when i first discovered i was pregnant, my MIL gave my husband and i a crib. it was used (she was a foster mother for two babies) and in pieces, so i didn't know how it actually looked put together. now, we've placed it in the nursery and discovered it is in fact a drop side crib.
i am aware of the risks posed by these cribs, as well as the fact that generations of babies used them safely. my dad showed my husband a way to bracket the side up so it cannot come down, but i wanted to know what you all think. should i get a new one before baby William gets here in december? or would it be alright to wait until after he gets here?
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If it had all the hardware and was otherwise safe, you can order a conversion kit for that specific make and model. Depending on the company, you can probably call them to have one sent. HTH.
I would also just check that there haven't been any other kind of recalls on that crib model since it sounds like it's a few years old.
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i never thought about a conversion kit. i'll have to look into it. thanks!
yeah, he'll be sleeping in the bassinet part of his pnp for the first little while, so i think we'll just get a new one. it makes me feel really uneasy having him in the drop-side, no matter if it was free haha.
that's what i think. being a first-time mom i think has made me a little paranoid. i'm going to look at all the options before i decide though. i would also like a crib that's more sturdy that might last through two or three babies. it makes me feel better knowing it's not super unusual to have one though
If it is possible to convert it or to bolt the side up so it no longer drops I would consider using it. If not, there is no way I would consider using a drop side crib. There is a reason they are illegal in the US. And that's great all of these other people are using them and their kids are fine, but I'm not one to gamble with my child's life. And that is 100% what you are risking. There are going to be so many things that you worry about that first year. Where your baby is sleeping shouldn't be one of them. That's just my 2 cents. GL!
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yeah, i think i'm going to bolt it up and then when he becomes more mobile, we'll get a new one.
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If you're just going to get a new one eventually anyway, why wouldn't you get one that you know is safe and not have to worry about bolting?
Every time I read these posts I start to feel like a bad to-be-mother. The crib I have is the crib my parents bought in 1985. It's been through me, my 4 siblings, a handful of cousins, my sister's 2 sons, and now will be used for mine.
I don't know if drop-side's have just declined in quality over the years, but this is a solid maple crib with slats that aren't too far apart, every original piece of hardware still intact with a whole metal drop system that a grown adult can lean on and it doesn't budge. It actually takes a little effort to make the side go down (there's a kickplate underneath) after so many years, I don't think my sister ever moved the side up or down at all with her second. Because it was manufactured in 1984, Simmons doesn't carry a conversion kit, and because it's so solid (dad's a builder, hardware has been meticulously kept), and has been used without incident, I'm going to use it. I'm more worried about when my son is old enough to start climbing OUT of the thing, because it's fairly tall. My brother broke his foot at 18 months climbing out of it.
On the flip side, probably about 7 years ago, my godson had a newer drop side that even his weight at 9 months could make the drop side drop because it was just not a sturdy model, and he fell multiple times before they just screwed/bolted the rail into the frame to ensure it wouldn't drop anymore.
I guess it's all a matter of what you feel comfortable with.
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I think the newer cheaply designed models ruined it for everyone. Ours is from 2006 and very well made. DD1 used to climb in and out to play in the crib when she was 5 (and prob 45 lbs). We've never had any problems with the drop side. It was actually the very last brand/model recalled, so I think at that point they were just recalling all dop side cribs. I couldn't find any reports of any complaints linked to our crib.
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DS sleeps in a dropside crib that is 30 years old at my mom's house. The slats are the proper width and the hardware is metal and well-made. However, if we were using it for everyday, I would probably bolt it.
I also have read that cribs and car seats should be bought brand new. I think a lot of it depends on how well you know the previous owner. My MIL bought a car seat at a garage sale and we said she couldn't use it. However, my mom got one from a friend. We know them well enough to ask if they have been in any fender benders or anything that would otherwise weaken the carseat. The same goes for cribs.
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I have a drop side for my kids and I will use it for this baby. I had two kids and I'm not about to get a brand new crib for my last.
As long as its assembled properly I don't think you should have a problem.
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