Yes please explain why you are with a lazy sex offender who sits on his ass and plays video games all day. He seems AHmazing. You sure did hit the jackpot with that one!!
If you're recovering from surgery you get your fat lazy husband to help. They're his kids too. But I would totally understand why you might not want him near them.
You are a REAL piece of work.
I was on crutches for an entire month because of the microfracture, August 3rd to Sept 3, and he took care of us day and night.
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Oh, and we can't forget about how you PMed several people asking for pain pills after your husband supposedly dumped yours. So how is that for insane? But I guess you never asked for those either, just like you never "asked" for money. Your lies were outrageous, and believe me, none of us have forgotten them.
I PM'd ONLY the people who offered, and hey...guess what? If you are suffering from torn cartilage in your knee in 2 different places along with a microfracture and if you were trying to care for 2 infants then you might have done the same. At least I'm not denying it. It's called desperation, but nothing actually changed hands.
Pretty sure thats called addiction... you need help on multiple levels.
No, it's called pain. I had my knee surgery on August 3rd, which was a Friday and I was off all pain medication by Sunday. I haven't taken anything but Tylenol since. Perhaps you don't understand addiction. Good for you (and I mean that sincerely).
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If you're recovering from surgery you get your fat lazy husband to help. They're his kids too. But I would totally understand why you might not want him near them.
You are a REAL piece of work.
I was on crutches for an entire month because of the microfracture, August 3rd to Sept 3, and he took care of us day and night.
I don't understand why you are giving her grief for calling your husband lazy, you complained about his laziness to us daily...
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Yes please explain why you are with a lazy sex offender who sits on his ass and plays video games all day. He seems AHmazing. You sure did hit the jackpot with that one!!
Lord...
He has a job now. and has for quite a while He was out of work for a few months. How is that any different from the majority of the people looking for work in this recession. Jesus....
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If you're recovering from surgery you get your fat lazy husband to help. They're his kids too. But I would totally understand why you might not want him near them.
You are a REAL piece of work.
I was on crutches for an entire month because of the microfracture, August 3rd to Sept 3, and he took care of us day and night.
I don't understand why you are giving her grief for calling your husband lazy, you complained about his laziness to us daily...
Yup. He went through a phase, but how many posts did I see before I left the group about husbands who couldn't get with the program and weren't adjusting so well to fatherhood. He had some bad weeks, but he's pulled his act together and now works and plays an active role in helping around the house and taking care of the babies.
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If you're recovering from surgery you get your fat lazy husband to help. They're his kids too. But I would totally understand why you might not want him near them.
You are a REAL piece of work.
I was on crutches for an entire month because of the microfracture, August 3rd to Sept 3, and he took care of us day and night.
Pot, meet kettle.
Glad to see he stepped up his game from his complete failure at taking care of things while you were on pregnancy bed rest. Considering us poor saps had to buy you a maid.
1. At what point in your relationship did he come forward w/ his past?
I knew before we started dating.
How in your right mind could you still be attacted to someone w/ that past?
2. How does one decide to procreate w/ a pedophile?
Pedophilia is a diagnosable mental disorder. My husband has been through intensive psychological evaluation by people trained to diagnose pedophilia....and guess what...he's not.
Did you speak to a psychologist yourself? or is it just what he told you to get you to trust him?
3. Did you think for one second about the future friend's of your children? They can't come to your house...ever!
Many of our friends and ALL of our family know about my husband's past and they are all comfortable with the situation. Hmmmm....As a matter of fact, he was dismissed from therapy before his probation was even over.
Are these people friends w/ young children? Do you encourage them to google him? Maybe things are different in GA, but I know no one who'd be okay w/ that past...
4. Who's with your kids when you work?
I work from home now, but for a while I worked outside the home and I trust my husband 100%. He was with them while I worked. I wouldn't have had kids with him if I thought he was a danger.
5. What makes you think he's a changed man?
Changed from what?
Changed from a man who's got multiple convictions of child pornography.
6. Is your dad a threat? Did he abuse you as a child and that's why you are blind to the danger that you are putting your children in?
My father never abused me as a child, but he has always had a fascination with women/teenage girls much to young for him. I never leave him alone with my kids.
There's just a few ?'s I have wondered.... let's hear it.
Yes please explain why you are with a lazy sex offender who sits on his ass and plays video games all day. He seems AHmazing. You sure did hit the jackpot with that one!!
Lord...
He has a job now. and has for quite a while He was out of work for a few months. How is that any different from the majority of the people looking for work in this recession. Jesus....
>_> Riiiight. You realize no one believes anything you are saying, right?
Look, you left the burden of proof on all of us regarding your husband's convictions. We found him in the National Sex Offender Registry and discovered the newspaper article explaining the charges. If you want to turn around and say all of that are lies, well then honey, the burden of proof is now on you. Feel we aren't deserving of your "proof"? Then kindly... what was it you said earlier? Oh, kindly FRO.
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I love how all of your behavior can be explained away or blamed on circumstances or other people. But that is the hallmark of your mental illness. Constant attention needing, lying, problems bigger than everyone else's, self-destructive behaviors are symptoms also. I really hope that you do get help someday, for your children's sake. Aside from my feelings about you now, I do still have concern and caring for your babies.
If you're recovering from surgery you get your fat lazy husband to help. They're his kids too. But I would totally understand why you might not want him near them.
You are a REAL piece of work.
I was on crutches for an entire month because of the microfracture, August 3rd to Sept 3, and he took care of us day and night.
Pot, meet kettle.
Glad to see he stepped up his game from his complete failure at taking care of things while you were on pregnancy bed rest. Considering us poor saps had to buy you a maid.
For the record, the things I complained about when I was on bed rest were things like the floors being dirty and the bathrooms not being cleaned. Oh noes. He shopped, cooked meals, answered my every request, kept the yard work done and took care of laundry while looking for a job.
All that maid did was vacuum our carpets, wipe down our counters and wet mop the floors. If I had really needed someone to help me out then I would've asked my mom to get a housekeeper. Again, never asked any of you for anything.
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If you're recovering from surgery you get your fat lazy husband to help. They're his kids too. But I would totally understand why you might not want him near them.
You are a REAL piece of work.
I was on crutches for an entire month because of the microfracture, August 3rd to Sept 3, and he took care of us day and night.
Pot, meet kettle.
Glad to see he stepped up his game from his complete failure at taking care of things while you were on pregnancy bed rest. Considering us poor saps had to buy you a maid.
For the record, the things I complained about when I was on bed rest were things like the floors being dirty and the bathrooms not being cleaned. Oh noes. He shopped, cooked meals, answered my every request, kept the yard work done and took care of laundry while looking for a job.
All that maid did was vacuum our carpets, wipe down our counters and wet mop the floors. If I had really needed someone to help me out then I would've asked my mom to get a housekeeper. Again, never asked any of you for anything.
Sweetie, this is probably why you don't have friends other than Alicia...where is she?! Not like she has a job anymore right?
You know what? All we are really wanting is a simple apology. "I'm sorry for lying by omission. I'm sorry for taking money under false pretenses (because obviously you didn't need it, from what you're saying)" Do you think you could sweep aside your delusions long enough to apologize? Or do you really feel like you did nothing wrong?
So if you were so broke how did you manage to have professional pictures taken of the twins when they were newborns? And all these other professional pictures? For someone who was so broke and in such bad circumstances you sure seemed to have really nice things for the twins and managed to keep your internet running. You never missed a day on TB or FB during this whole time, and if you were that broke and that desperate, you would have cut off the utilities that you didn't really need. Some people are just sick in the head.
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1. At what point in your relationship did he come forward w/ his past?
I knew before we started dating.
How in your right mind could you still be attacted to someone w/ that past?
The Army thing happened before we met. I knew him for almost 4 years before we started dating and about 3 years before the thing in New England happened. When we first started dating I went to the courthouse where his trial took place and checked things out for myself. Contrary to what you all believe, I covered my bases.
2. How does one decide to procreate w/ a pedophile?
Pedophilia is a diagnosable mental disorder. My husband has been through intensive psychological evaluation by people trained to diagnose pedophilia....and guess what...he's not.
Did you speak to a psychologist yourself? or is it just what he told you to get you to trust him?
I didn't have to. When we moved to GA from New England (which if you read up, GA has MUCH stiffer requirements than NE) he was told he didn't have to do any treatment in GA. The treatment was just a condition of his release. It's the same for all RSOs, but not all of them are released early.
3. Did you think for one second about the future friend's of your children? They can't come to your house...ever!
Many of our friends and ALL of our family know about my husband's past and they are all comfortable with the situation. Hmmmm....As a matter of fact, he was dismissed from therapy before his probation was even over.
Are these people friends w/ young children? Do you encourage them to google him? Maybe things are different in GA, but I know no one who'd be okay w/ that past...
Yes, most of them have young children ranging from 6 months to 17. After being presented with the facts they are all fine and trust him around their children. Of course, he is never alone with their kids (mostly our decision), but we do attend events and frequently visit their homes.
4. Who's with your kids when you work?
I work from home now, but for a while I worked outside the home and I trust my husband 100%. He was with them while I worked. I wouldn't have had kids with him if I thought he was a danger.
5. What makes you think he's a changed man?
Changed from what?
Changed from a man who's got multiple convictions of child pornography.
I have no comment for that. No amount of arguing or rebuttal is going to change your mind.
6. Is your dad a threat? Did he abuse you as a child and that's why you are blind to the danger that you are putting your children in?
My father never abused me as a child, but he has always had a fascination with women/teenage girls much to young for him. I never leave him alone with my kids.
There's just a few ?'s I have wondered.... let's hear it.
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You know what? All we are really wanting is a simple apology. "I'm sorry for lying by omission. I'm sorry for taking money under false pretenses (because obviously you didn't need it, from what you're saying)" Do you think you could sweep aside your delusions long enough to apologize? Or do you really feel like you did nothing wrong?
That will never happen. In true narcissistic fashion, she truly believes she's done nothing wrong and that we've all wronged her in some way.
A person with narcissistic personality disorder may:
React to criticism with rage, shame, or humiliation
Take advantage of other people to achieve his or her own goals
Have excessive feelings of self-importance
Exaggerate achievements and talents
Be preoccupied with fantasies of success, power, beauty, intelligence, or ideal love
Have unreasonable expectations of favorable treatment
Need constant attention and admiration
Disregard the feelings of others, and have little ability to feel empathy
Good thing you called yourself out wanting sympathy because Emily deleted you as a friend. The board is so much better without you or your little b!tch. You say you cared and were genueine but really you were a bully who everyone hated but were scared to be real with you. You wouldn't believe how many people came out of the woodworks and opened up and started posting. We are a happy little group :
So if you were so broke how did you manage to have professional pictures taken of the twins when they were newborns? And all these other professional pictures? For someone who was so broke and in such bad circumstances you sure seemed to have really nice things for the twins and managed to keep your internet running. You never missed a day on TB or FB during this whole time, and if you were that broke and that desperate, you would have cut off the utilities that you didn't really need. Some people are just sick in the head.
but yes, while she was so broke, she constantly told everyone else that complained of money problems how they should handle their money. How they should cut back on cable or eating out. God it must suck to be so awesome as she is. *eyeroll*
So if you were so broke how did you manage to have professional pictures taken of the twins when they were newborns? And all these other professional pictures? For someone who was so broke and in such bad circumstances you sure seemed to have really nice things for the twins and managed to keep your internet running. You never missed a day on TB or FB during this whole time, and if you were that broke and that desperate, you would have cut off the utilities that you didn't really need. Some people are just sick in the head.
While Mike was out of work and I was unable to work our in laws paid for their pictures (which I posted about on the group). They paid for the 1 year package because there was a discount that way. Also, our photographer is very affordable because she hasn't been in business very long. ALL of the things we have for the twins were either gifted to us at showers, purchased by my MIL (I made it no secret she is a shopaholic) or purchased at consignment. Also, about the internet, it did get turned off briefly but we were able to keep our cell phones on because we have no home phone. It was a matter of necessity. Before Mike was working my mom or Mike's parents had to help us out with that a time or two...as was the case with the utilities. What grandparent is going to let their children or grandchildren go without heat or water if they have the means to help? Now that we are both working...and working from home...internet is a necessity. We can't work without it.
Next questions please
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So if you were so broke how did you manage to have professional pictures taken of the twins when they were newborns? And all these other professional pictures? For someone who was so broke and in such bad circumstances you sure seemed to have really nice things for the twins and managed to keep your internet running. You never missed a day on TB or FB during this whole time, and if you were that broke and that desperate, you would have cut off the utilities that you didn't really need. Some people are just sick in the head.
but yes, while she was so broke, she constantly told everyone else that complained of money problems how they should handle their money. How they should cut back on cable or eating out. God it must suck to be so awesome as she is. *eyeroll*
P.S. we still don't have cable and only eat out when we have a gift card that we got from our bank rewards program or from our in laws for a special occasion.
It's not that I think I'm awesome, it's just that I've learned to live frugally.
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Yeah and she was sick of seeing posts complaining about in laws. Except it was okay for her to do it!
Meh, I never said anything malicious about my in laws, resented them or tried to conspire on ways to keep them from my kids. I just said that they were TOO generous and I didn't have room for ALL the stuff she bought. Also, when she gave my daughter iced coffee....that was a hot mess. No denying it.
It seems like if you still have all my posts you could remember...or at least look things up before you speak.
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You say next question please, but you have ignored so many... is that, or is it not your photo that was associated with several accounts named "mysteriousmommy" on different message boards, and did you, or did you not proceed to remove your picture from those accounts after your AE was outted on the bump?
What branch was Mike discharged from, and on what grounds was he discharged? What was his discharge code?
What is this supposed proof you have that would magically make everyone understand and believe your claims that he's a victim of bad reporting?
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Are these people friends w/ young children? Do you encourage them to google him? Maybe things are different in GA, but I know no one who'd be okay w/ that past...
Yes, most of them have young children ranging from 6 months to 17. After being presented with the facts they are all fine and trust him around their children. Of course, he is never alone with their kids (mostly our decision), but we do attend events and frequently visit their homes.
I'm honestly surprised he's legally allowed to be around these children.
Doesn't it bother you to know that your kids can never have their friends over to play or that your husband will never be allowed to go to school events? How horribly embarrassing that will be for your children as they grow up. In the end, I hope they can grow up to be a better and more sane individuals than their parents.
OK, here goes...not that I think it will make any difference...
I apologize for lying to all of you by omission. I did not think the information was pertinent because my husband never had access to any of your information (except for the one time after I gave birth that I asked him to type a message, but I opened the page, handed him the computer and he gave it right back).
I will not apologize for accepting the money because I desperately needed it, (and regardless of how things turned out I still am touched by the generosity you displayed by sending it.
@Ss (if I was trying to do that I never would've mentioned Mike's criminal background in the first place), it's just that I thought it was TOO personal.
I can't provide any of you with rock solid proof (yeah, yeah, go ahead and say "that's convenient") because it's all sitting in the courthouse where his trial took place.
Hate me all you want and think of me what you will, but I still care for all of you and I think of you on a daily basis. Why do I stalk TB? Because I miss all of you. You rarely post here,and when you do it's usually to bash me, but oh well.
So there. That's that. Go ahead and pick that apart and tear me down some more. I know you want to, and honestly at this point I'm used to it. The only thing that remotely hurt my feelings in all of this was the mother gorilla and spicy chicken sandwich pictures because seriously that was a hot mess. Husker wishing harm on my babies pissed me off. The rest of it rolled right off my back.
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OK, here goes...not that I think it will make any difference...
I apologize for lying to all of you by omission. I did not think the information was pertinent because my husband never had access to any of your information (except for the one time after I gave birth that I asked him to type a message, but I opened the page, handed him the computer and he gave it right back).
I will not apologize for accepting the money because I desperately needed it, (and regardless of how things turned out I still am touched by the generosity you displayed by sending it.
@Ss (if I was trying to do that I never would've mentioned Mike's criminal background in the first place), it's just that I thought it was TOO personal.
I can't provide any of you with rock solid proof (yeah, yeah, go ahead and say "that's convenient") because it's all sitting in the courthouse where his trial took place.
Hate me all you want and think of me what you will, but I still care for all of you and I think of you on a daily basis. Why do I stalk TB? Because I miss all of you. You rarely post here,and when you do it's usually to bash me, but oh well.
So there. That's that. Go ahead and pick that apart and tear me down some more. I know you want to, and honestly at this point I'm used to it. The only thing that remotely hurt my feelings in all of this was the mother gorilla and spicy chicken sandwich pictures because seriously that was a hot mess. Husker wishing harm on my babies pissed me off. The rest of it rolled right off my back.
From the other thread:
"Aww, aren't you a sweetheart to say those things after all the crap you've talked about me over the last couple of months. For the record, since what happened you you petty people I've actually gone to a lot of people in my life and explained to them the situations and it's amazing how knowing the whole story (not just my version, but the version backed up by fact...ie. documentation from the court) makes people see and understand the whole story. You see, it's a funny thing about newspaper reporters.... There's this little thing in our country called freedom of speech and they are free to print whatever they like, whether it's true or not. However, thankfully I have the documentation from his trial to present as real evidence...not that any of you asked for or cared to see any of that.
Anyway, thanks for your feigned concern, but we are doing just fine. You can stop wasting your time worrying about us. We are all doing just great. "
So you've backed up your version to others with "fact...ie. documentation from the court". Are we to assume then you physically took them to the courthouse and had this wondrous documentation shown to them? Because here you are implying you do not have this documentation on hand.
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You say next question please, but you have ignored so many... is that, or is it not your photo that was associated with several accounts named "mysteriousmommy" on different message boards, and did you, or did you not proceed to remove your picture from those accounts after your AE was outted on the bump?
No, and if you all would go so far as to accuse the boobgroper of being me then is it so farfetched to believe that someone would create that B.S. just to screw with me? I don't expect you to believe that.
What branch was Mike discharged from, and on what grounds was he discharged? What was his discharge code?
I've already answered this question, well the first part. It was the Army. It was a bad conduct discharge and I don't know the code. The paperwork is buried somewhere in our storage building and I'm not going to dig it out. Bad conduct is good enough. Still bad, but not dishonorable.
What is this supposed proof you have that would magically make everyone understand and believe your claims that he's a victim of bad reporting?
I never said he was a victim of bad reporting. He did plead guilty and I won't (nor have I ever denied any of that), but plea bargain or not he wouldn't have spent only a year in jail if the charges were as bad as you all and that newspaper article believe/reported. The "proof" I have I saw with my own eyes and it's in the courthouse where he was convicted (I already said that as well). I never said that it didn't look bad or incriminating. All I am saying is that I know my husband, I know what I saw and I'd like to think that you all (if you admit it deep down) know me pretty well. I don't expect you to to take me back. I just want war of words to be over. That may not be possible, but the only, ONLY reason I am here is to try. I did leave the group abruptly, but I did that for a reason. I needed to rip off the Bandaid. I blocked you all so there would be no question as to whether or not there was any access to your children. I will never claim that I am without blame, but I did what I felt was best in the situation.
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You say next question please, but you have ignored so many... is that, or is it not your photo that was associated with several accounts named "mysteriousmommy" on different message boards, and did you, or did you not proceed to remove your picture from those accounts after your AE was outted on the bump?
No, and if you all would go so far as to accuse the boobgroper of being me then is it so farfetched to believe that someone would create that B.S. just to screw with me? I don't expect you to believe that.
What branch was Mike discharged from, and on what grounds was he discharged? What was his discharge code?
I've already answered this question, well the first part. It was the Army. It was a bad conduct discharge and I don't know the code. The paperwork is buried somewhere in our storage building and I'm not going to dig it out. Bad conduct is good enough. Still bad, but not dishonorable.
What is this supposed proof you have that would magically make everyone understand and believe your claims that he's a victim of bad reporting?
I never said he was a victim of bad reporting. He did plead guilty and I won't (nor have I ever denied any of that), but plea bargain or not he wouldn't have spent only a year in jail if the charges were as bad as you all and that newspaper article believe/reported. The "proof" I have I saw with my own eyes and it's in the courthouse where he was convicted (I already said that as well). I never said that it didn't look bad or incriminating. All I am saying is that I know my husband, I know what I saw and I'd like to think that you all (if you admit it deep down) know me pretty well. I don't expect you to to take me back. I just want war of words to be over. That may not be possible, but the only, ONLY reason I am here is to try. I did leave the group abruptly, but I did that for a reason. I needed to rip off the Bandaid. I blocked you all so there would be no question as to whether or not there was any access to your children. I will never claim that I am without blame, but I did what I felt was best in the situation.
Refund everyone in the group their money and the war will be over.
You say next question please, but you have ignored so many... is that, or is it not your photo that was associated with several accounts named "mysteriousmommy" on different message boards, and did you, or did you not proceed to remove your picture from those accounts after your AE was outted on the bump?
No, and if you all would go so far as to accuse the boobgroper of being me then is it so farfetched to believe that someone would create that B.S. just to screw with me? I don't expect you to believe that.
What branch was Mike discharged from, and on what grounds was he discharged? What was his discharge code?
I've already answered this question, well the first part. It was the Army. It was a bad conduct discharge and I don't know the code. The paperwork is buried somewhere in our storage building and I'm not going to dig it out. Bad conduct is good enough. Still bad, but not dishonorable.
What is this supposed proof you have that would magically make everyone understand and believe your claims that he's a victim of bad reporting?
I never said he was a victim of bad reporting. He did plead guilty and I won't (nor have I ever denied any of that), but plea bargain or not he wouldn't have spent only a year in jail if the charges were as bad as you all and that newspaper article believe/reported. The "proof" I have I saw with my own eyes and it's in the courthouse where he was convicted (I already said that as well). I never said that it didn't look bad or incriminating. All I am saying is that I know my husband, I know what I saw and I'd like to think that you all (if you admit it deep down) know me pretty well. I don't expect you to to take me back. I just want war of words to be over. That may not be possible, but the only, ONLY reason I am here is to try. I did leave the group abruptly, but I did that for a reason. I needed to rip off the Bandaid. I blocked you all so there would be no question as to whether or not there was any access to your children. I will never claim that I am without blame, but I did what I felt was best in the situation.
Allison... just so you know, I took screenshots of those profiles before you removed your picture. Want to reconsider denying that you are MysteriousMommy?
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You are a REAL piece of work.
I was on crutches for an entire month because of the microfracture, August 3rd to Sept 3, and he took care of us day and night.
No, it's called pain. I had my knee surgery on August 3rd, which was a Friday and I was off all pain medication by Sunday. I haven't taken anything but Tylenol since. Perhaps you don't understand addiction. Good for you (and I mean that sincerely).
I don't understand why you are giving her grief for calling your husband lazy, you complained about his laziness to us daily...
Lord...
He has a job now. and has for quite a while He was out of work for a few months. How is that any different from the majority of the people looking for work in this recession. Jesus....
Yup. He went through a phase, but how many posts did I see before I left the group about husbands who couldn't get with the program and weren't adjusting so well to fatherhood. He had some bad weeks, but he's pulled his act together and now works and plays an active role in helping around the house and taking care of the babies.
Pot, meet kettle.
Glad to see he stepped up his game from his complete failure at taking care of things while you were on pregnancy bed rest. Considering us poor saps had to buy you a maid.
>_> Riiiight. You realize no one believes anything you are saying, right?
Look, you left the burden of proof on all of us regarding your husband's convictions. We found him in the National Sex Offender Registry and discovered the newspaper article explaining the charges. If you want to turn around and say all of that are lies, well then honey, the burden of proof is now on you. Feel we aren't deserving of your "proof"? Then kindly... what was it you said earlier? Oh, kindly FRO.
For the record, the things I complained about when I was on bed rest were things like the floors being dirty and the bathrooms not being cleaned. Oh noes. He shopped, cooked meals, answered my every request, kept the yard work done and took care of laundry while looking for a job.
All that maid did was vacuum our carpets, wipe down our counters and wet mop the floors. If I had really needed someone to help me out then I would've asked my mom to get a housekeeper. Again, never asked any of you for anything.
Sweetie, this is probably why you don't have friends other than Alicia...where is she?! Not like she has a job anymore right?
That will never happen. In true narcissistic fashion, she truly believes she's done nothing wrong and that we've all wronged her in some way.
A person with narcissistic personality disorder may:
React to criticism with rage, shame, or humiliation
Take advantage of other people to achieve his or her own goals
Have excessive feelings of self-importance
Exaggerate achievements and talents
Be preoccupied with fantasies of success, power, beauty, intelligence, or ideal love
Have unreasonable expectations of favorable treatment
Need constant attention and admiration
Disregard the feelings of others, and have little ability to feel empathy
Have obsessive self-interest
Pursue mainly selfish goals
but yes, while she was so broke, she constantly told everyone else that complained of money problems how they should handle their money. How they should cut back on cable or eating out. God it must suck to be so awesome as she is. *eyeroll*
So would you have told me about your husband's past before or after we met up for dinner?
While Mike was out of work and I was unable to work our in laws paid for their pictures (which I posted about on the group). They paid for the 1 year package because there was a discount that way. Also, our photographer is very affordable because she hasn't been in business very long. ALL of the things we have for the twins were either gifted to us at showers, purchased by my MIL (I made it no secret she is a shopaholic) or purchased at consignment. Also, about the internet, it did get turned off briefly but we were able to keep our cell phones on because we have no home phone. It was a matter of necessity. Before Mike was working my mom or Mike's parents had to help us out with that a time or two...as was the case with the utilities. What grandparent is going to let their children or grandchildren go without heat or water if they have the means to help? Now that we are both working...and working from home...internet is a necessity. We can't work without it.
Next questions please
P.S. we still don't have cable and only eat out when we have a gift card that we got from our bank rewards program or from our in laws for a special occasion.
It's not that I think I'm awesome, it's just that I've learned to live frugally.
Meh, I never said anything malicious about my in laws, resented them or tried to conspire on ways to keep them from my kids. I just said that they were TOO generous and I didn't have room for ALL the stuff she bought. Also, when she gave my daughter iced coffee....that was a hot mess. No denying it.
It seems like if you still have all my posts you could remember...or at least look things up before you speak.
The Army...but not the reserves. Gah.
You say next question please, but you have ignored so many... is that, or is it not your photo that was associated with several accounts named "mysteriousmommy" on different message boards, and did you, or did you not proceed to remove your picture from those accounts after your AE was outted on the bump?
What branch was Mike discharged from, and on what grounds was he discharged? What was his discharge code?
What is this supposed proof you have that would magically make everyone understand and believe your claims that he's a victim of bad reporting?
I'm honestly surprised he's legally allowed to be around these children.
Doesn't it bother you to know that your kids can never have their friends over to play or that your husband will never be allowed to go to school events? How horribly embarrassing that will be for your children as they grow up. In the end, I hope they can grow up to be a better and more sane individuals than their parents.
I imagine she's frantically searching the internet for a believable discharge code right now.
And now that I've said this, she'll probably give us the old, "I don't owe you bishes anything!".
OK, here goes...not that I think it will make any difference...
I apologize for lying to all of you by omission. I did not think the information was pertinent because my husband never had access to any of your information (except for the one time after I gave birth that I asked him to type a message, but I opened the page, handed him the computer and he gave it right back).
I will not apologize for accepting the money because I desperately needed it, (and regardless of how things turned out I still am touched by the generosity you displayed by sending it.
@Ss (if I was trying to do that I never would've mentioned Mike's criminal background in the first place), it's just that I thought it was TOO personal.
I can't provide any of you with rock solid proof (yeah, yeah, go ahead and say "that's convenient") because it's all sitting in the courthouse where his trial took place.
Hate me all you want and think of me what you will, but I still care for all of you and I think of you on a daily basis. Why do I stalk TB? Because I miss all of you. You rarely post here,and when you do it's usually to bash me, but oh well.
So there. That's that. Go ahead and pick that apart and tear me down some more. I know you want to, and honestly at this point I'm used to it. The only thing that remotely hurt my feelings in all of this was the mother gorilla and spicy chicken sandwich pictures because seriously that was a hot mess. Husker wishing harm on my babies pissed me off. The rest of it rolled right off my back.
Nicolette (sorry if I spelled that wrong), I already answered your question. ^^
https://www.personal-development.com/community/members/mysteriousmommy.813/recent-content
Is this you posting on this site?
From the other thread:
"Aww, aren't you a sweetheart to say those things after all the crap you've talked about me over the last couple of months. For the record, since what happened you you petty people I've actually gone to a lot of people in my life and explained to them the situations and it's amazing how knowing the whole story (not just my version, but the version backed up by fact...ie. documentation from the court) makes people see and understand the whole story. You see, it's a funny thing about newspaper reporters.... There's this little thing in our country called freedom of speech and they are free to print whatever they like, whether it's true or not. However, thankfully I have the documentation from his trial to present as real evidence...not that any of you asked for or cared to see any of that.
Anyway, thanks for your feigned concern, but we are doing just fine. You can stop wasting your time worrying about us. We are all doing just great. "
So you've backed up your version to others with "fact...ie. documentation from the court". Are we to assume then you physically took them to the courthouse and had this wondrous documentation shown to them? Because here you are implying you do not have this documentation on hand.
Refund everyone in the group their money and the war will be over.
Allison... just so you know, I took screenshots of those profiles before you removed your picture. Want to reconsider denying that you are MysteriousMommy?