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Update and T&P request

benoitfanbenoitfan member
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Ok ladies, so this is going to be a tough weekend/week for me. Not only am I still in the hospital on bedrest, I had some contractions this morning during my NST and they were strong enough to breathe through, baby Ashton as decided to change position and I am not sure he is still head down...more tests this aft. Also, this is Thanksgiving weekend in Canada and last year on the Sat of this weekend, I started to spot and miscarry. The actual date on the calendar was Oct 10 when the loss was confirmed, but it was Thanksgiving weekend. Thanksgiving used to be my favourite holiday, now, I am brought back to my loss on this holiday and am worried about Ashton coming too early. Sunday we will hit 32 w and that is our next goal. Any T&P would be greatly appreciated to help get me through the next 5 days or so.
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  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] member
    Oh hun, you of course are and will continue to be in my T&P. Sending you huge ((hugs)), especially as you face this holiday weekend.
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  • MJM3108MJM3108 member
    Praying for you and Ashton to make it through this weekend. Sending big hugs your way. May God give you the peace and comfort you need right now. <3
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  • tbone_bridetbone_bride member
    Lots and lots of T&Ps headed your way!  Stay put little one, stay put.  I wish you the very best!
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  • Mmm79Mmm79 member
    T&Ps coming your way!  Know that we are all behind you and wishing the best for you and Ashton.  Hang in there, hon!

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  • Mrs.DeliaMariePMrs.DeliaMarieP member
    Thinking of you, darling, hope he stays in for a while longer and that you are able to enjoy your Thanksgiving. I understand the fears regarding last year, because our losses were only a week or so apart, and mine is coming up soon, too.  I hope your weekend is uneventful in regard to your pregnancy.

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  • kpowers982kpowers982 member
    As you wish!  Buttloads of Ts & Ps comin atcha!  You and Ashton are total rock stars, you've got this.
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  • Allycat11Allycat11 member
    ((hugs)) Many prayers for you and Ashton.
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  • anitafloraanitaflora member
    Sending lots of thoughts and prayers you way :

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  • delinodelino member
    I will continue to send thoughts and prayers your way. I can only imagine the fear going through you right now. I hope your thanksgiving is a happy one.
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  • angelacarmenangelacarmen
    I have been thinking about you, I'm so sorry about the contractions.  I hope baby is still head down and that the contractions ease.  I'm also sorry about your loss anniversary; I'm Canadian as well and understand how this holiday would be so hard for you.  I'm sending T&P and lots of hugs your way.
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  • jelerojelero member
    T&P for you and baby Ashton.  I hope that he's still head down and stays in a bit longer for you. I'm sorry that this is a difficult holiday for you, but I hope that you can find some peace and joy throughout the next several days.
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  • HoolahZingerHoolahZinger member
    Gosh, that sounds like such a hard past to deal with on top of Ashton's health concerns. I will definitely have you in my T&Ps. Take care! 
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  • rkricheyrkrichey member
    Lots of T&P's coming your way.  ((hugs))
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  • theturthetur member
    T&P for you and Ashton!
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  • amidkiffamidkiff member
    I'm so sorry you are going through this, especially so near the anniversary of your loss. I'll be sending you  and Ashton lots of T&P!
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  • melly918melly918 member
    I hope you are not still having contractions. Sending thoughts and prayers!!
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  • GraceInCAGraceInCA member
    Thinking lots of positive thoughts for you. I hope Ashton and you are both ok, and get through this weekend easily.

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  • Missa_gMissa_g member
    Huge hugs and many Tps. I know the thought of a preemie is terrifying, but IF you have to deliver now your baby will be fine. 32w is a huge milestone and while I hope you make it many many more weeks you are in a good place. There are three PALers that have delivered at 29w in the past year, as well as one at 32w. Please don't hesitate to reach out to any of us if you need to.
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  • jbranden12jbranden12 member
    sending thoughts for peace and comfort for you and the entire family this week!


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  • NBBride05NBBride05 member
    Stay put Ashton - you need to cook a little longer! Sending you thoughts and prayers!
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  • hvtanghvtang member
    I'm so sorry you're dealing with all this, and on a holiday, no less.  Sending lots of positive thoughts your way that you have a nice, uneventful weekend and that Ashton keeps on baking away.  ((hugs))
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  • adoxyinherearadoxyinherear member
    *hugs* I'm thinking of you and your family. Hope Ashton gets good and comfy.
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  • ktsnshnktsnshn
    Sending loads of Ts and Ps your way. Big ((hugs.))
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  • ShellBear+ShellBear+ member

    You and baby Ashton are still in my t&p!  Remember that you are in the best place possible right now for your baby and it sounds like you have great care.   Hang in there and I will be looking for your updates. 

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    BFP #2 blighted ovum found 8.2011 @8w, misoprostol
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  • GaiaEarthMom12GaiaEarthMom12 member
    Aww, I am thinking of you and wish I could give you a hug!
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  • orangegogglesorangegoggles member
    ((Hugs)) Continued thoughts and prayers your way.
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  • big_noisebig_noise member
    Thinking of you. That's a lot to deal with. Sending much hugs your way and hope Ashton is nice and safe in there until next week.
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  • Ana0927Ana0927 member
    Lots of T&P coming your way. He is hoping that Ashton stays put for a little while longer!
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  • ShaungelaShaungela member
    Lots of T&P!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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  • ShaungelaShaungela member
    Lots of T&P!!!!!!
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    Thinking of you!
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  • neon252neon252 member
    Praying for peace of mind for you, and that Ashton stays put!!
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  • KacyChicagoKacyChicago member
    I've been thinking about you as you go through this, and I hope that things will continue to be OK. I'm excited that you will be 32 weeks on Sunday, that's such a great milestone. Good luck to you and baby Ashton!
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  • biochemgirlbiochemgirl
    You have every single one of mine. I know Ashton will be perfect and healthy. I hope your weekend passes quickly
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  • bluebonnetmegbluebonnetmeg member

    imageMissa_g:
    Huge hugs and many Tps. I know the thought of a preemie is terrifying, but IF you have to deliver now your baby will be fine. 32w is a huge milestone and while I hope you make it many many more weeks you are in a good place. There are three PALers that have delivered at 29w in the past year, as well as one at 32w. Please don't hesitate to reach out to any of us if you need to.

    This! Sending lots of thoughts and prayers that Ashton's birthday is still a few weeks away,  but 32 weeks is great! Huge ((hugs)). Hang in there! 

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  • weddedwifeweddedwife member
    Thinking of you and wishing you the best!
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  • AlbahAlbah member
    Many prayers headed your way!!!! Hope those contractions stop soon and allow baby to bake longer! Hugs!
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  • ReeceFamilyReeceFamily member
    Ugh, you have been through so much already.  Loads of T&Ps floating up to the Canadian border right now...
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  • SandiaPinaMamaSandiaPinaMama member
    Praying here for you guys. Hugs!

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  • shanaynerzshanaynerz member
    Definitely sending T&Ps your way. So sorry you're going through this. *hugs*
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