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Disappointed again

cislebride07cislebride07
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I am 13 dpiui and POAS Only to get a negative result. It is our third try at this. Thinking about IVF. Thoughts from IVF girls?
Dx PCOS Three cycle of Clomid- BFN HSG- clear 6/09-Follistim and HCG IUI on 7/7/09 BFN 7/09- Follistim and Ovidrel IUI on 8/11/09 BFP! beta #1-342 beta #2-717 Joey was born on 5/5/10 Trying for #2 since 6/12 6/12- Gonal F and Ovidel IUI on 7/10. BFN 8/12- Gonal F and Ovidrel. IUI on 8/10. BFN 9/12- Gonal F and Ovidrel IUI BFN 10/22 Gonal F, Menopur, Ganirelex 11/4 trigger 11/6 ER 14R 10F 11/11 ET transferred one 4AA embryo beta 11/20! BFP Betas stop multiplying . m/c at 5 weeks moving on to FET if my numbers ever get back to 0!
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    74dragonfly74dragonfly member
    I'm sorry. What does your Dr say?




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    cislebride07cislebride07
    Our dr said he will do IVF whenever we are ready
    Dx PCOS Three cycle of Clomid- BFN HSG- clear 6/09-Follistim and HCG IUI on 7/7/09 BFN 7/09- Follistim and Ovidrel IUI on 8/11/09 BFP! beta #1-342 beta #2-717 Joey was born on 5/5/10 Trying for #2 since 6/12 6/12- Gonal F and Ovidel IUI on 7/10. BFN 8/12- Gonal F and Ovidrel. IUI on 8/10. BFN 9/12- Gonal F and Ovidrel IUI BFN 10/22 Gonal F, Menopur, Ganirelex 11/4 trigger 11/6 ER 14R 10F 11/11 ET transferred one 4AA embryo beta 11/20! BFP Betas stop multiplying . m/c at 5 weeks moving on to FET if my numbers ever get back to 0!
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    jeannaqueenajeannaqueena member

    If you have insurance coverage I would say go for it.  10-15% chance with IUI vs 60% I wish it wasn't 16k for us.  UGH!  The money is what is holding us back.

     

    TTC#1: 14 months on our own (did HSG, b/w, SA);
    BFP on Cycle 14--TWINS! Identical twin boys stillborn at 19wks(1/9/10)
    3 break cycles; took clomid 50mg, BFP #2 Beta #1 35, Beta #2 338!!! Owen was born 2/11/11! 
    TTC#2: 4 cycles on clomid: BFNs
    BFP #3: Cycle #5 100mg clomid; beta #1 21; beta #2 6=CP 
    Cycle #6 break cycle TTC no meds=BFN
    Cycle #7: 150 clomid+ovidril+IUI=BFN (switched to RE)
    Cycle #8: follistem+ovidril+TI=BFN
    Cycle #9 Forced break due to cyst
    Cycle #10 follistem+ovidril+TI=BFN
    Cycle #11 follistem+ovidril+TI=BFN
    Cycle#12 Forced break due to cyst, went on BCP; did repeat HSG, Saline U/S
    Cycle #13 IVF: Follistim/Menapur ER 11-30 11 eggs, 5 mature, 4 fertilized and 3dt on 12-3; BFN
    Cycle #14: IVF#2 lupron/follistim/menopur ER 1-22, 19 eggs, 14 fertilized, 5dt on 1-27, BFP!! beta 1: 63, beta 2: 119; EDD 10-15-13; 1 frozen embie
    Miracle Surprise BFP, EDD 10-1-15; saw HB great Betas, 11weeks lost baby MC at home
    Moved forward with FET transfered solo frostie on 6-4-15, beta 1: 315, beta 2: 738, u/s showed one baby on track EDD 2-21-16
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    SigmundsGirlSigmundsGirl
    I'm so sorry. Have you and your DH talked about IVF? I know it is a tough decision to make.

    Dx: PCOS and short luteal phase
    18 cycles (3 with our RE) - Metformin + Clomid + HCG booster did the trick!
    BFP #1 6/22/09 EDD: 3/2/10 DS born: 3/8/10

    TTC #2 since Dec 2011
    BFP #2 7/8/12 EDD: 3/18/12 M/C @ 9w1d: 8/16/12

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    cislebride07cislebride07
    My dh and I discussed it tonight and we are headed to IVF. I never thought I would get to this place but here I am .
    Dx PCOS Three cycle of Clomid- BFN HSG- clear 6/09-Follistim and HCG IUI on 7/7/09 BFN 7/09- Follistim and Ovidrel IUI on 8/11/09 BFP! beta #1-342 beta #2-717 Joey was born on 5/5/10 Trying for #2 since 6/12 6/12- Gonal F and Ovidel IUI on 7/10. BFN 8/12- Gonal F and Ovidrel. IUI on 8/10. BFN 9/12- Gonal F and Ovidrel IUI BFN 10/22 Gonal F, Menopur, Ganirelex 11/4 trigger 11/6 ER 14R 10F 11/11 ET transferred one 4AA embryo beta 11/20! BFP Betas stop multiplying . m/c at 5 weeks moving on to FET if my numbers ever get back to 0!
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    JilliansMomaJilliansMoma member

    imagecislebride07:
    My dh and I discussed it tonight and we are headed to IVF. I never thought I would get to this place but here I am .

    I was this same way.  After 7 failed IUI's my DH said let's do it.  He was ready from the start but I was afraid.  Looking back I'm so glad we did it now and he is (don't tell him I said this) usually right about this stuff.  He really is the glass is half full and I'm always doom and gloom. Thank God I have him because he is my rock through all this crap.  

    It really was easier than I thought it would be. I used The Bump a lot to help me through and ask lots of questions we are here for you!

    GL,

    JM 


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    girlieface3girlieface3 member
    I'm so sorry. We started follistim for our third round but the RE wants me to schedule a mini consult to discuss future plans. Positive thoughts going out to you.
    DD born 12/30/09 TTC since 6/2011 2/2012 Clomid +Ovidrel+ti= bfn 3/2012 Menapur + follistim= cancelled, over stimulation 4/2012 Next cycle cancelled due to cysts 5/2012 on break TTC w/o meds 8/2012 Clomid & trigger w/ IUI=BFN 9/2012 Clomid & trigger w/ IUI = BFN
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    cislebride07cislebride07
    imageJilliansMoma:

    imagecislebride07:
    My dh and I discussed it tonight and we are headed to IVF. I never thought I would get to this place but here I am .

    I was this same way.  After 7 failed IUI's my DH said let's do it.  He was ready from the start but I was afraid.  Looking back I'm so glad we did it now and he is (don't tell him I said this) usually right about this stuff.  He really is the glass is half full and I'm always doom and gloom. Thank God I have him because he is my rock through all this crap.  

    It really was easier than I thought it would be. I used The Bump a lot to help me through and ask lots of questions we are here for you!

    GL,

    JM 



    My husband is the positive one too. Some days it's annoying but I don't know what I'd do without him. Thanks all for your support.
    Dx PCOS Three cycle of Clomid- BFN HSG- clear 6/09-Follistim and HCG IUI on 7/7/09 BFN 7/09- Follistim and Ovidrel IUI on 8/11/09 BFP! beta #1-342 beta #2-717 Joey was born on 5/5/10 Trying for #2 since 6/12 6/12- Gonal F and Ovidel IUI on 7/10. BFN 8/12- Gonal F and Ovidrel. IUI on 8/10. BFN 9/12- Gonal F and Ovidrel IUI BFN 10/22 Gonal F, Menopur, Ganirelex 11/4 trigger 11/6 ER 14R 10F 11/11 ET transferred one 4AA embryo beta 11/20! BFP Betas stop multiplying . m/c at 5 weeks moving on to FET if my numbers ever get back to 0!
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    flows912flows912 member
    Sorry to hear about the bfn. I don't have any experience with ivf but listen to your gut if you think it's time to move on, then go for it!
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