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Devastated - NTTCALR

Hi Girls,

I just need to get this out.

So DH and I bought a house back in February. It had been vacant for years, pipes had frozen, flooded, caused mold, and then the bank had torn out all of the finishes to remove the mold (Floors, Drywall, kitchen, bathrooms... everything, even the insulation.) So DH and I have been killing ourselves trying to rebuild this shell of a house. We finally got to a point that I thought I could see light at the end of the tunnel. We just needed our new furnace hooked up to the propane lines inside so that we could get the propane tanks delivered. We called the propane company to deliver the tanks 6 weeks ago, and tomorrow was the absolute first appointment they had available. Our furnace guy hired a plumber to do the pipe work over 3 weeks ago. The pipe work he needed to do was not even fully a days work.

It's still not done, and it's not inspected. And they can't deliver the tanks unless the inside pipes have been finished and inspected.

So that means bye bye chances of heat. Bye bye appointment to have the drywall put up (since you can't mud if it's cold). We can't do the floors, or anything, literally anything before we get the heat running. And it'll be about 6 more weeks until they can get us a new tank delivery date. So really it means Bye Bye to any dreams I had of being in the house before Christmas.

I'm so freaking crushed right now I can't even see straight. This was the one glimmer of good in my world, and it's gone.

Oh, and I just looked at the department of licensure, and the asshat lost his license in January of 2010. Seems like something the furnace guy should have checked before he freaking hired him. I seriously just feel like giving up :( 

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    How frustrating!! I'm sorry you won't be able to move in by Christmas like you had hoped :(

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    That sucks...I am so sorry.
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    Oh, I am so sorry. That just bites the big one. Don't give up, y'all have worked so hard. Huge hugs to you. Do we need to go hunt this guy down?
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    Oh, ((((HUGS))) honey.  That just flucking sucks and I'm so sorry!
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    Oh, I am so sorry. That just bites the big one. Don't give up, y'all have worked so hard. Huge hugs to you. Do we need to go hunt this guy down?

    Yes please! I keep telling DH that this guy better count himself lucky I don't know what he looks like... I don't know that I would be able to restrain myself from physical violence.  

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    I am so sorry :( That is really frustrating. I think that someone needs to fix this situation for you. It isn't your fault, so the furnace guy should be getting someone new to do this immediately. I wouldn't stand for that.


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    I'm so sorry.  That really sucks. I hope karma bites him in the a$$!! 
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    (((hugs))) This sounds so frustrating! 
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    I am so sorry, that sounds like a disaster!

    :(

    big hugs, and a huge drink to you! 

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    I'm sorry things are not working out like you planned. thats so frustrating. (((hugs)))
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    def dont give up! Hugs though this is def a beyond frustrating situationSad
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    As someone who lived in her garage for three months and crawled through the window to shower with no hot water, and prior to that peed and plus some in the woods in the dead of winter while drywalling, I feel you.

    I'm so sorry. Reliable trademen are so hard to find, and this process is so reliant on other people doing their job in a timely manner. I hope you get your heat really soon.
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    I'm so sorry!  Frustrating is right!!  ((HUGS))
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    Oh my goodness! I can't believe it, but we must have had enough good thoughts flowing from family and friends my wonderful TTCAL girls included! but after my frantic begging yesterday, the gas inspector just showed up! They're not supposed to come on the homeowner's call... But he took pity on us and passed the lines!!!! Now I'm just waiting for the tanks to be delivered! We still have some more work that needs to be done in the gas lines because asshat still never finished the job, but I can't believe it, but disaster has been averted!!!!!!!!
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    Oh honey, big (((hugs)))!!! I'm so sorry you're going through all of that.

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    Oh my goodness! I can't believe it, but we must have had enough good thoughts flowing from family and friends my wonderful TTCAL girls included! but after my frantic begging yesterday, the gas inspector just showed up! They're not supposed to come on the homeowner's call... But he took pity on us and passed the lines!!!! Now I'm just waiting for the tanks to be delivered! We still have some more work that needs to be done in the gas lines because asshat still never finished the job, but I can't believe it, but disaster has been averted!!!!!!!!

     

    YAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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    imageSopranoMama:
    Oh my goodness! I can't believe it, but we must have had enough good thoughts flowing from family and friends my wonderful TTCAL girls included! but after my frantic begging yesterday, the gas inspector just showed up! They're not supposed to come on the homeowner's call... But he took pity on us and passed the lines!!!! Now I'm just waiting for the tanks to be delivered! We still have some more work that needs to be done in the gas lines because asshat still never finished the job, but I can't believe it, but disaster has been averted!!!!!!!!

     

    YAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Whoops, guess I missed your update. Woohoo!!! That is great news!

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    I am so sorry! I hope things turn around soon!
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    imageSopranoMama:
    Oh my goodness! I can't believe it, but we must have had enough good thoughts flowing from family and friends my wonderful TTCAL girls included! but after my frantic begging yesterday, the gas inspector just showed up! They're not supposed to come on the homeowner's call... But he took pity on us and passed the lines!!!! Now I'm just waiting for the tanks to be delivered! We still have some more work that needs to be done in the gas lines because asshat still never finished the job, but I can't believe it, but disaster has been averted!!!!!!!!

    Yayyyyy! I would've been freaking pissed, and that plumber should probably be eating a lot of the cost of what's left on the gas lines. He should know better than to hire someone that isn't licensed. Yay for finding a silver lining and not giving up though! 

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