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Mush-TasticMush-Tastic member
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Haven't heard anything since Friday night. We assume the extended family members have chosen to parent the baby and we are moving on. We still are thankful for the opportunity to talk with a family regarding their adoption options. That, alone, is a blessing. What a crazy weekend. Thankfully I had a big race out of town yesterday so I didn't have a lot of time to sit and mull over much disappointment, but the reality of how bizarre everything was earlier this weekend is starting to sink in.

I am thankful for the support and good thoughts, prayers shown to us here. This is really one of my only places to go where others will truly understand. 

We're going to go full-steam ahead with finishing up our home study in 2 weeks and we can't wait to go through this process the RIGHT way.

Thanks again, everyone! We truly appreciate it.

:::FOLLOW MY HALF MARATHON TRAINING:::

:::Our Adoption Journey:::

Evan James was born 1/24/13 and matched with us 2/20/13. The LOVE OF MY LIFE!!!
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  • jillianmbjillianmb member
    I was really hoping this was it for you, but I am at least glad that you are handling the disappointment so well.  What a crazy, crazy weekend! Hope your home study is finished fast and you have your baby in your arms before you know it!

    TTC September 2010 thru October 2011
    SA February 2011: Normal
    RE App. October 2011 - Recc. Clomid and IUI

    Taking a break from TTC to pursue adoption

    Met our 2 year old son in Russia July 2012!
    Court trip October 2012
    Home November 24 2012!

    Back to RE Summer 2013. TTC journey continues: 

    Dx DOR, endometriosis, low sperm count 
    Clomid + IUI#1, #2 = BFN / IUI #3 = ???

    Laparoscopy scheduled December 2013

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  • DaisyZHDaisyZH member

    I was thinking about you guys, I'm sorry this particular situation didn't end up working out.  I think you handled it really well and it was good practice for the future as far as communicating with expectant parents and their families.  You did great, continued thoughts and prayers for you both, I hope you get matched very soon.


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  • missred75missred75 member
    Oh, honey. I'm so sorry. I was thinking of you all weekend hoping good things. I'm sorry this wasn't you baby, but I know your baby will find its way to your arms soon! ::hugs::
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  • Julie721Julie721 member
    I am so sorry. I know what that disappointment feels like, and I am glad you are channeling that energy into finishing your home study. I hope your wait isn't long for your baby!
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  • lizlemon2lizlemon2 member
    Sounds like an emotional rollercoaster.  Hope you get through this ok and the rest of the process goes smoothly for you.
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  • ellekaeellekae member
    So sorry this wasn't your baby, but I'm glad you are still feeling optimistic about the future! Praying for you guys!!

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    Heading to China in November 2014 to bring our son home!

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