Parenting after 35
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To those who conceived through IVF
I am 41 and DH is 44 and I am trying to decide when and what to do with my last frozen embryo. Our first child we conceived on our own when I was 38 and we had a healthy boy at 39. DD is who we needed to go for IVF for. She was born on 7/18. Now I always felt (even before I got married) that I would be happy with two children. Well now I have the boy and girl. Thing is we still have one frozen embie on ice. I just can't come to deciding when to let it go and not pay for the storage anymore. First I was going to do it when DD was born now wait until she is a year old ... out of that whole SIDS phase ... I know something could happen to her at any time. . Has anyone been in this situation. I am not menopausal yet, and DH and I feel we are done with two kids .. .who even knows if the embryo is really healthy. Would you discard it or donate it when the time came?
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Re: To those who conceived through IVF
Our plan was to donate to research if there were any left (there were not), so that would be what I would do but I would make sure to wait until you feel very comfortable about not having any more kids for sure. The storage cost isn't that much if I recall & it would be peace of mind that you're making the right choice.
GL!
I would be okay donating to another couple but my DH wasn't/isn't at all so we donate them to research.
None of our embies have been freezable so we ended up donating 15 the first time (17 fertilized, 2 put in, 15 left over). We donated none the second time as there weren't any left over.