I intend on babywearing...a lot. My MIL knows this but ended up buying a really nice traveler system, anyway. I know the carseat will get used- I just don't know about the stroller. It's really neat but I feel kind of bad that she bought such an expensive gift that I know I won't use a whole lot. I was just curious how much those of you that babywear often actually use a stroller (or if you even have one). Thanks.
Re: Baby wearing and strollers
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I definitely used a stroller. It was nice in the early months when baby was still small and sleeping a ton to be able to move the infant seat into the stroller when going somewhere. Waking up a newborn to take them out of a carseat and put them in a carrier wouldn't be too much fun.
Other occasions we used strollers--when you're going somewhere hot babywearing is less fun. Also, if we're going somewhere like the aquarium which we'll be walking around for 3-4 hours, it's nice to have a place for the baby to go since while a good carrier is comfy, you do need a break sometimes.
I definitely babywear more than using strollers, but I don't think a stroller is necessarily a bad thing to have either.
I tried to use the stroller on long walks but DS hates it. So it has been tried exactly twice and is now collecting dust. But I'm hesitant to sell it in case he starts liking it at some point... maybe sell the expensive one and buy a cheap one just in case?
But I babywear every day!
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We got a stroller because after we had everything we wanted my grandmother (who is well off) offered to get us something. It was the only big ticket item we didn't have so we decided to get one. We did not get a travel system so didn't have the benefit of snapping the car seat in and out, which might have been nice with my son, my daughter wakes up whenever the car stops anyway.
We have put our stroller in the car and taken it somewhere maybe half a dozen times since my son was born. 3 of those are since my daughter was born. With 2u2 it has been nice to take the stroller to the museum at times, so I can either put my daughter in there and play with my son more effectively or put my son in there when it's time to go so he stops getting distracted. Even so, we don't bring it every time.
We did however use the stroller on a daily basis from about 6-18 months for my son. We walk the dog every day and he was getting heavy. We kept the stroller in the garage with the leash and it was easy enough to pop him in there and go. When running errands etc it's much easier to bring a carrier than the stroller.
We don't intend to get a double stroller because of how infrequently we used the single. The toddler can walk with us when we walk the dog now and the baby gets the stroller.
We use both equally. I always have the Ergo or the RS in the bottom on the stroller for when he's sick of it and vice versa. O loves to be worn, but not all the time. Like another pp mentioned we used it a lot to transfer the carseat into if we didn't want to move him.
You never know.
DD1 hated to be worn, so she was in the stroller a lot. DD2 hated the stroller, so she was worn all the time. Say thank you, try it out, and move on.
I love babywearing but I also use the stroller quite a bit. When I was pregnant I used to think how silly it was for people to use a stroller because they are so big and bulky and it was so much easier to just wear your baby. Well, let me tell you. When my DD (who is not a good napper) falls asleep in her carseat there is no way I am waking her up to wear her. It is so much easier to just pop the carseat into the stroller with her sleeping. I don't know if it will change once she gets older but I use the stroller quite a bit for outings because of this. I usually also have a carrier with me when we are out because once she wakes up she wants out of the stroller. Like the other day we were at the mall and I had her in the stroller for a good hour and a half because she was sleeping. When she woke up I wore her in the Moby and used the stroller to put all my shopping bags.
I find that I use the baby carriers more for walks around the neighborhood.
We have a stroller (though not a travel system), but I definitely babywear more. Part of the reason is because my kid HATED the stroller until recently. Would scream his head off if he was in it.
However, the stroller was nice to have when going clothing shopping since they frown upon you hanging your baby from the dressing room doors when you're trying on clothing! And we do like having it for going on walks on the nearby trail. It's also PERFECT for pool time. When we go to the pool he can sit in there and read/play and take a nap and he's shaded by the canopy.
We BW as a normal form of transport for DD. That being said we also have 3 strollers. I got a 3rd hand bugaboo frog when I was pregnant which now live in our basement and is used by my mum when she takes DD out and about while looking after her as she's not comfortable getting DD on her back in our carriers (she'll use them if I'm here to help her).
When DD was little she hated to be too hot so in the summer when it was very warm (so in the 90's) she'd scream. We went on vacation when she was 4 months old and didn't want to take the bugaboo so my parents got us an umbrella stroller. We use that if we go on vacation where it's hot or if we're going clothes shopping (when we go to the states).
We also have an OLD jogging stroller which I used to run with, I've since had an injury and haven't run in a month or so and have now found out that I'm pregnant with #2.
So in the long and short of it it's always good to have the option if not just for you but for other caregivers.