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KristySnyder · October 2012

I am exstreamly emotional. I think I need to stop checking our board for a while till everyone has made it to the 2nd tri Crying Everytie I log on it seems we loose another one and it make me more and more scared. I keep wanting to call the dr and get another ultra sound. I am tryign to talk hubby into buying a dobbler thing so I can check for the heart beet myself Crying

I feel so bad for everyone....Is anyone else cring and starting to freak out seeign these post?

sweetbabypea · October 2012

I felt the same way. My hearts breaks for the ladies struggling with loss, it's making me so nervous.

SarahDavis83 · October 2012

I'm sure you're fine. I had a lot working against me, especially with my subchorionic hemorrhage. Do your best to relax. Thank you for feeling for me, but stressing is not good for your little one. God only gives us as much as we can handle, and He knows I can handle this. Happy and healthy 9 to you and everyone else.

KristySnyder · October 2012

yep emotional...I am balling now reading your reply Sarah

Your a strong lady....My next apt isn't till nov. 19th URGH!!!!! The day before my birthday....im so nervus...Thanks hun stay strong...hugs!!!!

Fuzzy21 · October 2012

You can only do so much and what will be, will be. Regardless of what happens, you'll get through it. It's tough. I'm a nervous wreck. I don't want to say goodbye and I still have almost three weeks until I match my last pregnancy's length. It's a mind game. Breaks from the Bump help. Be healthy, stay busy and hopefully everything will be okay

SarahDavis83 · October 2012

Lol, I'm crying too! Hormones are stil

notquiteblushing · October 2012

Think of all the time you could devote to your spelling during your absence.

SarahDavis83 · October 2012

Hormones are still in my system. That's only 3 weeks away. You'll make it. Good luck to you.

sweetbabypea · October 2012

notquiteblushing:
Think of all the time you could devote to your spelling during your absence.

Really?

SarahDavis83 · October 2012

sweetbabypea:
notquiteblushing:
Think of all the time you could devote to your spelling during your absence.

Really?

Yeah, wow, someone's grumpy!

rockstar8575 · October 2012

notquiteblushing:
Think of all the time you could devote to your spelling during your absence.

Well that was unnecessary.

notquiteblushing · October 2012

SarahDavis83:
sweetbabypea:
notquiteblushing:
Think of all the time you could devote to your spelling during your absence.
Really?
Yeah, wow, someone's grumpy!

Not grumpy. The OP has the worst spelling I've seen this side of my time as a first grade tutor. It's hilarious and awful at the same time. "Exstreamly?" LMAO

mrshuys · October 2012

It is so very sad to see these ladies go through this.

My T&Ps are with them and their families.

Junebug060609 · October 2012

While it's sweet you are so concerned for others losses, miscarriages aren't catchy. You are no more likely to have one after reading about it than you were before. Unfortunately, pregnancy loss is a reality of pregnancy for some of us :C

JaimeCH · October 2012

So much of this is out of our hands. Be happy that you are pregnant today, and hopefully all of us will hold a baby in our arms soon.

Mommy2CB · October 2012

I know how you feel, it is sad and also a reminder that we could not be OK either. However, you kind of have to not think of it that way and just hope for the best. Home Dopplers won't be able to detect the heartbeat until around 10wks or so, but with my son I totally purchased one and intend to use it this pregnancy as well, it does help ease your fears before you can feel kicks!

jenny1980 · October 2012

How much do Dobblers cost?

notquiteblushing · October 2012

jenny1980:
How much do Dobblers cost?

jenny1980 · October 2012

Heart beets! Crying

sweetbabypea · October 2012

It was an unnecessary comment.

behapy2day · October 2012

notquiteblushing:

jenny1980:
How much do Dobblers cost?

::dead::

notquiteblushing · October 2012

sweetbabypea:
It was an unnecessary comment.

I bet you're just the life of the party. Party!!!

AvidVertigo · October 2012

I am so blonde sometimes and totally didn't get that photo until someone pointed it out. LOL - can I now blame my blonde moments on pregnancy?

stephaniehicks1106 · October 2012

notquiteblushing:

sweetbabypea:
It was an unnecessary comment.

I bet you're just the life of the party.

Wow - I think it's just that some people don't find it funny to belittle others.

behapy2day · October 2012

sweetbabypea:
It was an unnecessary comment.

While notquiteblushing may have come across harsh to some people, it's honestly the truth. OP tends to have a lot of spelling errors when she posts, and it would be appreciated if a simple spell check of what is written could be done before hitting post. It's not the first time I've read one of her posts and thought this.

Luthy · October 2012

notquiteblushing:
jenny1980:
How much do Dobblers cost?

OMG. You win.

notquiteblushing · October 2012

Other than the spelling, the twice weekly "I can't stand seeing the loss posts" is so AWy and offensive. Those should just stop.

BnchaNums · October 2012

Lol.

behapy2day · October 2012

notquiteblushing:
Other than the spelling, the twice weekly "I can't stand seeing the loss posts" is so AWy and offensive. Those should just stop.

There have been more than one? Thank goodness I missed those!

kread8 · October 2012

behapy2day:

notquiteblushing:
Other than the spelling, the twice weekly "I can't stand seeing the loss posts" is so AWy and offensive. Those should just stop.

There have been more than one? Thank goodness I missed those!

I have to agree - seeing them makes me cringe. I get that people are nervous - I think all of us are to different degrees - but I hate to think how some of the people coming here to post that they just suffered a loss would feel seeing those posts...

count the stars · October 2012

NQB I love it

TchrKate · October 2012

I had to take a break until we saw a heartbeat. Until then, I didn't trust my body to stay pregnant AT ALL and the m/c posts were too horrible. I was calling the internet "the scare machine."

If it helps, you are not alone, and you will be welcomed back when you return.

Que*Syrah · October 2012

notquiteblushing:
Think of all the time you could devote to your spelling during your absence.

I think I love you.

P.S. happy to see you here! (I'm not a creeper....I used to be a regular on MM)

courty625 · October 2012

I have also been pretty emotional lately, especially over all of the losses. It is heartbreaking.

As for the Doppler, I want one but DH is against because he knows if I can't find the heartbeat I will be even more stressed & worried.

SarahDavis83 · October 2012

kread8:
behapy2day:

notquiteblushing:
Other than the spelling, the twice weekly "I can't stand seeing the loss posts" is so AWy and offensive.  Those should just stop. 

There have been more than one? Thank goodness I missed those!

I have to agree - seeing them makes me cringe.  I get that people are nervous - I think all of us are to different degrees - but I hate to think how some of the people coming here to post that they just suffered a loss would feel seeing those posts... 

I'm not offended, and I'm having my d and c tomorrow....

Ktrue85 · October 2012

I understand that it is difficult to read about the losses and the bad days when you're paranoid yourself, but for some reason this post just rubs me the wrong way. The idea of this community is to support one another; not to turn a blind eye when things get bad. Offering support to the women who have suffered a loss is equally as important as congratulating those who have great appointments and ultrasounds. I just didn't like this post as it sounds like you only want to be involved when things are going great for others so you don't have to feel worried for your own situation.

I'm not trying to be a complete jerk, but this is how it truly sounds to me. You do whatever is best for you, though, honestly.

kelseypie · October 2012

notquiteblushing:
jenny1980:
How much do Dobblers cost?

omg love

sweetbabypea · October 2012

notquiteblushing:
sweetbabypea:
It was an unnecessary comment.

I bet you're just the life of the party.

Haha, actually I am a lot of fun. I just took issue with the fact that the post was about something that was a trigger for a lot of pregnant women, and you chose to belittle the OP. Poor spelling does not mean that she doesn't have valid concerns, which many of us have and are terrified that something could go wrong.

It's not a really big deal, but like I said before, just a comment that was necessary and unproductive. Spell check is a beautiful thing

kread8 · October 2012

Ktrue85:

I understand that it is difficult to read about the losses and the bad days when you're paranoid yourself, but for some reason this post just rubs me the wrong way. The idea of this community is to support one another; not to turn a blind eye when things get bad. Offering support to the women who have suffered a loss is equally as important as congratulating those who have great appointments and ultrasounds. I just didn't like this post as it sounds like you only want to be involved when things are going great for others so you don't have to feel worried for your own situation.

I'm not trying to be a complete jerk, but this is how it truly sounds to me. You do whatever is best for you, though, honestly.

Thank you - this is exactly how I felt when reading this thread but couldn't figure out how to put it into words. You said it much more eloquently than I would have if I tried.

kaleyandjason · October 2012

notquiteblushing:
Other than the spelling, the twice weekly "I can't stand seeing the loss posts" is so AWy and offensive.nbsp; Those should just stop.nbsp;

Seriously. I don't like seeing them any more than anyone else, but it doesn't need a whole new post.