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Challenging news....

firemansflamefiremansflame member
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So we are pretty sure that this is our last hoorah.  I am currently in the 2ww of our 10th fertility treatment (6th IVF).  We have our beta on Friday.  Well I just got word that my baby brother in law and his brand new wife (married in July) are pregnant.  This will be so wonderful if we are too but if we're not.....Ugh. I will have a lifetime reminder of what our child would have been doing at various ages (we'd be due at the same time).  Not to mention that everyone will feel sorrier for us than they already do and I hate the look of pity of peoples faces.

I really really really hope this works.  I just don't want to deal with all of this if it doesn't.

 

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  • 74dragonfly74dragonfly member
    FX you get good news.




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  • SigmundsGirlSigmundsGirl
    Praying this is your cycle. Hugs!

    Dx: PCOS and short luteal phase
    18 cycles (3 with our RE) - Metformin + Clomid + HCG booster did the trick!
    BFP #1 6/22/09 EDD: 3/2/10 DS born: 3/8/10

    TTC #2 since Dec 2011
    BFP #2 7/8/12 EDD: 3/18/12 M/C @ 9w1d: 8/16/12

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  • firemansflamefiremansflame member
    ok - i'm dumb;)  what is Fx?
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  • firemansflamefiremansflame member

    imagefiremansflame:
    ok - i'm dumb;)  what is Fx?

    Oh my gosh - I'm a ding dong :)  I just figured it out as I was typing "fingers crossed" to someone else:) ha ha

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  • KatInTheHat28KatInTheHat28

    imagefiremansflame:
    ok - i'm dumb;)  what is Fx?

    Fingers crossed.  :)

    I hope this IVF works for you -- good luck!

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    BFP #4 8/12/12 M/C 8/18/12
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  • flows912flows912 member
    Good luck to you this cycle!
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  • e74e74 member
    I am crossing my fingers you get good news...  I am in my fifth ivf 2ww but I don't think I will be getting good news....  
    DS#1 born 9/23/06 
    Twins DS#2 and 3 born at 31 weeks, 3 days due to a short cervix on 8/2/13.
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  • efhoping2010efhoping2010 member
    I am so sorry that is really tough, I feel like everyone I know is due when I would have been.  Hoping and praying you get your BFP, will you POAS before beta?
    H: 34 dx Azoospermia due to CBAVD from CF  
    ME: 39 IS FINE!!!  DOR and poor AMH/FSH/LH
    IVF/ICSI/PESA #1 Beta 1 373 Beta 2 1783 BOY/GIRL TWINS!! Born April 2010!!
    Natural FET 5/26/12 2 blasts Beta 1 207 Beta 2 513 Beta 3 1377 U/S 6/28 Pregnancy not viable d & c scheduled :( 
    IVF/ICSI/PESA #2 ER 11/15/12 Nothing to transfer :( 
    IVF/ICSI #3 April 2013 MDLF 3dt of 3 embryos, chemical :(  
    IVF #4/ICSI/MESA/CCS/FET EPP April 2015
    ODWU CCRM with Dr. Sch COMPLETE!!!! Put on acai supplement they are studying for DOR and embryo quality.
    DAY 3 Labs Drawn 2/26 put on vitamin D and calcium supplements
    Regroup and Protocol Reveal 3/04 "Bazooka Protocol" EPP with MDLF "Protocol 6 with patches"
    ER/MESA 4/10 ER 9 eggs retrieved MESA success found live swimmers :)
    Fertilization Report 6 eggs mature and ICSI'd 4 eggs fertilized normally
    Day 6 Report to Blast for CCS 4/16: 2 DAY 5 BLASTS BIOPSIED FOR CCS a 4AB and a 3AB!!!!
    CCS Results BOTH BLASTS CCS NORMAL!!!!!!  call on 4/24
    Regroup call to discuss CCS results and FET call on 5/20
    FET prep: CD 1 6/08 CD 3 Start BCP 6/10, HSG 6/12 Lupron Start 10 iu 6/17 End BCP 6/21 CD 1 6/23!!!
    Start vivelle patches 6/25 change e/o/d reduce Lupron to 5iu 6/25 Blood Draw 7/01, 7/08, 7/15, 7/19
    Increase vivelle patches 7/03 2 change e/o/d and 7/05 change e/o/d 3 and 7/07 4 change e/o/d add vaginal estrace 2x a day
    Lining Check/Blood Draw 7/08 and 7/15 End Lupron 7/18  Start PIO 1ml daily 7/18  Blood  Draw 7/19
    Flight to clinic 7/22
    FET 2 CCS BLASTS :):)  7/23 :):) YES YES both thawed and both fully expanded :):)
    7/26 :):) 3dp5dt PM very very faint positive FRER
    7/27: 4dp5dt Neg Digi AM but very very faint positive FRER PM POSITIVE DIGI CLEARBLUE PREGNANT 1-2 :):) 
    7/31:8dp5dt AM POSITIVE DIGI CLEARBLUE PREGNANT 2-3!!!! :):) 
    Beta 1 8/01= 408!!!!!!!!!! at 9dp5dt FET
    Beta 2 8/03 = 1014!!!!!!!!!! at 11dp5dt FET
    8/05/2015 AM POSITIVE DIGI CLEARBLUE PREGNANT 3+!!!! :):) 
    First Ultrasound: 8/20!!!!!! TWINS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  Genetics says BOTH BOYS!!!!!!!!!
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  • firemansflamefiremansflame member

    imageefhoping2010:
    I am so sorry that is really tough, I feel like everyone I know is due when I would have been.  Hoping and praying you get your BFP, will you POAS before beta?

    I'm not sure yet.  I'm off work Thursday and Friday (my beta is Friday) so I suppose I could test on Thursday.  I just don't know Confused

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  • cislebride07cislebride07
    It is so hard to hear that news. I have a few people at work I'm just waiting for them to start showing. It kills me to see them. I hope this is your cycle and I wish you luck. I will say some prayers for all of us.
    Dx PCOS Three cycle of Clomid- BFN HSG- clear 6/09-Follistim and HCG IUI on 7/7/09 BFN 7/09- Follistim and Ovidrel IUI on 8/11/09 BFP! beta #1-342 beta #2-717 Joey was born on 5/5/10 Trying for #2 since 6/12 6/12- Gonal F and Ovidel IUI on 7/10. BFN 8/12- Gonal F and Ovidrel. IUI on 8/10. BFN 9/12- Gonal F and Ovidrel IUI BFN 10/22 Gonal F, Menopur, Ganirelex 11/4 trigger 11/6 ER 14R 10F 11/11 ET transferred one 4AA embryo beta 11/20! BFP Betas stop multiplying . m/c at 5 weeks moving on to FET if my numbers ever get back to 0!
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  • LSzwayaLSzwaya member
    I am wishing and hoping that this this too is your month!!
    MC 4/09 at 6w2d 
    Rainbow Jude 
    born: 12/31/09
    Pre-E Induction at 36w4d
    11 Day NICU stay due to GBS infection

    TTC#2 10/2010
    M/C: 4/09/11 5w
    CP: 12/26/2011 
    CP: 1/28/2012 
    MMC: 4/16/2012 at 11w2d 
    Ectopic: 6/25/2012 MTX 07/03/12
    CP 11/24/2012 
    Rainbow Violet 
    born: 9/11/13

    All ALers welcome! 
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  • ceebeeteeceebeetee member
    luck to you! 
    TTC baby #2 since July 2011, DX: low AMH
    BFP 1/21/13, blighted ovum m/c 2/12/13
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  • gault530gault530 member
    Fx for you. It's do hard to watch others have children so easily.
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