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MandiNewMommyMandiNewMommy member
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So FI and I talked tonite...

I am getting my merina taken out on Weds.  Due to health reason.  We have talked about going ahead and just do the good ole pull and pray for now.  With the wedding being a lil less than a year away I am not sure I want the stress of planning a wedding while being pregnant.  I do want another and def want them close in age.  FI said if I am ready he is ready...What do you girls think? 

I am kinda freakin out...my late husband and I tried to get pregnant for months and it never happened.  I was on the pill and slept with an old friend and got pregnant with G.  I am just worried I wont be able to get pregnant right away or it will happen right away and then I will be freakin out...lol...idk...just lots going on in my head...lol   

Okay well that is all I have for right now...Any words of advice would be great and helpful. 

 

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  • NotSharknadoNotSharknado member
    What if you were to start trying a couple months before the wedding? That way you won't be lugging a baby belly around. Or ask yourself, do you really want to be fatigue, maybe sick while finalizing wedding plans? Planning a wedding is mega stressful but if you feel you're up for the challenge I say DO IT!
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    I guess we will just play the if it happens it happens.  :)
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  • Rachey1082Rachey1082 member
    imageCrash Into Me:
    Wait, weren't you wanting to sell jewelry like a week ago because money was so tight? Pull pray sounds pretty stupid.


    I don't remember reading about you wanting to sell jewelry but, I sell Stella and Dot and do ok. So maybe you could do it all. I think it depends on what you think is important in life.

    If you want to know about Stella and Dot you can friend me on fb or email me at rWestheimer at gmail dot com
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    imageRachey1082:
    imageCrash Into Me:
    Wait, weren't you wanting to sell jewelry like a week ago because money was so tight? Pull pray sounds pretty stupid.


    I don't remember reading about you wanting to sell jewelry but, I sell Stella
    and Dot and do ok. So maybe you
    could do it all. I think it depends on
    what you think is important in life.

    If you want to know about Stella and
    Dot you can friend me on fb or email
    me at rWestheimer at gmail dot
    com
    she wanted to sell her own personal jewelry.
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  • Monsieur_et_Madame_HaMonsieur_et_Madame_Ha member

    imageCrash Into Me:
    Wait, weren't you wanting to sell jewelry like a week ago because money was so tight? Pull pray sounds pretty stupid.

    It's baby fever! There's nothing rational about it!

    Buuuut I think it would be smart to hold off on the baby making if your finances are tight right now - especially with the wedding coming up. 

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  • melissa0726melissa0726 member
    If it were me, there is no way I would be risking getting pregnant while planning my wedding.  For all the time and money we put into ours, it was really important that we get to enjoy the day to the fullest!  Also, aren't you getting married next September?  If you got pregnant relatively quickly, you might either be 9 months pregnant at the wedding, or have a brand new newborn.  Personally, that doesn't sound like the most enjoyable of circumstances!  But that's just my perspective :)
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  • MandiNewMommyMandiNewMommy member

    imageCrash Into Me:
    Wait, weren't you wanting to sell jewelry like a week ago because money was so tight? Pull pray sounds pretty stupid.

    I was selling my wedding ring from my late husband..not because of money issues.  But because I had to have $1500 in work done on my car and did not want to have it taken out of savings.  The ring is just a ring and has nothing to do with have another child now or after the wedding.  Thanks ladies for the KIND words. 

    I have thought long and hard and while I would like to have another lil one now we are going to wait.  I def would like to enjoy my wedding and honeymoon.  It is just baby fever and I know what would be best..just hard to do that sometimes. 

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  • DuckieerDuckieer member
    imageMandiNewMommy:

    imageCrash Into Me:
    Wait, weren't you wanting to sell jewelry like a week ago because money was so tight? Pull pray sounds pretty stupid.

    I was selling my wedding ring from my late husband..not because of money issues.  But because I had to have $1500 in work done on my car and did not want to have it taken out of savings.  The ring is just a ring and has nothing to do with have another child now or after the wedding.  Thanks ladies for the KIND words. 


    I have thought long and hard and while I would like to have another lil one now we are going to wait.  I def would like to enjoy my wedding and honeymoon.  It is just baby fever and I know what would be best..just hard to do that sometimes. 



    I think you're making a right decision. Don't try to have a baby until you're 100 ready to have a baby.
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    I would wait until after the wedding to get pregnant again. Wedding planning itself is a stresser, and you don't want to be pregnant on top of that and stressing out the baby.

    I have a 3 year difference between my children, and it is great. There is no reason to rush if you don't have to.

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  • Monsieur_et_Madame_HaMonsieur_et_Madame_Ha member

    imageDuckieer:
    Don't try to have a baby until you're 100 ready to have a baby.

    I read that as "Don't try to have a baby until you're 100." I thought that was a little bit drastic of an advice. lol

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  • MandiNewMommyMandiNewMommy member
    imageCrash Into Me:
    imageMandiNewMommy:

    imageCrash Into Me:
    Wait, weren't you wanting to sell jewelry like a week ago because money was so tight? Pull pray sounds pretty stupid.

    I was selling my wedding ring from my late husband..not because of money issues.  But because I had to have $1500 in work done on my car and did not want to have it taken out of savings.  The ring is just a ring and has nothing to do with have another child now or after the wedding.  Thanks ladies for the KIND words. 

    I have thought long and hard and while I would like to have another lil one now we are going to wait.  I def would like to enjoy my wedding and honeymoon.  It is just baby fever and I know what would be best..just hard to do that sometimes. 

    Ahhh, there was no mention of pulling the money from savings.  I was assuming you were broke.  I still think you should wait (as you mentioned in a f/u post).  Thanks for the jab by only thanking the ladies who had KIND words.  You know how I am. Confused

     

    Hey its all good...I am not hatin sometimes it is hard to hear things we dont want too...but that is why I asked her.  Stick out tongue

     

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  • Rachey1082Rachey1082 member
    imageeesome:
    I would wait until after the wedding to get pregnant again. Wedding planning itself is a stresser, and you don't want to be pregnant on top of that and stressing out the baby.
    I have a 3 year difference between my children, and it is great. There is no reason to rush if you don't have to.


    From personal experience, my kiddos are exactly 2.5 years apart, I think 3 to 4 years apart would be ideal. The first child would be really super potty trained, independent, and able to understand that mommy has to spend a lot of time with a new baby. At 2.5, ds wasn't able to put on his own shoes, yet, he wasn't napping. It was really hard on me.

    Baby fever gets us all sometimes. ;
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  • DuckieerDuckieer member
    imageMonsieur_et_Madame_Ha:

    imageDuckieer:
    Don't try to have a baby until you're 100 ready to have a baby.

    I read that as "Don't try to have a baby until you're 100." I thought that was a little bit drastic of an advice. lol



    Ha ha. Stupid mobile bump. It apparently doesn't like the parenthesis or the percent sign.
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