Okay, I have a black tie formal event to attend in late October (I'll be a little over 4 months). I was thinking of hitting the outlets this weekend and seeing if I could find a dress. Am I dumb to buy something that early? I hate to wait until the last couple weeks before the event and then not find something.
I was thinking a high waisted hopefully flowy something because more than anything I want to be comfy.
any thoughts, suggestions?

Re: Formal Dress thoughts/help (from current moms please)
ohhh, I did not know this.
DH told me this too. Maybe I should listen. I'm a cheapskate who likes to find uber pricey dresses for dirt cheap...but that requires some earlybird outlet shopping. Maybe I just splurge this one time and hope I can resell it or alter it after the belly goes away.
I'd wait and hit the outlets next month. At 4 months, and as a FTM, you may not be in maternity clothes by then (and maternity clothes will likely be way too big). You will likely fit better in a regular dress than a maternity dress at that point.
One note if you do shop this weekend - my ribcage got wider before my belly did, so if you do go this weekend and find a great dress with a 'forgiving' cut across your belly, keep in mind how it fits along your bra line (I went from a 32 to a 36, but not from weight gain, just from an expanding ribcage).