I had my 38 week appointment today. With my DD, I was already 3.5cm dilated, 100% effaced, and head down low at this point. Of course now that I'm wanting to VBAC and my doctor wishes I would go early, I'm only 1cm dilated, 80% effaced and head's up very high still. I'm feeling discouraged! I feel my body is doing alot of things (tons of tight BH contractions, alot of crampiness), but I just wish I had the numbers to prove it. I hope things change soon.
Re: Wish I was progressing
you're only 38 weeks you have 2-3 weeks for things to happen. also there is a big push not to deliver prior to 39 weeks because it helps babies do better so it's good that you aren't delivering yet.
also dilation before labor means nothing.
i had a friend who was closed and tight at her 38 week appointment and delivered her dd went into labor 6 hours after appointment and delivered vaginally with no pitocin after 6 hours of labor.
another friend was 4 cm at 36 weeks 5 at 38 and didn't deliver until 41.2.
trust your body and let baby decide when it's ready to come.
DS2 - Oct 2010 (my VBAC baby!)