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December 2011 Moms
indiana101
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For the Record
indiana101
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I was not the mole. I swore on my baby's life that I wasn't. I can't believe that isn't enough for some people.
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Re: For the Record
I think the majority of us here believe you and are waiting for the immature HS mentality that a couple women seem to have to blow over.
Quite frankly, I'm fed up with it.
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sibling love
Success After Losses. I carry your
For the record, no one MADE her do anything. She voluntarily swore on her babies life. We woman are not like that.
OP, I'm sorry you still feel targeted. There's still a lot of suspicion still flying around... it kind of sucks to think we still have someone in our group who could screenshot anything we say at any point and share it with whoever they want.
Success After Losses. I carry your
To OP: it makes me sick that you felt you needed to swear on your child's life, whether you were told to or felt bullied or pushed to that point. It's facebook for crying out loud.
BUSTED.
No one made her do anything. I usually don't get involved in this drama because I am way too old and crotchety for this high school sht, but this whole thread is beyond ridiculous. In fact, this whole FB1 vs TB vs FB2 is beyond tired.
Time to move on, ladies.
Not even remotely funny. I find this highly offensive.
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sibling love
Not funny at all. You have a very sick mind to even think that is funny.
I wasn't trying to be funny. I was pointing out the ridiculousness of the hysterics in this thread.
I want to thank the few bad apples for ruining the bump for me. I used to look forward to coming here, catching up with you ladies and your LO. Now it has just turned into drama that I don't need in my life.
It is quite obvious by now that there are certain personalities that just don't, and will never, get along. It is also obvious why we have two FB groups stemming from the same BMB. I would really like to see the average age comparison between the two boards, because I'm pretty sure one is comprised of older women. I'll let you guess which one I think that is.
I'm happy to stick to FB2, which maybe puppies and rainbows, but I love seeing the LOs and talking about different milestones with other moms. It is also a great place to go to get advice - something I used to feel about this board. Now i'm too worried about being attacked every time I hit the 'post' button.
I've stopped caring what others will think when I hit the post button. I stay out of if, I don't post on the FB threads and don't care about the drama. I do wish that people who are mature adults could just forget about it and move on. I've been busy with work so I don't really have time to post, but honestly, all this stupid FB crap is really ruining this board. Which may be exactly what some people want. I just find it very ironic how people left this board because WE were so mean, full of drama, and immature. It seems like the only drama and meanness we have on this board is NOT coming from regular posters at all.
I don't think you read my initial response. Never once did I get hysterical. I even carefully worded my post by stating "a few select women from the group". I was not lumping together the group as a whole.
Whether or not you were trying to be funny is not my point, maybe I should have clarified by saying mentioning someone's location, purchasing weapons, and swearing on a baby's life is absolutely not cool and wrong in my book.
I have largely stayed away from this until now, but I'm really tired of a couple people who only post here to stir up drama, yes haleymay I am talking to you and a handful of other women who only post when there is drama.
I saw the screenshots, so I am fully aware of what occurred in FB 1 and FB 2. I think it's ridiculous. There are obviously a couple woman h*ll bent on bullying people and I for one will not tolerate it anymore.
I apologise for the added drama that this will most likely create and for if I rambled...
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sibling love
I need to do this....
And we never know when they decide to grace us with their presence...
Insinuating there is a mole in FB 2 (not that I really care) and in the same post telling everyone to "let's all move on" strikes me as hypocritical...but I digress...
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sibling love
There are a bunch of people in your group that are not impressed.
What I am saying is that no one is blameless in this situation. Suggesting we all move on is not hypocritical.
Very true, ILMl. This has always been the case.
Acutally, most everyone except maybe 12 people are blameless. That is silly.
Actually, by no one I meant neither FB1 or FB2.
I think we are just going to have to agree to disagree here. There is a small handful of people who I personally blame for instigating this HS BS. I regret getting sucked into this drama and I apologise to the regular posters here who use this board for what is intended to be if I added more unnecessary drama.
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sibling love
You are right! This post proves to us just how old, and mature you are! Thank you.
Just curious what grounds she was reported on?
Way to kick a grieving mother when she's down.... that's special kind of low. And good luck reporting someone for a non-existant violation when you can't even spell their name correctly.
I've been trying to stay out of this FB/TB drama, but I very strongly feel the need to speak up in support of my December sisters. They are the most loving, supportive group of women I have ever met. Have there been instances where cattiness and references to TB members have come up? Sure, but when I tell you that is such a small fragment of what goes on in that group.... I can't emphasize it enough. This assumption that all we do is sit around and bash TB and FB2 is complete and utter bullcrap.
You know what else is nonsense? The notion that we're all a bunch of youg, naive, immatire bebes. There's plenty of 30+ year old women, myself included, and regardless of any of our ages, we all have lots to contribute other than high school nonsense.
I still post on TB a lot. Not this board anymore really, as I feel it's become really cliquey. But I think it's absurd and ridiculous that anyone from either affilifation would feel the need to pledge their undying allegiance or swear anything on their children's lives. Let's be real people, and try to keep a little perspective!
I thought the mole saw its shadow, got scared, and ran away, no....? Or was that the groundhog? I have such a hard time keeping track of all the rodents!
I'm assuming this is you staying out of it?
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sibling love
Some nonsensical banter is hardly the same as throwing around some of the harsh, personal attacks I have seen on this thread! It's one thing to make light of a ridiculous situation, it's entirely another to personally mess with people.
Kwinkle did not drag her into this, Fletcha commented in this thread earlier. All kwinkle quoted was a portion of your copied FB screenshot. Kwinkle in no way stated anything offensive.
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sibling love
Untrue. Sorry, but anyone who does anything to upset a grieving mother is in the wrong. There's no reason for it whatsoever.