Late Term and Child Loss

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It has been one week since a routine appt showed no heart beat. I was 19w. On Sat 9/29 at 103am we welcomed the most beautiful baby boy (our second)...we have no answers yet and I am almost unable to function....
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  • I am so sorry for the loss of your precious son!!  I wish I didn't have to welcome you here, but you have come to an awesome place, the women here are so supportive and caring.  Your loss is so fresh please be gentle with yourself and allow yourself time to heal.  It will take time but we are here when you need us!!  ((HUGS))
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  • I am so sorry for your loss.  I'm also sorry that I don't have the best words of comfort as I am not very far from my loss right now.  I just wanted you to know that you're not alone.  This board has wonderful women who all understand how you're feeling and are more than willing to support you.  I'm so so sorry that you're here, but I hope you can find comfort and support with us. 
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  • I am a mess...my milk is coming in, which I am trying to stop, and all I want to do it cry....

     I am so angry and have no idea why this happened. All I want is to be pregnant again...that is the only thing that is helping, that possibility....

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    BFP: 2/4/13 EDD: 10/11/13
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    Patiently waiting for Buggirl to join me!!
    Beta #1 11dpo:89 Progesterone:38.9 Beta #2 18dpo:1940
    HB seen at 6w HB 8w 5d 176bpm! Its a BOY!
    grow rainbow grow!!!!
    All Always Welcome!!
  • ((hugs)) I am so sorry for the loss of your son. 

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  • I am so deeply sorry for the loss of your son. You will have a flood of all different kinds of emotions right now. Left yourself feel them and cry has often as you need. Be easy and kind to yourself. The ladies here are wonderful and we are all here for you as often as you need.

     ((Big Hugs))

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  • I am so sorry for the loss of your son. I hope you can get some answers. My milk came in after we lost our sons as well, it was one of the toughest things for me.

    You have come to the right place for support. As much as none of us want to be here, I know many of us find comfort and one of the few places to find woman who know and understand what we are going through.The women here are amazing. I wish you peace and comfort during this difficult time.

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  • I've just joined too.  I lost my son Bradley at 41 weeks on Friday.  My milk also came in yesterday, and I would give anything to be pregnant again.  ?It sounds like we unfortunately have a lot in common.  

    Everyone here understands what you are going through, so hopefully you can find some support.  

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    I've just joined too.  I lost my son Bradley at 41 weeks on Friday.  My milk also came in yesterday, and I would give anything to be pregnant again.  ?It sounds like we unfortunately have a lot in common.  

    Everyone here understands what you are going through, so hopefully you can find some support.  

     

    Sorry, I posted from my wrong login and can't delete it. I just wanted to make sure you could become familiar with my actual screen name I'll be using on this board.

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  • I'm so sorry for the loss of your son. Did you name him? I hate to welcome you here considering the circumstances but glad you have found us. We are here to help you however you made need it.
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  • I am so so so sorry for your loss!!  We lost our baby boy in June at 18w -- we also found out at a routine appointment that he no longer had a heartbeat.  I wish there was more I could do to ease your pain.  We too have a son who will be 2 in two weeks.  You have found a great place for support!!  I do not post much - I am mostly a lurker.  I would be happy to email anytime as well (lrm1102 at gmail dot com). We are here for you anytime!  I know for me, I have a friend who found out the same day I did that she lost her little boy at 16w and talking to her has helped me so much. 

    Thinking of you!  (((Hugs))))

  • Yes...his name is Noah Michael. I am just trying to understand and process this devastating loss. 

    I am hoping to get some answers from the doctor at our appt in a few weeks.

     

    We are hoping to try again in a few months if everything turns out OK.

     

    Right now I am trying to heal physically so we can heal emotionally. How long will I bleed? I never wanted my period as bad as I do now....I just want it to be a few months from now..... 

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    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    BFP: 2/4/13 EDD: 10/11/13
    BabyFruit Ticker
    Patiently waiting for Buggirl to join me!!
    Beta #1 11dpo:89 Progesterone:38.9 Beta #2 18dpo:1940
    HB seen at 6w HB 8w 5d 176bpm! Its a BOY!
    grow rainbow grow!!!!
    All Always Welcome!!
  • I am so sorry you lost your precious Noah.  My thoughts prayers and heart is with you.
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  • I am so deeply sorry for your loss of your baby boy, Noah. Welcome to the board. The ladies here are amazing. I hope you get your answers at your doctors appointment. ((Hugs))

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  • What a beautiful name - I'm so, so sorry for the loss of your precious son Noah. I'm 6.5 weeks out from losing my son, Devon, at 34w, and I know exactly how you feel. I was so relieved when I got my first period a couple of weeks ago, but it also hit home that I really, truly wasn't pregnant anymore.

    We are here for you to vent or anything at any time. I'm sorry to welcome you here, but I hope we can help you in any possible way.

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  • I am so sorry for the loss of your precious son, Noah.  My thoughts and prayers are with you.This group of women are absolutely amazing. I hope you find comfort here.

    ((HUGS))

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  • I am so sorry for the loss of your precious boy. It is totally normal to want to try again as soon as possible. My period returned at about 9 weeks pp and my doctor advised us on when we could ttc again. I am so sorry to welcome you, but we are here for you as you begin this journey.


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    I'm so very sorry for the loss of your sweet son, Noah Michael.  It breaks my heart that you're here with us, but welcome.  I hope you will find this board to be a source of support and comfort throughout your grieving process.

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    BFP #3 - EDD 4/7/12 M/C 8/2/11 @ 4w2d
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