FFFC!

bellre · August 2012

Let's do this!

CDCbaby · August 2012

I've got a confession that makes me look like a complete weirdo.....

But DH and I were laughing about how much I am peeing these days. And I asked him how many times he thinks he pees in a day. and he was like "I don't know, 5 or 6?" . Then I realized, I really was curious just how many times I pee in a day.....

So the other day, every time I peed a made a little mark on a piece of paper. Including the 3 or 4 times I get up at night, I peed TWENTY SEVEN times in a 24 hour period!! Ridiculous!

Mrschica · August 2012

I hate flavored milk... With a passion! I can deal with chocolate, get grossed out by vanilla, and cannot even look at strawberry milk!!! I feel like a mean mom, but LO will never drink those in my house.

lady dixneuf · August 2012

CDCbaby:
.So the other day, every time I peed a made a little mark on a piece of paper. Including the 3 or 4 times I get up at night, I peed TWENTY SEVEN times in a 24 hour period!! Ridiculous!

oh I am sure I easily go this much in a day. I can tell you now, at 11:26 AM I've already gone 4 times.

CDCbaby · August 2012

lady dixneuf:
CDCbaby:
.So the other day, every time I peed a made a little mark on a piece of paper. Including the 3 or 4 times I get up at night, I peed TWENTY SEVEN times in a 24 hour period!! Ridiculous!

oh I am sure I easily go this much in a day. I can tell you now, at 11:26 AM I've already gone 4 times.

ha, thanks!

and yeah, it's not so much that I think the amount that I peed is that crazy....Just had to laugh at myself for the fact that I am nerdy/scientific enough to keep track of the number of times

sjgurl784 · August 2012

Mrschica:
I hate flavored milk... With a passion! I can deal with chocolate, get grossed out by vanilla, and cannot even look at strawberry milk!!! I feel like a mean mom, but LO will never drink those in my house.

I don't even like chocolate! I also will only drink 1%. Skim milk is like water and sometimes looks blue, and whole milk is just way too thick.

My FFFC: I've reached the point where I can only get some sleep if I have the entire bed to myself. I don't have the heart to kick H out though because he's been so wonderful and at least deserves a good night's sleep, right? I miss sleep.

AngelSong76 · August 2012

This discussion about milk makes me want to get some Krispy Kreme donuts and a little container of whole milk. It's the only time I let myself drink whole milk and I really want some right now!

CnAnA · August 2012

I know it's horrible, but there is a particular pregnant woman at work who I judge HARD. There's lots of reasons why that I won't get into, but she's kind of a moron. Anyway, pre-pregnancy she was, well, kind of perfect. 5'10", long and lean. Skinny little everything. It gives me great pleasure that her ass is getting huge during her pregnancy. Like I said, I know that makes me a terrible person. But there it is.

sjgurl784 · August 2012

AngelSong76:
This discussion about milk makes me want to get some Krispy Kreme donuts and a little container of whole milk. It's the only time I let myself drink whole milk and I really want some right now!

I haven't had KK donuts in so long. The closest one to us is in a casino 45 minutes away. Mmmm, fresh goodness.

NerdHerder29 · August 2012

Sometimes when my daughter makes me frustrated or angry, I'm not very nice to her. It's something that was getting better the last few months, but this last week has been really hard.

daronsmommy · August 2012

Hope this doesn't bring anyone else down, I just have to get it out.

Somedays I feel like taking DS and running away. I feel so alone, I have no "real" friends and my family is all over an hour away. I don't feel like DH cares at all, I was in so much pain the other day I was in tears, he didn't even ask what was wrong or if I was okay. I'm scared that he won't help at all when this LO gets here and I will be left to take care of DS and a newborn all by myself. Which I will do, but I shouldn't have to. The only time he takes care of DS right now is when I'm at work, well I assume he takes care of him, but I'm not here to see it. If I am in the house, DS is my responsibility and DH hardly pays attention to him. I know when SD is here she puts DS down for naps most of the time while I'm at work. I think part of it is my anxiety as I am that overprotective mom.

Sorry for the rant, which I'm sure is all over the place. My mind is going a million miles an hour.

CnAnA · August 2012

daronsmommy:
Hope this doesn't bring anyone else down, I just have to get it out. Somedays I feel like taking DS and running away. I feel so alone, I have no "real" friends and my family is all over an hour away. I don't feel like DH cares at all, I was in so much pain the other day I was in tears, he didn't even ask what was wrong or if I was okay. I'm scared that he won't help at all when this LO gets here and I will be left to take care of DS and a newborn all by myself. Which I will do, but I shouldn't have to. The only time he takes care of DS right now is when I'm at work, well I assume he takes care of him, but I'm not here to see it. If I am in the house, DS is my responsibility and DH hardly pays attention to him. I know when SD is here she puts DS down for naps most of the time while I'm at work. I think part of it is my anxiety as I am that overprotective mom. Sorry for the rant, which I'm sure is all over the place. My mind is going a million miles an hour.

((hugs)) If you do decide to run, run to Alaska. You can hang out with me. You make me giggle, and Daron is just to stinking cute for words.

Libra123 · August 2012

My BF's farts smell horrible and he always does it when I'm about to go into a room or jump in bed. SOooo since I've been uber gassy during my pregnancy, I've been farting on him in bed while he sleeps (side to butt or back to butt)..just point and let her rip..hehe im soo bad Devil

Dana327 · August 2012

I judge people in their 40s having their first kid/thinking of having one in a year or two(mainly my uncles want to have one he is 47 and his wife is 42/43). I know for a fact that they have no life insurance, savings, and he definatly doesn't have good health and a lot of disease in family that can be inherited, not to mention his liking towards alcohol. I just think about the children and what will happen to them if the parents died young in theird 60s, early 70s. How old is too old in everyones opinion (I know everyone is differen)? My dads friend is 51 and has a one year old daughter and everyone always thinks its his grandaughter.

Starry Again · August 2012

daronsmommy - feel free to vent away. I am sorry you are going through such a rough time. I hope things improve soon!

My FFFC is basically since going on bed rest / modified BR I have had constant PMS style meltdowns. I feel like I can't control my emotions which is very unlike me. I keep hoping it will improve but so far, not so good. I am also exhausted from the blood pressure meds. Yet still, I am terrified of PTL so pretty much I feel screwed either way.

bellre · August 2012

I guess I'm not the only one in a "eff it all" mindset these days because this has to be one of the lamest FFFC threads.

I'm sad that school starts for the girls next week. My reason? I really enjoy them being home during the summer because more chores get done and the house stays pretty darn clean. I'm going to miss all those extra chores getting done. Crying

NerdHerder29 · August 2012

Also, I can't wait to be able to drink and smoke pot again.

milkandhoney77 · August 2012

daronsmommy - I'm so sorry you are feeling this way. I wish I could help.

My confession is I'm sick of (my own) bump shots. My increasing belly size is no longer that interesting to me. I think I'll take a break for a few weeks.

milkandhoney77 · August 2012

And along the same lines . . . I think those plaster belly casts women do are ridiculous. My aunt was visiting me (in Northern CA) from WI and she saw an add for them in one of those free magazines that market to uber-wealth SAHMs and she about died laughing she thought it was the most absurd thing she'd ever seen.

She also thought Pinkberry was "the most disgusting thing I've ever put in my mouth," which of course led to a discussion of all the disgusting things she'd put in her mouth, but that's another story.

lady dixneuf · August 2012

Darronsmommy- I am so sorry you're having a hard time. You have my email address, please feel free to use it.

My confession - my upstairs neighbors are away and let their college-aged daughters friends from out of town stay there. They've done this before. These kids are loud and are not respectful. This group is particularly bad. 2 of my other neighbors have left signs for them to quiet down in the hallways at night. Last night they were playing BAD techno until I finally went up until 11PM saying they had to turn it OFF not down, OFF - it shakes our floor. My H also called the owner and she spoke to them as we were not the first to complain. I wasn't mean, just clear that it's not ok. I made sure to go up looking huge and braless. I pointed out that they were in NYC and why not go out?

I had crazy insomina last night and didn't fall asleep until about 3 AM. At 5:20 Am someone starts buzzing our downstairs door buzzer about 4 LONG times. I was so effing pissed. I said "HELLO?" and they were like "oh dude, wrong apt."

I was going to call again but when I had to leave, at 8:20 AM, I figured they were all asleep. I made sure that both H (who had left around 8) and myself LEANED on the buzzer to their apt as many times as possible before heading to work.

I am very proud of this solution, lol!

( I then texted the owner who said she asked them to find another place to stay as other neighbors had complained several times)

watkinae · August 2012

amelianickel:

And along the same lines . . . I think those plaster belly casts women do are ridiculous. My aunt was visiting me (in Northern CA) from WI and she saw an add for them in one of those free magazines that market to uber-wealth SAHMs and she about died laughing she thought it was the most absurd thing she'd ever seen.

OMG me too! I think they're so stupid and weird. I want to know what you do with it after it's done.

My FFFC is that I HATE writing thank you cards. I've already had both of my showers and have only managed to get 6 thank you cards out. I've already addressed the envelopes, but hate all the writing I have to do inside the card. I'm an accountant, not a writer!

Cantw82bamom · August 2012

https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/68365116.aspx

well heres mine.. I read this story, and Im not happy for her one bit... In fact I want to punch her in the face... The End... Embarrassed

Cantw82bamom · August 2012

https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/68365116.aspx

well heres mine.. I read this story, and Im not happy for her one bit... In fact I want to punch her in the face... The End... Embarrassed

Mlowery11 · August 2012

Now that my due date is right around the corner, I'm starting to get worried that I'm going to turn into one of those SM's that clearly favors this baby over SS and SD. I'm scared that I won't balance my attention between all of them fairly and this bothers me. I don't want SS and SD to ever think that I favor anyone child more than the other.

carrotsoup70 · August 2012

I hate it when people use my driveway to turn around. It's only 3 houses until the intersection...turn around there...or just drive around the block. (A guy who visits the neighbor across the street does it even if I am standing in my driveway. AHOLE!) I also hate those that park their car across the sidewalk. If you do this I will walk through your yard and not go into the street. It's my passive aggressive way of saying eff you.

Mrschica · August 2012

Here's another one...

I went to get waxed yesterday, and there's a patch that I told the girl not to do because I just couldn't take the pain anymore.

Needless to say, I am seriously hoping I don't need another cervix check at my appointment on Tuesday!

Rennan7 · August 2012

1. I have been having lots of sexy sex dreams, and none of them have been about my husband o_0

2. I'm so tired of people who don't have jobs coming to my business to visit me during working hours. Seriously people, just because you don't work, doesn't mean that I don't! Why don't you come to my house later? Oh wait, your husband and kids will be home so YOU"ll be busy then? My bad...

3. I am scared to let my dad's girlfriend hold baby when he/she gets here. That woman is the most anxious person I know and EVERY time we go over there she spills or drops something. I would really rather avoid that something being my baby!

4. I am having a really bad bad day and had so many biotchy/depressing confessions, but after reading everyone else's biotchy/depressing confessions, I decided to try to give some funnier ones instead. So watch out for the next FFFC!

daronsmommy · August 2012

Mlowery11:
Now that my due date is right around the corner, I'm starting to get worried that I'm going to turn into one of those SM's that clearly favors this baby over SS and SD. I'm scared that I won't balance my attention between all of them fairly and this bothers me. I don't want SS and SD to ever think that I favor anyone child more than the other.nbsp;

You won't balance your attention fairly because your LO is an infant and will need more attention. Also, as much as you love your stepkids, your love for your LO will be different. I adore my SD, and always said I loved her as if she were my own, but that's just not true. I love her and DS differently. DS is mine and it is my job to protect him, sometimes from his own sister. Although I want what's best for SD, she is not mine and there is only so much I can do.

I really hope that no one has to go through all the crap I did after DS was born.

ErickaJesicka · August 2012

carrotsoup70:
I hate it when people use my driveway to turn around. It's only 3 houses until the intersection...turn around there...or just drive around the block. (A guy who visits the neighbor across the street does it even if I am standing in my driveway. AHOLE!) I also hate those that park their car across the sidewalk. If you do this I will walk through your yard and not go into the street. It's my passive aggressive way of saying eff you.

I know how you feel. We live in a court and one of the houses at the end of the court always has like 10 cars at it. So for some reason they think its ok to park in front of OUR house instead of their actual next door neighbors house. It drives me NUTS! Our across the street neighbor also has a guest over several times a week and even though the street is empty in front of their house they park in front of ours as well. I know we dont own the street or anything but I just think its rude to park there when there is open space in front of your own house.

IAM3Bs · August 2012

I still love Creed and am super-stoked they reunited.

Apparently that is a mortal sin to some bumpies Big Smile

daronsmommy · August 2012

IAM3Bs:
I still love Creed and am superstoked they reunited.
Apparently that is a mortal sin to some bumpies

I love Creed as well. Their song With Arms Wide Open was one of the songs I put on DS's 1st birthday video.

bellre · August 2012

Mlowery11:
Now that my due date is right around the corner, I'm starting to get worried that I'm going to turn into one of those SM's that clearly favors this baby over SS and SD. I'm scared that I won't balance my attention between all of them fairly and this bothers me. I don't want SS and SD to ever think that I favor anyone child more than the other.

You and me both!! This has been on my mind consistently since the beginning, and now I'm really can't shake that fear.

Starry Again · August 2012

I am not sure how a BH feels different than a cramp or baby movement. Nor do I really care. I am not sure if I've had them and I'm fine with that.

bellre · August 2012

I have another one:

The b!tches in the front office are going to be taking care of my workload while I am gone...I have been saying for weeks that we need to sit down and go over my stuff so that when the time comes, they will know what to do. They have been blowing me off and haven't really given a rat's a$$. SO...I hope the baby comes "unexpectedly" (aka not after the day that I'm supposed to leave) so that they have to figure everything out on their own. I'm tired of being proactive and at this point don't give a fluck myself if they know what the heck to do when I'm gone.

ChrisG83 · August 2012

I have been trying to get my husband to eat better so I secretly put fresh spinach and wheat germ in his salad. He doesn't notice and hasn't found it in the fridge.

sjgurl784 · August 2012

LauraT25:

A post on the BF board made me think of another: I am all for breastfeeding, but I am absolutely not comfortable with the idea of nursing in front of my in-laws. I don't care if that sets 'the movement' back, I don't even want to do it with a cover on.

Plus I kind of like the idea of having an excuse to get away from them. Between nursing and sleeping when she's sleeping, I have a feeling I will be spending a lot of time alone in our bedroom while they visit. At first that thought made me feel like a bad host, but I really don't give a crap since they are insisting on coming sooner than I'd prefer. And yeah, I will probably resent being back there and not able to just roam around my house like I would if they weren't visiting, but I almost hope it kind of puts them in their place and they realize I was right.

I completely agree. Especially in the beginning when I'm trying to figure it out, it might just be easier to go in a bedroom so I don't have to worry about modesty. Plus my socially awkward FIL is bound to make obnoxious comments about it (or giggle like a school girl) so I'd rather just have some alone time with LO anyways.

lady dixneuf · August 2012

daronsmommy:
Mlowery11:
Now that my due date is right around the corner, I'm starting to get worried that I'm going to turn into one of those SM's that clearly favors this baby over SS and SD. I'm scared that I won't balance my attention between all of them fairly and this bothers me. I don't want SS and SD to ever think that I favor anyone child more than the other.nbsp;
You won't balance your attention fairly because your LO is an infant and will need more attention. Also, as much as you love your stepkids, your love for your LO will be different. I adore my SD, and always said I loved her as if she were my own, but that's just not true. I love her and DS differently. DS is mine and it is my job to protect him, sometimes from his own sister. Although I want what's best for SD, she is not mine and there is only so much I can do. I really hope that no one has to go through all the crap I did after DS was born.

I understand this totally, especially after SD's BM told her that step mother's never really love their step children as much as they do their own children.

(she's awesome. who tells a kid that?)

Luckily SD is old enough to understand that infants need more attention that 7 year olds...and she goes back and forth and will continue to be an only child at her mother's house. She is also aware that her mother is mentally ill.

lady dixneuf · August 2012

IAM3Bs:
I still love Creed and am super-stoked they reunited.

Apparently that is a mortal sin to some bumpies

ooh that IS bad!

tatercater · August 2012

sjgurl784:
LauraT25:

A post on the BF board made me think of another: I am all for breastfeeding, but I am absolutely not comfortable with the idea of nursing in front of my in-laws. I don't care if that sets 'the movement' back, I don't even want to do it with a cover on.

Plus I kind of like the idea of having an excuse to get away from them. Between nursing and sleeping when she's sleeping, I have a feeling I will be spending a lot of time alone in our bedroom while they visit. At first that thought made me feel like a bad host, but I really don't give a crap since they are insisting on coming sooner than I'd prefer. And yeah, I will probably resent being back there and not able to just roam around my house like I would if they weren't visiting, but I almost hope it kind of puts them in their place and they realize I was right.

I completely agree. Especially in the beginning when I'm trying to figure it out, it might just be easier to go in a bedroom so I don't have to worry about modesty. Plus my socially awkward FIL is bound to make obnoxious comments about it (or giggle like a school girl) so I'd rather just have some alone time with LO anyways.

Oh I am with you guys. My FIL always makes uncomfortable comments, and my MIL is so dang nosey. I'd really rather go off by myself.

tatercater · August 2012

lady dixneuf:
IAM3Bs:

I still love Creed and am super-stoked they reunited.

Apparently that is a mortal sin to some bumpies

ooh that IS bad!

I'm with Agent 19 on this one.

jessilynnwilliams · August 2012

I'm pretty sure I take the cake for being the worst wife/person in general with mine...

My hubby needs to decide if he is going to re-enlist by the end of Sept. He's applied for a couple civilian jobs, but not yet heard anything back. So, as of right now, he's set on re-uping, just waiting a little longer to see if any job offers come in.

I'm pissed at him about even entertaining the idea of re-enlisting. He'll deploy when our daughter is about 6 months old, and come home when she's about 16 months old. He will miss sooo much! I know he's doing it to provide for our family... but it just upsets me so much lately.

Yeah... I feel bad even confessing this!

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