
BFP #2: 07/31/2015 M/C 09/23/2015 (11.5 weeks)