Mainly name calling. Our DD has a friend at school who is a bit aggressive with her but I've been able to teach her some tools to work with that. The problem we are having is that her friend also calls other mean names when she gets mad and my DD has picked up some terms that are not allowed in our household and has called either her dad or myself by those names. One of them is pretty bad and she has already used it towards me three times. I've told her that we don't call people names, that it hurts people's feeling, etc. and that even if her friend uses those words we don't allow it nor want her to use them at home or school. I know that she does not know what the word means but she is using it when she is mad at me so she knows that it is not a nice thing to do. How do I get her to stop the name calling? Should I ignore it and how it goes away? Keep telling her that we don't talk that way? What has worked for you? I cannot believe I have to deal with this already and she is only four.